“Anything for you, Ed, darling,” I cooed. But could I work with Helen again? And what about Grace? Ha! What was I thinking? Maybe they wouldn’t want to work with me.
“No question about it,” he went on in his monotone, “I’m going to make the Swing Sisters a household name.”
After he left, the hands that had been holding the three of us together behind my back loosened and dropped as Grace and Helen twisted away. How many times over the years had we been in a dressing room together? Too many to count. How many times had an opportunity like this come along? Never. Adrenaline pulsed through me. I was sure that a similar buzz surged through Helen and Grace too. I motioned for them to come close, then solemnly pinned white gardenias over each of our left ears. Something flickered in the air around us as ambition and hope tried to push away blame and self-reproach.
“We truly are going to be famous now,” I declared. “All across the country, like Ed said.”
“What about Joe?” Grace asked.
“If he can keep flying for pleasure, won’t he want you to keep performing?” I replied. “If he can do what he loves, won’t he want you to do what you love too? Do you think he really wants his very own China doll at home with a new vacuum cleaner, washing machine, and dryer-”
“Five minutes! Five minutes!”
We hurriedly made last checks in the mirror. Then we left the dressing room, went stage right as we’d been instructed, and waited as a man spinning plates finished his routine. I peered around the curtain to the audience and spotted Joe. Man, talk about looking like something the cat dragged in. The expression on his face, however, painted a very different picture. He seemed excited and proud. That’s my future wife and the mother of my children up there. Joe, what a boob, but he’d probably make a great husband and father. Tommy sat next to him, dressed in a seersucker suit. It was hard to imagine what was going to happen to him in the future. But this wasn’t the time for me to start getting maudlin! I needed the Swing Sisters to be fantastic, which meant putting last night-and many more months and years before that-behind me, behind us all.
“We owe it to ourselves and those who sacrificed for us not to have regrets,” I whispered to the others. “That’s what I feel in my heart. This is what we always wanted.”
“What we all wanted,” Grace murmured in a vague, distracted manner.
I took Helen’s hand. I could forgive her all she’d done if she repaid me by going out there and dancing and singing her drawers off. Helen nodded. Together, we each clasped Grace’s hands.
“Friends?” I asked, because I was the only one who could speak the word and have it be meaningful.
“Forever,” Helen and Grace answered together. What passed between us-as we stood there with our hands linked-wasn’t just a matter of the-show-must-go-on or personal ambition. After everything that had happened, we needed to make this moment perfect-perhaps even make it the beginning of Heaven and Earth, epoch-making, as Helen hoped.
Ed Sullivan began to speak. “I have three little gals I’d love for you to meet. Ruby, Helen, Grace, come on out here and say hello to the folks.”
I went first. My smile was warm and enveloped everyone in the studio. I extended my fingers like the undulating tentacles of a sea anemone, luring Helen to come to me. More applause. Wouldn’t you know it, but Ed gave Grace special preference. “I bring you the toast of New York for Toast of the Town. Miss Grace Lee.”
The three of us chatted with our host, following our script perfectly. Then he stiffly raised his arm, awkwardly lurched back, and announced, “Ladies and gentlemen, please give a hand for the Swing Sisters…”
November 1988
GRACE: Once a Chorus Girl
I take a look in the mirror. Makeup: perfect and modest. Hair: cut in what the women at the beauty parlor call an auntie bob and dyed exactly the right color for a Chinese woman of my age and station. Pantsuit: red, never wrinkles, and shows off my still-slim figure. Jewelry: three bracelets and a fun necklace I picked up last year on a trip to Bali. I give myself an encouraging nod and go out to the living room. Joe sits at the computer, a slight frown crinkling his brow. I put a hand on his shoulder. He gazes up at me.
“You don’t have to go,” he says for what feels like the hundredth time this week. He’s worried, but I know him very well. He’ll be disappointed in me if I chicken out now.
“It will be strange if I don’t make an appearance. It’s for Eddie, after all. Everyone wants to help out.”
“Try to have fun then.”
“Yes, of course. It’s bound to be fun…”
Joe covers my hand with his own, pressing it into his shoulder.
“Won’t you come with me?” I ask. “You knew everyone too…”
“I’ll come to the actual show,” he promises.
“I told you I don’t want to do that part of it. I’ll sell tickets or whatever.”
“Now, Grace, stop with that-”
I pull my fingers out from under his hand and give him a kiss on the top of his head. He turns back to his keyboard, and I head for the garage. I pull out the car and make my way down the tree-lined streets of the Berkeley Hills. When I reach the freeway, I steer toward the Bay Bridge. They’ll see me, and they’ll know my life is perfect. And it’s true. My life does look perfect: the nice house, the practical blue Volvo, two professional sons, their perfectly adequate wives, the adorable grandchildren, and the pleasant retirement days of tending my rose garden, teaching Jazzercise to seniors at the local sports club, taking walks with the wives of other retired partners from Joe’s firm, and reading books and listening to music at night with him in the den. My mother’s recitation comes into my mind like a dark vapor: When fortune comes, do not enjoy all of it; when advantage comes, do not take all of it. Except I had wanted all of it, and I got most of it.
For ten years, Helen, Ruby, and I had shared our dreams, successes, and failures-as women, friends, daughters, and performers. As long as I live, I’ll never forget that night in the dressing room at the China Doll or our performance on Toast of the Town the very next day. Two weeks later, Joe and I got married. I didn’t invite Ruby and Helen to my wedding. My emotions were still too raw. I’m sure that hurt them, but I wasn’t ready yet, and I doubt they were either. Our act had gone over big, nonetheless, and lots of fabulous offers came our way. We didn’t take them. No one in the world knew me like Ruby and Helen did and we would be forever invisibly linked, but we all still needed a break from each other to mend and to heal.
Mr. Sullivan made good on his promise, though, to invite us back on the show. Ruby wanted to parlay the Swing Sisters into “Occidental stardom”; Helen still wanted to make up for what she’d done to both of us; I was the holdout. I just couldn’t do it. After that, we had no contact, although messages were passed through our agent and our circus of mutual friends. The thought that I might never see Ruby or Helen again felt devastating, inevitable, and insurmountable.
Two years passed in a flash, and we were still standing. The three of us had always shown resilience and the courage it took to keep moving forward. And now we did it again. Toast of the Town became popularly known as The Ed Sullivan Show. He was a persistent so-and-so. Eventually, I caved. The Swing Sisters ended up performing on the show five times. We also did three appearances on Texaco Star Theater, which was hosted by Milton Berle, followed by one-shots on Your Show of Shows, The Lawrence Welk Show, Broadway Open House, and some other variety programs. While colleagues we knew got parts in Flower Drum Song (the Broadway show and later the movie), and Goro Suzuki, Ruby’s friend, got rich as Jack Soo, playing Detective Nick Yemana on Barney Miller, Ruby, Helen, and I picked up occasional guest spots-together and separately-doing character roles on shows with tropical locations like I Spy, Hawaii Five-O, and Magnum, P.I. Joe had been fine with it. He always said, “As long as there’s a beach and golf and someone else is paying, I’ll come with you, baby. We’ll bring the kids too!” Occidentals may not remember us today, but we were-and still are-big in the Chinese-American community. I mean, big. We made everyone proud. They even love Ruby, who, by now, is accepted as being more “Chinese” than most Chinese.