So, that is how it is for me. Good. Awesome good. Every single day. For an hour or so each day.
I have huge pleasure every day masturbating to multiple orgasms. These orgasms go through phases and build up in intensity over time.
Chapter Seven: Too much of a good thing?
What you have to understand, is that the power of multi-orgasmic sex or masturbation is huge. You unleash a process of intense physical activity every time that you orgasm. Your muscles contract, your breathing reaches a climax, your heart rate goes up and your glands discharge a whole series of chemicals. You also release copious amounts of pre-cum, and generally lose fluid through exertion. It is like a session of heavy exercise. In such a masturbation session you might typically orgasm ten or fifteen times.
So you will get tired. Of course, if instead you had ejaculated, you would have been far more exhausted in the sense that you would have been incapable of sex for some hours. But to compensate for that, you would have stopped all sexual activity for that period of time. That would have given all your bodily functions used while masturbating, time to recover.
But when you orgasm without ejaculation, you retain your ability to orgasm almost indefinitely.
That being so, eventually the whole process starts taking its toll.
When I first mastered the art of multi-orgasmic masturbation, as I said earlier, I managed to overcome the stress that had initially occurred, because for the first time I achieved orgasms that were accompanied by a release of tension, by satisfaction.
But as I went on, I gradually noticed that other symptoms occurred: The most common of these was that I became dehydrated quite easily, which I experienced as a certain dryness of the eyes and a feeling of tightness behind my eyeballs. I often felt thirsty for prolonged periods of time, which in turn affected my energy levels and caused a loss of concentration.
Occasionally I had cold-like symptoms in the form of a post-nasal drip. I generally also felt a bit tired in the morning, and found that although I exercised as before, my running was definitely slower than when I was at my best.
But the most worrying of all was the fact that occasionally I would just lose my sexual mojo completely. I would either battle to get an erection, or occasionally I would be able to get an erection, but not feel any pleasant sensation in my penis while masturbating. These last two symptoms most often occurred when I had recently masturbated for long periods and then accidentally ejaculated.
To make things worse, these two symptoms of temporary erectile dysfunction and lack of pleasure increased in frequency. So a day came that I was very despondent, believing that I was suffering from permanent sexual exhaustion. My research on the internet told me that such a state of affairs is quite likely if one masturbates very frequently. Although most of the research related to young boys and men who masturbated to ejaculation on a frequent basis, it seemed to me that some of the effects of multi-orgasmic masturbation were similar to those of ejaculatory orgasms. This has to do with chemicals released to stimulate the erection reflex and also the pleasure centers of the brain, and it can apparently occur that these chemicals become depleted due to sexual exhaustion.
At first I was very despondent. According to the literature – which I emphasize mainly focuses on the effects of ejaculatory orgasm – it would require months of treatment and long periods of abstention and moderation to restore one’s previous powers. Not only that, but it appeared doubtful whether those powers would be restored in the sense of returning to the same frequency of masturbation as before. It seemed to me as if I would be unlikely to recover. I was also very confused because there seemed to be a large variety of opinions and treatments suggested on the net, and I was uncertain what to do.
However, my reading gradually made me realize that there were certain golden threads that ran through the prescriptions that I encountered, and clarity started emerging. First of all, I resolved from the start that I would not take any drugs or any form of artificial stimulant. I was determined to solve my problem the natural way. Secondly, I noticed that the same natural substances turned up in various natural remedies proposed by different doctors and experts. Most of these remedies are very old and are derived from oriental medicine.
At first I wanted to place an order with an American company that sold a product that seemed to me best to represent what I needed, but as I live in South Africa, I decided that that would be too expensive and troublesome, and that I could achieve the same results by sourcing similar South African products that contain the same natural substances, albeit most likely in different ratios and combinations.
In the end I found three compounds in South Africa that contained ingredients that I believed corresponded with those that I had found on the internet, and I decided to put them to the test. My approach was to regard these as natural supplements such as vitamins and minerals, and to take them on a regular and ongoing basis as prescribed by the manufacturers.
Although I can list the three products here, it is probably more valuable to list the ingredients that I identified in the remedies and that appear in a number of products proposed by various advisers on the internet. According to the literature these are the active ingredients that restore the sexual function. Most of them have wonderfully and potently poetic names. They are:
Ginko biloba
Horny goat weed
Hawthorn
Saw palmetto
Tribulus terrestris
3, 4-divanilyttrahydrofuran (extract of Urtica Dioca plant)
Tongkat
Zinc
Grape seed extract
Panax ginseng
These ingredients fulfill different functions. Some improve blood flow to the penis, others stimulate chemical formation in the body to aid with libido and erectile function and others block testosterone inhibitors (ie improve testosterone production).
In addition to taking these remedies as prescribed, I also regularly – especially when exercising – consume sports drinks designed to rehydrate the body and restore lost minerals such as magnesium, potassium, zinc, and sodium. That, and regular drinks of water and herbal tea (up to 10 glasses a day) takes care of any dehydration.
I also take slow-release magnesium tablets on a daily basis. Magnesium is a crucial mineral that in most diets is in short supply. Anyone who lives a stressful life or exercises often can hardly do without its benefits. Magnesium has the effect, as I understand it, of assisting the nerve function of the body to transport energy signals to voluntary and autonomous muscles.
By now you would have guessed that I would not go to the trouble of listing the ingredients and remedies that I use so meticulously if I did not believe that they bore positive results. I can absolutely vouch that my sexual powers have not only been restored, but are better than before I started with the whole exercise of learning multi-orgasmic masturbation. After about one month I could see a definite improvement, and after about three months my sexual powers had been restored to the point where I could masturbate literally as much as I wanted to, and achieve orgasm after orgasm. Now the only limitation to my activity is natural exhaustion and time limitations due to other activities.
Like everything else, but literally everything else, multi-orgasmic masturbation can be overdone. But you can have huge, almost indefinite, pleasure without ever reaching that point.
A word about other activities: One thing that the whole multi-orgasmic masturbation project has taught me, is that virtually any choice that you make regarding your body, has consequences. Exercise is generally regarded as a beneficial activity, but heavy exercise (especially if it lasts longer than an hour) I have found tends to tire me out to the point where I may struggle to get an erection. Having said that, I have also found that after about three months of treatment following the regime set out above, even that problem started receding. Now I can regularly exercise (when starting the writing of this book every second day I ran between 6 and 12 kilometers) and experience no after-effects of my training.