After a half hour, Lindsey headed upstairs to check on me. Through the opening in my bedroom door, she could see me sitting on the bed, freshly showered, with my legs flexed rigidly off the side, fidgeting with the zipper on my black hoodie. I was struggling to connect the zipper with the pull. Lindsey watched for a moment, unsure of what to do; she didn’t want to embarrass me by knocking on the door and offering aid, because she knew I didn’t like to be babied. But when she saw me go limp, drop the zipper, and begin to sob out of frustration, she headed into the room. She sat down beside me and said, “Here, let me help,” zipping up my hoodie in one fluid motion.
Later that evening, Stephen cooked a pasta dinner as a quiet celebration for my return. Allen and my mom left the house so that the three of us could have some alone time. My mother was so relieved that they finally had a name for what ailed me that she had truly convinced herself the worst was behind us.
After dinner, we sat outside on the back patio. Lindsey and Stephen made small talk while I stared ahead, as if I didn’t hear them. But when they lit cigarettes, I got up without a word and walked inside.
“Is she okay?” Lindsey asked.
“Yes, I think she’s just adjusting. We should give her a moment alone.”
They are smoking together. Who knows what else they’ll do together.
I grab the home phone. For some reason, I can’t remember my mother’s number, so I look it up in my cell phone. Ring, ring, ring, ring.
“You’ve reached Rhona Nack. Please leave a message after the beep.” BEEP.
“Mom,” I whisper. “He’s going to leave me for her. Please come home. Please come home and stop them.”
I pace around and watch him from the kitchen window that looks out on the patio. He catches my eye and waves. Why does he want to be with a sick girl? What is he doing here with me? I look at him waving, certain that I have lost him forever.
When my mom listened to the voice mail, she panicked: I was becoming psychotic again. Because Dr. Najjar was often difficult to reach, she dialed Dr. Arslan’s private number, which he had given her the day before we left the hospital. She was worried that NYU had let me go home too soon.
“She’s acting paranoid,” she said. “She believes that her boyfriend is going to run off with her best friend.”
This concerned Dr. Arslan. “I’m worried that she may be reentering a psychotic state. I would give her an extra dose of Ativan to calm her for the night and then check in with me tomorrow.” In my case, though, the return to psychotic behavior was actually a sign of improvement, because the stages of recovery often occur in reverse order: I had passed through psychosis before I got to catatonia, and now I had to pass through it again on my road back to normality.45 Dr. Arslan didn’t forewarn us about the progression of the disease, because no one yet knew that people often slid back to psychosis. It would be only two years later, in 2011, when Dr. Dalmau released a paper with a section on that very subject, that the stages of the disease would become widely known.
Lindsey’s weekend with me had come to a close. She and our friend Jeff (my karaoke partner in St. Louis), who happened to be in New York for an unrelated trip, were planning to drive the sixteen hours back to St. Louis together. When she called to give him directions, he said he’d like to see me. She warned him I wouldn’t be the same.
Jeff rang the doorbell, and my mom invited him inside. He spotted me hovering beneath the staircase, slowly approaching the doorway. He first noticed my smile, a frozen, vacant, idiotic grin that frightened him. I held my arms out, slightly bent, as if pushing my body against a door. Nervously, he smiled and asked, “How are you feeling?”
“Goooooood,” I said, drawing out the syllables so much that the one word took several seconds. My lips hardly moved, but I maintained piercingly direct eye contact. He wondered if I was trying to communicate through my stare. It reminded him of a zombie movie.
“Are you happy to be home?”
“Yesssssssss,” I said, drawing out the “s” like a strained hiss.
Jeff didn’t know what to do next, so he leaned forward and embraced me, whispering in my ear, “Susannah, I want you to know that we’re all here for you and thinking of you.” I couldn’t bend my arms to return the hug.
Lindsey, who stood behind us watching the scene, readied herself for the good-bye. She was not prone to histrionics and hardly ever cried. She had been so stoic throughout the visit, never once letting on how agonizing the stay had been for her, but she couldn’t contain herself anymore.
She dropped her luggage on the floor and embraced me. Suddenly I was crying, too.
Lindsey left that morning not knowing if she would ever get her best friend back.
CHAPTER 34
CALIFORNIA DREAMIN’
On April 29, less than two weeks after leaving the hospital, I returned to New York University Medical Center for another week of plasma-exchange treatment. Because my symptoms were no longer considered epileptic but related to autoimmune encephalitis, I was placed on the seventeenth floor: neurology. Unlike the epilepsy unit, this floor in the old Tisch Hospital had not been redone. There were no flat screen televisions, everything seemed dingier, and the patients here seemed older, frailer, and somehow closer to death. A senile woman in a private room at the end of the hall spent her afternoons screaming “PIZZA!” over and over. When my dad asked why, the nurses explained that she loved Fridays, which were pizza days.
I shared a room with an obese black woman named Debra Robinson. Though she suffered from diabetes, the doctors believed that her underlying issues actually stemmed from colon cancer, but they still hadn’t confirmed the theory. Debra was so overweight that she was unable to leave her bed and go to the bathroom. Instead, she did her business in a bedpan, periodically filling the room with all sorts of putrid smells. But she apologized every time, and it was impossible to dislike her. Even the nursing staff adored her.
The plasma exchange was done through a catheter inserted directly into my neck. “Oh my god,” Stephen said, as he watched the nurse insert the needle. It made a “pop” where it pierced my jugular vein. Holding the catheter in place, the nurse spread heavy tape, the consistency of masking tape, around the catheter to keep it upright, jutting out perpendicularly from the right side of my neck. The tape was so harsh that it left red welts on my skin. Though the catheter was hideously uncomfortable, it had to stay in place for the whole week, over the course of my treatment.
The plasma-exchange process originated with a Swedish dairy cream separator created in the late 1800s that sets apart curds from whey.46 Scientists were so inspired by this simple machinery that they attempted to use it to separate plasma (the yellow-colored liquid that suspends cells and contains antibodies) from blood (which contains the red and white blood cells). The blood streams into the cell separator, which, like a spin dryer, shakes up the blood, cleaving it into those two components—the plasma and the cells of the blood. Then the machine returns the blood to the body and replaces the original plasma—which is full of the harmful autoantibodies—with a new, protein-rich fluid that does not contain antibodies. Each process takes about three hours. The doctors had prescribed five sessions.