Technique eight: Ride the wave
The next technique for enhancing your pleasure is one that works, and works best, when you have masturbated regularly for a while without ejaculating and your sensual sensitivity is high – when typically you come within minutes, and come intensely and regularly. It works particularly well when your sexual energy is high and you need a fairly long series of contractions and breathing to climax and return to normal levels of stimulation.
Normally when you feel an orgasm approaching, as you will know by now, the best way to achieve relief and satisfaction is by exhaling while your stomach muscles contract. Now this new technique departs from that in the sense that you will not pursue the shortest route to satisfaction. Instead, it enables you to make the orgasm last longer. Just as you have learnt to make your ordinary ejaculatory masturbation last longer by adjusting your stroking, and breathing, just so you can make your non-ejaculatory orgasms last longer by using this technique.
This is how it works: It is best if you do not rush things. Not that you should ever do that, but if you want to “ride the wave”, all the more so. You should stroke regularly and slowly until you feel the pleasure starting to spread through your body, and an orgasm approaching. At that point you should go even slower, and touch yourself more softly, and make use of shorter, smaller movements of your masturbating hand. All the while you must carry on breathing, and exhale in order to control any urge to ejaculate. During all this your mental focus should be on the pleasure in your penis, which you should now allow to mount steadily to a point where it is about as intense as during an orgasm. But now you adjust the controls of your body in order not to achieve rapid relief, but in order to keep the pleasure at a constant level. This you do by:
controlling your breathing;
controlling the pace and pressure of your stroking hand;
allowing your stomach to contract in order to distribute the energy through your body.
Each of these actions will now be discussed in turn so that you will know exactly how to control the orgasm so that it carries on, at a plateau as it were – instead of climaxing and descending in quick succession.
The first key to the exercise is your moving hand. You must adjust its pace and pressure so that you keep the sensation in your penis at a constant level. It must not be so still that you lose all feeling, and it must not be so hard and fast that you ejaculate or orgasm to release. The best way to achieve this is to continue with soft, small movements of the hand. All the while push the pleasure as far as you can bear, but not so fast that you climax. Focus on maintaining the pleasure at a constant, high level.
Your breathing must be adjusted to achieve the object of not allowing the energy in your penis to dissipate all at once. It must be strong enough to avoid ejaculation, but soft enough to allow the sensation and energy to linger in your penis, and not dissipate through a climax.
Thirdly, you must allow your lower stomach to contract. Now, these contractions will be different from the regular contractions that you have that usually are in sync with your breathing – in other words, contracting when you breathe out. First of all, at this stage you should have reached the stage where your upper body can contract spontaneously. But instead of contracting in sync with long exhalations of breath, you will find that it starts to contract faster – at a pace comparable to a fast heartbeat, say – of about 120 contractions per minute, or two per second. You may even find that you want to breathe out in fast spurts that match the pace of those fast contractions.
At some point you will probably feel that you should almost stop all hand movement. Or you might in fact stop, and even remove your hand, while the rhythmic contractions of your upper body continue.
The net result of these three actions is that you will have an orgasm that continues flowing like a current of electricity into your body – but instead of climaxing at once, you will continue enjoying an orgasm flowing through your body at a constant pace for a minute or two or even more. The wellspring of this will be the feeling in your penis, which will be similar to the pleasure of an ejaculatory orgasm, but without the contractions that accompany ejaculation. Imagine you can “hold” or “snapshot” the feeling of an ejaculatory orgasm, and it continues – stays there, if you like – for a while. That is how it is. It is as if the energy dams up in your groin, and only a slow stream is allowed to trickle out into your body, causing the involuntary contractions.
When you get it right, the muscles of your upper body, especially your stomach and your pectoral muscles, will contract rhythmically, fast and continuously. Your upper body will jump up and down in quick rhythm. It will feel as if these muscles have a life of their own.
All the while intense pleasure will be generated in your penis as if from a perennial fountain, and will flow through your body from this well like a stream rippling over a stony river bed. It is an extraordinary feeling: You will experience a state of bliss that will continue for a time, and you will observe the pleasure, and your body contracting rhythmically – jerking repeatedly as if driven by a will of its own.
It is critical, as always, that you are completely relaxed, and surrender to the pleasure. Your body must not tense up. But for the contractions of your torso, your body must be limp like a rag doll, while the storm of pleasure tosses you about.
After a while the feeling will gradually dissipate, just like it will with an ordinary non-ejaculatory orgasm, but more gradually. You will be able to move your hand more freely, and you should end at a point where you feel completely satisfied, and will want to rest.
If this sounds rather complicated, it is not. The key is twofold: firstly, keep your sensation at a constant, high level by adjusting the pace of your hand; and secondly allow your lower abdomen to contract in fast, sharp jerky movements. It will soon become spontaneous.
Mastering this technique will give a new dimension to your self-pleasure.
Technique nine: Use your whole hand
When you masturbate, use your whole hand, and envelop the entire shaft of your penis in your hand. You will be surprised how much it will add to your pleasure.
Technique ten: The more the merrier
The more frequently, and the longer at a time, that you masturbate, the more intense your pleasure will be. Try and masturbate two or three times a day, at least fifteen minutes at a time and have at least four to five orgasms per session. Your pleasure will build and build over time.
The important point about all these techniques of enhancing sexual pleasure, is that I stumbled on them while enjoying myself. They work for me, and they may or may not work for you. And for that you reason you should try things yourself. You will undoubtedly discover things that work for you, and hopefully help you to enjoy the same kind of intense ecstasy that I have enjoyed.