And, though I could not remember her name, this woman was important to me. My best friend. Forever, I had thought, and even though I didn’t know who she was, I had felt a sense of security with her, of safety.
I wondered briefly if we might still be close, and tried to talk to Ben about it as we drove. He was quiet—not unhappy, but distracted. For a moment I considered telling him everything about the vision, but instead I asked him who my friends were, when we met.
“You had lots of friends,” he said. “You were very popular.”
“Did I have a best friend? Someone special?”
He glanced over at me then. “No,” he said. “I don’t think so. Not particularly.”
I wondered why I could not remember this woman’s name, yet had recalled Keith and Alan.
“You’re sure?” I said.
“Yes,” he said. “I’m sure.” He turned back to face the road. It began to rain. Lights from the shops, and from the neon signs above them, were reflected in the road. There is so much I want to ask him, I thought, but I said nothing and, after a few more minutes, it was too late. We were home, and he had begun cooking. It was too late.
As soon as I had finished writing that, Ben called me down to our dinner. He had set the table and poured glasses of white wine, but I was not hungry and the fish was dry. I left most of my meal. Then—since Ben had cooked—I offered to wash up. I carried the plates into the kitchen and ran hot water into the sink, all the time hoping that later I would be able to make an excuse and come upstairs to read my journal and perhaps write some more. But I could not—to spend so much time alone in our room would arouse suspicion—and so we spent the evening in front of the television.
I could not relax. I thought of my journal and watched the hands of the clock on the mantelpiece creep from nine to ten to ten thirty. Finally, as they approached eleven, I realized I would have no more time tonight, and said, “I think I’m going to turn in. It’s been a long day.”
He smiled, tilting his head. “Okay darling,” he said. “I’ll be up in a moment.”
I nodded, and said okay, but as I left the room, I felt a creeping dread. This man is my husband, I told myself, I am married to him, yet still I felt somehow as if going to bed with him was wrong. I could not remember ever having done so before, and did not know what to expect.
In the bathroom, I used the toilet and brushed my teeth without looking at the mirror or the photos arranged around it. I went into the bedroom and found my nightie folded on my pillow and began to get undressed. I wanted to be ready before he came in, to be under the covers. For a moment, I had the absurd idea that I could pretend to be asleep.
I took off my pullover and looked at myself in the mirror. I saw the cream bra I had put on this morning and, as I did so, had a fleeting vision of myself as a child, asking my mother why she wore one when I did not, and her telling me that one day I would. And now that day was here, and it had not come gradually but instantly. Here, even more obviously than the lines on my face and wrinkles on my hands, was the fact that I was not a girl anymore but a woman. Here, in the soft plumpness of my breasts.
I pulled the nightie over my head and flattened it down. I reached underneath it and unhooked my bra, feeling the weight of my chest as I did so, and then unzipped my trousers and stepped out of them. I did not want to examine my body further, not tonight, and so, once I had peeled off the tights and panties I had put on this morning, I slipped between the covers and, closing my eyes, turned onto my side.
I heard the clock downstairs chime, then, a moment later, Ben came into the room. I did not move but listened to him undress, then felt the sag of the bed as he sat on its edge. He was still for a moment, and then I felt his hand, heavy on my hip.
“Christine?” he said, half-whispering. “Are you awake?” I murmured that I was. “You remembered a friend today?” he said. I opened my eyes and turned onto my back. I could see the broad expanse of his bare back, the fine hair that was scattered over his shoulders.
“Yes,” I said. He turned to me.
“What did you remember?”
I told him, though only vaguely. “A party,” I said. “We were both students, I think.”
He stood up then and turned to get into bed. I saw that he was naked. His penis swung from its dark nest of hair and I had to suppress the urge to giggle. I could not remember ever seeing male genitals before, not even in books, yet they were not unfamiliar to me. I wondered how much of them I knew, what experiences I might have had. Almost involuntarily, I looked away.
“You’ve remembered that party before,” he said as he pulled back the bedclothes. “It comes to you fairly often, I think. You have certain memories that seem to crop up regularly.”
I sighed. So it’s nothing new, he seemed to be saying. Nothing to get excited about. He lay beside me and pulled the covers over us both. He did not turn out the light.
“Do I remember things often?” I said.
“Yes. A few things. Most days.”
“The same things?”
He turned to face me, propping himself on his elbow. “Sometimes,” he said. “Usually. Yes. It’s rare there’s a surprise.”
I looked away from his face and up to the ceiling. “Do I ever remember you?”
He turned to me. “No,” he said. He took my hand. Squeezed it. “But that’s okay. I love you. It’s okay.”
“I must be a dreadful burden to you,” I said.
He moved his hand and began to stroke my arm. There was a crackle of static. I flinched. “No,” he said. “Not at all. I love you.”
He twisted his body into mine then, and kissed my lips.
I closed my eyes. Confused. Did he want to have sex? To me he was a stranger; though intellectually I knew we got into bed together every night, had done so since we were married, still my body had known him for less than a day.
“I’m very tired, Ben,” I said.
He lowered his voice, and began to murmur. “I know, my darling,” he said. He kissed me, softly, on the cheek, my lips, my eyes. “I know.” His hand moved lower, beneath the covers, and I felt a wave of anxiety begin to build within me, almost panic.
“Ben,” I said. “I’m sorry.” I grabbed his hand and stopped its descent. I resisted the urge to fling it away as if it were revolting, and stroked it instead. “I’m tired,” I said. “Not tonight. Okay?”
He said nothing, but withdrew his hand and lay on his back. Disappointment came off him in waves. I did not know what to say. Some part of me thought I should apologize, but some larger part told me I had done nothing wrong. And so we lay in silence, in bed but not touching, and I wondered how often this happens. How often he comes to bed and craves sex, whether I ever want it myself, or even feel able to give it to him, and if this is always what happens, this awkward silence, if I do not.
“Good night, darling,” he said, after a few more minutes, and the tension lifted. I waited until he was snoring softly and slipped out of bed and here, in the spare room, sat down to write this.
I would like so much to remember him. Just once.
Monday, November 12
The clock has just chimed four; it is beginning to get dark. Ben will not be home just yet but, as I sit and write, I listen for his car. The shoebox sits on the floor next to my feet, the tissue paper in which this journal was wrapped spills out of it. If he comes in, I will put my book in the closet and tell him I have been resting. It is dishonest, but not terribly so, and there is nothing wrong with wanting to keep the contents of my journal a secret. I must write down what I have seen. What I have learned. But that doesn’t mean I want someone—anyone—to read it.