While not every woman in a wife-led marriage will take a lover, many will. The reason is simple – you may be wary of letting your husband penetrate you, because you worry it will make him feel like an equal. Still, you may have a natural need to be penetrated. A lover can help! To make sure your husband understands this, why not bring your lover home one night and insist that your husband sleep in the guest room? He'll be able to hear and know what you and your lover are doing, but will not be a part of the process. This will very effectively cement your sexual freedom.
Men are pigs and will look for porn if you are not in the mood to provide him with relief. Purchase Internet blocking software and keep the password to yourself. Block out all adult sites – except those that emphasize loving female authority. That way, the only online sexual stimulation he'll be able to find is that which builds on his need to submit to you.
After your husband has mastered the art of giving you a pedicure, why not up the ante? Now is the time to teach him how to give you a manicure! This is a very intimate way for him to pamper you – which is obviously one of the best benefits of living a wife-led marriage!
Men themselves often have atrocious fingernails. It's as though they are blind to this essential and obvious aspect of human grooming. Yet, why should you be forced to hold hands with a man whose nails are ugly? Insist that he take care of his nails – and make him wear clear nail polish once his nails are in shape! It will make him feel slightly feminine – but is that really a bad thing?
At some point your husband may want to rebel against the new rules of your relationship. Who knows why; but some men seem to need to struggle, even if they know that you will always win. What you need is some leverage. Therefore, early on in your new relationship, take some embarrassing photos of him. It doesn't matter what – it could be anything from him wearing one of your camisoles to him on his hands and knees for you. Make it clear that you could, if you wanted to, email these photos to his family, friends and co-workers. That should keep any rebellion in check for good!
Face-sitting is a fun and relatively easy way to show who is on top in your relationship. Have your man lie down on the bed or the couch. Then, take off your panties and literally sit on his face. After a few seconds lift yourself off him a little bit so he can breathe and tell him to lick you. Then, sit back down on his face again. Keep repeating the process until you lovingly climax on his face.
The following exercise should only be attempted if you have a longterm extramarital lover who you know is free from STD's. It should not be tried with a casual fling. If you are in this situation, you may want to literally rub your husband's nose in your affair! One night, allow your lover to ejaculate inside you. Don't clean up! Instead, quickly put your panties back on and go home. Then, have your husband “clean” the evidence of your affair out of your vagina with his tongue. This is perhaps the most submissive act a husband can perform for his wife.
Your man's penis belongs to you and you alone. Plus, you want him to pee sitting down. Both can be enforced with a simple piercing. Piercing parlors can put a ring that connects your man's penis to his testicles and is held together with a small padlock. If you need to use his penis, you can unlock it and let it swing free. At all other times, it will be locked in the down position.
Some women like to smoke. But who wants to waste time rummaging through our purses for a lighter? Purchase your man a small, feminine lighter and insist that he keep it in his pocket at all times. Whenever you reach for a cigarette, he is required to immediately come over and light it for you. It's a simple, classic measure of his devotion to you.
Premenstrual Syndrome is a common and predictable problem for many of us. If your cycle is regular, you may know exactly when these symptoms will occur. If so, mark them on your calendar. On your PMS days, your husband should be ready to take care of you. He should bring you Midol in the morning without being asked and ready to give you back rubs or whatever other pampering you need – also without being asked. He should anticipate your needs at this special time of the month.
As a woman, you know that we often have to run errands. Whether it is a trip to the mall, then a quick stop at the post office followed by an appointment at the beauty parlor, we all have busy days. Why not make your man help out by being your chauffeur? You, obviously, will ride in the back seat and he will wait for you in the car while you attend to your needs.
Writing “Thank you” notes is a chore that many of us find socially necessary. But, why does it always seem to be the woman who ends up writing the notes? Train your husband to write all of them for you. It will free up hours of your time – while teaching him good social graces. It's a win/win situation for everyone!
We live busy lives and keeping up with all of our social and work obligations can be a pain in the tush. But, you don't have to do it alone. Make your man your social secretary. Have him keep track of all of your appointments and have him prepare a list and schedule for you every morning! You'll never forget a meeting or a lunch date again! This can be particularly submissive if you have a lover and he has to remind you of your dates with him!
Turn your husband into your lesbian lover for the evening! Have him shave his body, put on makeup and dress up like a sexy girl. Give him the female name of your choice! Engage in a night of “lesbian” sex – where clearly his penis will be ignored, but you will play with his nipples!
Never underestimate the value of your toes! Once your man has given you a proper pedicure and your feet look divine, you can put them to good use as a way to tease your man. Once the polish has dried, have him give you a foot massage. Then, order him to slowly and gently suck each and every one of your pretty toes. It will feel wonderful and, more likely than not, be a huge turn on for your man!
Entering into loving female authority is not just about punishment. It's more carrot and stick, and you do need to reward your man for good behavior. If he has been a particularly good boy, while not reward him with something better than simple masturbation? Put on your prettiest pair of panties and get on your hands and knees with your ass in the air! Then let him masturbate with one hand while the other hand caresses your panty covered tush! If he has a lingerie fetish of any type at all, this may be the orgasm of the year for him!
While from time to time you may want penetration but not want him to climax, this can be difficult to do if your husband is a “quick shooter” or has been denied relief for long periods of time. Luckily, condom makers offer you a solution. Most brands of condoms can now be purchased with a desensitizing lubricant inside the condom. This means you can allow him to enter you so that you get the penetration you need, but it will be much easier for you to make sure he does not have an orgasm while he is providing for your needs.