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“The greatest pleasure in life is doing what people say you cannot do.”
— Walter Bagehot
Do you really want to get a kick out of life? Then achieve the unattainable. You will receive a huge amount of satisfaction if you attempt the impossible. Work against the odds. You’ve got nothing to lose, and imagine what you have to gain if you beat them.
Think about the great inventors in history. Just about every one of them was told, “You can’t do that!”
They responded with, “Why not?” and kept going anyway.
Adopt an inventor’s attitude and find pleasure in doing what people say you cannot do. If you practice that one small change in attitude, you may be very surprised at what happens in your life. Can you imagine the unseen doors that might open?
Have you had any experiences in the past where people told you that you were not capable of doing something? They probably used words like “impossible,” “not good enough,” and “crazy” to put you in your place. How did you react? How did their words make you feel? Write in your journal about a few of those experiences if you can recall them.
Now is your chance to get even. No one can tell you what you cannot do. You know for a fact that you are the only one on earth who truly knows the power you hold within you. Ignore the naysayers and get to work. It’s fun to prove them wrong! Pick up some joy when you mentally thumb your nose at the critics and go ahead and achieve your dreams in spite of their misgivings. Make them jealous. When you attempt things people say you cannot do, you are cultivating success.
DAY
289
“Dwell not on the past. Use it to illustrate a point, then leave it behind. Nothing really matters except what you do now in this instant of time. From this moment onwards you can be an entirely different person, filled with love and understanding, ready with an outstretched hand, uplifted and positive in every thought and deed.”
— Eileen Caddy
Mistakes people made in the past are heavy burdens that they often continue to carry with them for no apparent reason. They hold on to things that they regret and assume those things define them. The truth is that your past is not that powerful.
Karrie could have easily been characterized as a “mean girl” in high school. She only associated with the most popular students, and she often put down the teens that she considered to be nerds or geeks. She maliciously ruined the reputations of girls who didn’t deserve it just because she considered them the competition, and she carried on as if she had no regrets.
The mistakes of her past caught up to Karrie. When she grew up a little, she realized that she didn’t like the person she was in high school. Karrie wanted to change, but she felt as though her past defined her. She was a “mean girl,” and that was it. Karrie continued to treat people poorly as an adult, because she couldn’t let go of her high school image.
Your past is very useful as a teacher, but that’s it. You are not your past. You have the opportunity to be anybody you want to be from this point forward. If you want to be kind, all you have to do is change your actions. Leave the past behind. Drop that heavy burden, and step into your true potential.
DAY
290
“There is no room in your mind for negative thoughts. The busier you keep yourself with the particulars of shot assessment and execution, the less chance your mind has to dwell on the emotional. This is sheer intensity.”
— Jack Nicklaus
The routines that sports figures follow provide great examples of ways to achieve success. If you don’t do the work and follow through, then you will lose. Even more importantly, if you don’t believe you’ll win the game, chances are you won’t. If you believe against all odds that you can beat your opponent, you have a pretty good chance of making it happen. The worst player in the league has the potential to beat the number-one person if they believe they can do it. That’s not a fairy tale. It has been done.
Many sports psychologists work with athletes in professional sports, the Olympics, and other high-profile venues, and they ask them to visualize sinking the perfect shot or getting the fastest time. They put the athlete’s imagination to work and couple that with their training. If they can see it, then they have a chance of accomplishing it.
The exercise of visualization works across all areas where one is striving for success. You have to see your dreams in your mind’s eye before you can make them a reality. If you don’t believe you can be a success, there is no way it will happen. On the other hand, if you imagine success and visualize how it would look on you, then you start to believe it is not an unattainable goal. When you believe, you have a chance to achieve.
Do you believe you are capable of achieving your dreams? Close your eyes and visualize how it will happen. See your success—then achieve it.
DAY
291
“You cannot change your destination overnight, but you can change your direction overnight.”
— Jim Rohn
Craig felt completely hopeless. He was buried under a pile of credit-card debt, was two months behind on his mortgage, and to top it off, he had recently been laid off from his job. Success did not look probable. Instead, Craig was on a train headed straight for bankruptcy.
Ever since he lost his job, Craig was frozen in fear. He was afraid to answer his phone, because he was sure it was creditors calling. He didn’t want to hang out with his friends. They would see he was a complete failure. In addition, Craig had no idea where to start to look for a new job. He had been with the same company for twenty years and had never even considered looking for a new position elsewhere. The future looked grim.
Sometimes the outlook is pretty scary. It seems as though you are headed for disaster, and there is no way out. Remember that no matter what you are facing, you always have options. You might be teetering on the edge of a cliff, but you can change your direction at any time.
Take a look at your current situation. If you were on a train, where would you be headed? Is it really where you want to go? If not, what can you do to get off at the next station and change direction? In Craig’s case, he could alter his route immediately by choosing some positive actions. He could make an appointment with an employment agency or call his creditors and explain his situation. Craig was not out of options. He could choose to continue to live in fear, or he could change direction overnight.
DAY
292
“Opportunity is missed by most people because it is dressed in overalls and looks like work.”
— Thomas A. Edison
Would you recognize opportunity if it knocked? What do you think it looks like? Unfortunately, opportunity does not look like a shiny new car or a million-dollar house. It looks like work. In other words, an opportunity might come in the form of a friend who needs you to help them with a catering job, an appliance that needs fixing in your own home, or even a local radio contest.