Japanese fathers are famously overgenerous to their children (quite the opposite of what most Westerners would presume and wish to think), extremely permissive and obliging with their little ones, and so it was quite normal that I should be as well; though with a girl like Sunny, I should probably have exercised more rigor and sternness. But as it often was, I let the issue go in favor of moving forward, to the next hour and day. My hope was that she would change as she grew into a young woman, and that the minor indications of willfulness would gradually fall from her like any child’s clutch upon a security blanket.
I, too, had been a difficult child. For me, it was the heady time of adolescence that unmasked and clarified my sense of obligations, so much so that I now view that period as the true beginning of “my life.” This was when I first appreciated the comforts of real personhood, and its attendant secrets, among which is the harmonious relation between a self and his society. There is a mutualism that at its ideal is both powerful and liberating. For me, it was readily leaving the narrow existence of my family and our ghetto of hide tanners and renderers. Most all of us were ethnic Koreans, though we spoke and lived as Japanese, if ones in twilight. Of course, I didn’t leave on my own. No one of my family’s circumstance could expect to change his station, at least without a lifetime of struggle. But I was fortunate to score exceptionally high on several achievement tests, and was one of a few boys of my kind to be identified and enrolled in a special school in the nearby large city.
I lived with a well-to-do childless couple, a gear factory owner and his wife, who treated me as well as a son, providing me with every material need and advantage. I remember being accompanied by them on the first day of school, in my new serge uniform with brass buttons that they had fitted just for me, and how the other boys had let us pass without even a murmur, this prominent family Kurohata (a name, as is self-evident, I’ve since shortened). I think of them most warmly, as I do my natural parents, but to neither would I ascribe the business of having reared me, for it seems clear that it was the purposeful society that did so, and really nothing and no one else. I was more than grateful. And I knew even then as a boy of twelve how I should always give myself over to its vigilance, entrusting to its care everything I could know or ever hope for.
My Sunny, I thought, would do much the same. Not be so thankful or beholden to me, necessarily, but at least she’d be somewhat appreciative of the providence of institutions that brought her from the squalor of the orphanage — the best of which can be only so happy — to an orderly, welcoming suburban home in America, with a hopeful father of like-enough race and sufficient means. But now, sitting with Veronica, I realize the obvious mistakes that were made in regard to Sunny. Firstly, I shouldn’t have made my desire for a child so paramount as to cloud my good judgment, which is what happened when I was interviewed by the woman at the agency. She had warned me on the telephone that it was exceedingly rare for a single man to be granted an adoption, that in fact there was no precedent for it and so really no reason for a meeting. I insisted, and when we met face-to-face she was able to understand the earnestness of my desire for a child, though of course earnestness should never be solely enough. I brought along a large donation to the agency, this beyond the regular expenses, as well as a like sum for the woman, which I explained as a most proper gift in my former homeland, and which would be followed by another. This wasn’t actually proper, however, but she stopped talking and discreetly slipped the rice paper — wrapped package into her desk drawer, and on my way out she said she would see what was possible for a man in my special situation.
My second error was insisting on a female infant or child, when I should have known that a girl would likely do best with a maternal presence. But I wanted a girl, a daughter — I was (as I think of it now) strangely unmovable on the issue — and in the end the agency woman called to say they had found one, without any further explanation. My desire for a girl was unknown to me right up to the moment the agency woman spoke of locating a boy for me, but I interrupted her immediately and explained how I’d always hoped for a daughter, the words suddenly streaming from my mouth as though I’d long practiced the speech. I found myself speaking of a completeness, the unitary bond of a daughter and father. Of harmony and balance. The woman seemed impressed, or pretended to be, and when she called several weeks later with news of a suitable orphan, a girl from the city of Pusan, in Korea, I was overcome with a feeling that I can only describe as relief. There were no Japanese children available, but it didn’t matter to me anymore. I thought only of the moment of her arrival, which I had hoped would serve to mark the recommencement of my days.
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IT IS HALF PAST SIX, and Veronica’s shift is all but done. Too soon, I think, her mother will curl the blue-and-white police cruiser around the parking circle and let the siren whoop sharply just once, to let her know she’s there. I’m to be discharged by Dr. Weil in the morning, and as Veronica’s shift doesn’t start until mid-afternoon, I won’t see her again unless I make a special trip, which I will consider, for I know, too, that Mrs. Hickey’s son, Patrick, is in the children’s ICU. Mrs. Hickey called early this morning to the nurses’ station to check on my condition, and though I was fine to talk I asked Nurse Dolly to tell her I was still sleeping. We’d made tentative plans to meet here at the hospital, and of course my unexpected stay would seem good timing (of a sort) for a visit, but a part of me doesn’t want to talk to Mrs. Hickey just now, or even see her face.
Last night at three, while Nurse Dolly was napping, I unhooked myself from the monitors and rose from my bed. I crept past the nurses’ station to the elevator bank, and though I wasn’t intending it, when the doors opened I pressed the button for the sixth floor, to the unit where Patrick Hickey lay.
I remembered the room number from Mrs. Hickey, which was easy for me to note because it was also the name of an anti-bacterial treatment we often used during the war, a solution of Salvarsan that was known as “606,” the number of its compound denotation. It’s one of those queer numbers that can appear with inexplicable frequency in one’s life. In any case, the door to the room was ajar, and I slipped in without a sound, not having to trip the latch. I was breathing with some labor, though, from the exertion of walking quickly and perhaps the oddness of what I was doing, which in retrospect was completely silly. With flowers or a stuffed animal in hand, I could have asked one of the nurses if I could enter and look at him, and they would have simply waved me in. Instead I stole inside the half-lighted room, padding breathlessly in my slippers toward his bed. He was taking oxygen, which wasn’t what made him appear so beset and wan; it was that he was amazingly slight and small, as though he were four or five years old instead of eight. With his weakened heart, he’d never grown as he should have, his wrists too delicate, it seemed, even to lift the tiny hands. But it was the features of his face that I could not look away from, his brush of hair, his nose, his tender, scant mouth. The sheer lids of his eyes. He looked like his mother, if his mother were boyish and unformed. He lay with a sheet pulled up to his neck, and I had a strong impulse to draw it back so that I might see his chest, where they would open him if they could find a suitable heart.
Once, during the war, I witnessed our outpost’s doctor pull apart the ribs of a man in order to hand-massage his heart. It’s a strange technique to see, the procedure at once God-like and lowly animal. The patient was a Burmese man, a cobbler who was found stealing from the supply tent and who was condemned to death by beheading. But the doctor, a Captain Ono, asked the commanding officer if he would commute the sentence and give the man over to him, for purposes of instruction. So the morning of his execution, the cobbler was brought to the medical tent instead of the killing yard, where Captain Ono gathered us medics and interested others, including the commander, and put him into a half-sleep with a rag soaked in ether. The doctor, gloveless, maskless, as were the rest of us, quickly cut down his chest with a scalpel and then used the bone saw and the spreader and pushed aside the man’s lungs to reveal his slowly beating, slowly galloping heart. It was all most unreal. Captain Ono himself seemed nonplussed. He took a paddle connected to a modified field telephone with a crank, which he turned quickly several times, and then asked us to give room. He flipped on a switch and then touched the paddle to the heart. It leaped into a faster rhythm, and then it stopped. He stood there for what seemed too long a moment, and then with his hand roughly grabbed the cobbler’s heart and began squeezing. He did this rhythmically and with great purpose until it began beating again. It was nearly magical. He wished to show us a possible emergency maneuver in the field, in instances of the most grievous trauma. Though to me it seemed more academic than anything else. He repeated the exercise three or four times, which surprised him enough that he commented upon the vitality of the particular organ, until the last time, when his hand massage didn’t work. He touched the heart with the paddle but nothing happened, and he attempted another manipulation, making a final remark on the importance of consistent, vigorous action. Then the instruction was over. Captain Ono wiped his hands with the etherizing rag, and the cobbler, solemnly agape, was carted away.