“Yes,” I said. “I remember. We had a fire.” I said it without thinking.
He looked at me oddly, his eyes narrowed, pinched tight.
“You remember?” he said.
Suddenly I wasn’t sure. Had he told me about the fire this morning or was I remembering him telling me the other day? Or was it just that I had read it in my journal after breakfast?
“Well, you told me about it.”
“I did?” he said.
“Yes.”
“When?”
When was it? Had it been that morning, or days ago? I thought of my journal, remembered reading it after he’d gone to work. He’d told me about the fire as we sat on Parliament Hill.
I could have told him about my journal then, but something held me back. He seemed less than happy that I had remembered something. “Before you left for work?” I said. “When we looked through the scrapbook. You must have, I suppose.”
He frowned. It felt terrible to be lying to him, but I did not feel able to cope with more revelations. “How would I know otherwise?”
He looked directly at me. “I suppose so.”
I paused for a moment, looking at the handful of photographs in my hand. They were pitifully few, and I could see that the box did not contain many more. Were they really all I would ever have to describe my son’s life?
“How did the fire start?” I said.
The clock on the mantelpiece chimed. “It was years ago. In our old house. The one we lived in before we came here.” I wondered if he meant the one I’d been to. “We lost a lot of things. Books, papers. That kind of stuff.”
“But how did it start?” I said.
For a moment, he said nothing. His mouth began to open and close, and then he said, “It was an accident. Just an accident.”
I wondered what he was not telling me. Had I left a cigarette burning, or the iron plugged in, or a pot to boil dry? I imagined myself in the kitchen I had stood in the day before yesterday, with its concrete countertop and white appliances, but years ago. I saw myself standing over a sizzling fryer, shaking the wire basket that contained the sliced potatoes that I was cooking, watching as they floated to the surface before rolling and sinking back under the oil. I saw myself hear the phone ring, wipe my hands on the apron I had tied around my waist, go into the hall.
What then? Had the oil burst into flames as I took the call, or had I wandered back into the living room, or up to the bathroom, with no recollection of ever having begun to cook dinner?
I don’t know, can never know. But it was kind of Ben to tell me that it had been an accident. Domesticity has so many dangers for someone without a memory, and another husband might have pointed out my mistakes and deficits, might have been unable to resist taking the moral high ground. I touched his arm, and he smiled.
I thumbed through the handful of photographs. There was one of Adam wearing a plastic cowboy hat and a yellow bandanna, aiming a plastic rifle at the person with the camera, and in another he was a few years older; his face thinner, his hair beginning to darken. He was wearing a shirt, buttoned to the neck, and a child’s tie.
“That was taken at school,” said Ben. “An official portrait.” He pointed to the photograph and laughed. “Look. It’s such a shame. The picture’s ruined!”
The elastic of the tie was visible, not tucked under the collar. I ran my hands over the picture. It wasn’t ruined, I thought. It was perfect.
I tried to remember my son, tried to see myself kneeling in front of him with an elasticated tie, or combing his hair, or wiping dried blood from a grazed knee.
Nothing came. The boy in the photograph shared a fullness of mouth with me, and had eyes that resembled, vaguely, my mother’s, but otherwise he could have been a stranger.
Ben took out another picture and gave it to me. In it, Adam was a little older—maybe seven. “Do you think he looks like me?” he said.
He was holding a football, dressed in shorts and a white T-shirt. His hair was short, spiked with sweat. “A little,” I said. “Perhaps.”
Ben smiled, and together we continued looking at the photographs. They were mostly of me and Adam, the occasional one of him alone; Ben must have taken the majority. In a few, he was with friends, a couple showed him at a party, wearing a pirate costume, carrying a cardboard sword. In one, he held a small black dog.
There was a letter, tucked among the pictures. It was addressed to Santa Claus and written in blue crayon. The jerky letters danced across the page. He wanted a bike, he said, or a puppy, and promised to be good. It was signed, and he had added his age. Four.
I do not know why, but as I read it, my world seemed to collapse. Grief exploded in my chest like a grenade. I had been feeling calm—not happy, not even resigned, but calm—and that serenity vanished, as if vaporized. Beneath it, I was raw.
“I’m sorry,” I said, handing the bundle back to Ben. “I can’t. Not now.”
He hugged me. I felt nausea rise in my throat, but swallowed it down. He told me not to worry, told me I would be fine, reminded me that he was here for me, that he always would be. I clung to him, and we sat there, rocking together. I felt numb, totally removed from the room in which we sat. I watched him get me a glass of water, watched as he closed the box of photographs. I was sobbing. I could see that he was upset, too, yet already his expression seemed tinged with something else. Resignation, it could have been, or acceptance, but not shock.
With a shudder, I realized that he has done all this before. His grief is not new. It has had the time to bed down within him, to become part of his foundations, rather than something that rocks them.
It is only my grief that is fresh, every day.
I made an excuse. I came upstairs, to the bedroom. Back to the closet. I wrote on.
These snatched moments. Kneeling in front of the closet or leaning on the bed. Writing. I am feverish. It floods out of me, almost without thought. Pages and pages. I am here again now, while Ben thinks I am resting. I cannot stop. I want to write down everything.
I wonder if this is what it was like when I wrote my novel, this pouring onto the page. Or had that been slower, more considered? I wish I could remember.
After I went downstairs, I made us both a cup of tea. As I stirred in the milk, I thought of how many times I must have made meals for Adam, pureeing vegetables, mixing juice. I took the tea back to Ben. “Was I a good mother?” I said, handing it to him.
“Christine—”
“I have to know,” I said. “I mean, how did I cope? With a child? He must have been very little when I—”
“—had your accident?” he interrupted. “He was two. You were a wonderful mother, though. Until then. Afterward, well—”
He stopped talking, letting the rest of the sentence disappear, and turned away. I wondered what it was he was leaving unsaid, what he’d thought better of telling me.
I knew enough to fill in some of the blanks, though. I might not be able to remember that time, but I can imagine it. I can see myself being reminded every day that I was married and a mother, being told that my husband and son were coming to visit me. I can imagine myself greeting them both every day as if I had never seen them before, slightly frostily, perhaps, or simply bewildered. I can see the pain we must have been in. All of us.
“It’s okay,” I said. “I understand.”
“You couldn’t look after yourself. You were too ill for me to look after you at home. You couldn’t be left alone, even for a few minutes. You would forget what you were doing. You used to wander off. I was worried you might run yourself a bath and leave the water running, or try and cook yourself some food and forget you’d started it. It was too much for me. So I stayed at home and looked after Adam. My mother helped. But every evening we would come and see you, and—”