As a woman, our breasts are some of the most sensitive parts of our body. But, most men have no idea what to do with them. They either simply suckle them like a baby or play with our nipples like they are radio dials. Yucky poo! Clearly, you need to teach him. Organize a night of breast worship and instruction. Neither of you will be naked below the waist. Instead, he has to spend an hour or two worshiping your breasts. Tell him what you like and encourage good behavior. When he does something stupid, bat him away. He'll be a quick study!
Create a treasure hunt for him to earn the right to be intimate with you! Hide several notes around the house, but make one obvious and leave it on the kitchen table. In it will be a job he has to perform. Make sure that during the course of that job he'll be forced to find the next note and task. The last note should read, “You've earned your reward, bring this note to me and I'll give it to you!” Then, make love any way you want for the rest of the evening!
Have some special novelty underwear made for him with fun slogans like, “property of (your name) or “beta male” or “her bitch” or any other slogan you can think of that will remind him of his place in your marriage – and make sure that he doesn't want anyone else to see him with his pants off!
Men take a lot of their perceived authority from the belief that they have a larger than average penis. Of course, most of them don't. Better still, most men have not seen a lot of other men's erect penises, so they don't really know for sure how they measure up. Use this to your advantage. Make comments about his “little dick” or “cockette,” and once in a while mention a former boyfriend who was “much bigger” and really “filled you up.” This will take away a lot the manly pride that can get in the way of a good wife-led marriage.
The shower is a great place to demonstrate your female authority! Get in the shower with your man and have him wash you all over. Then order him to his knees and have him “clean” your vagina with his tongue, while you have dirty thoughts. Make sure he scrubs you everywhere!
If you want to get a little naughty while your man is on his knees washing your privates with his tongue, you could always relax and let loose your dream stream. While not for everyone, peeing on your man while he's on his knees will certainly show him who is in charge. Better still, the shower will wash everything away!
When it comes to getting your man to accept your loving female authority, motivation is key. You need to make him constantly want you – even if he might not get you for a while. Why not tell him that it's going to be a sex-free weekend – but then wear nothing but your sexiest lingerie all day and night? Finally, on Sunday night let him unleash his pent-up sexual energy on you!
If you decide to take a lover, you may want to get your husband involved to demonstrate his acceptance of the situation. You could always have him drive you to and from your dates. If you want to be particularly naughty, you and your lover could make out in the backseat of the car while he drives you to dinner!
Some women like it when their man wears panties as a sign of his reduced masculinity. You can take this a step further by bringing him to the lingerie store and insisting that he pick out his new undies. To really twist the knife, you could go up to the saleslady in front of him and ask her what she thinks would look good on him!
There are more couples in wife-led relationships than you might think. Why not seek out another couple in a similar situation, and arrange a loving female authority acceptance ceremony? You and the other woman could each buy new rings for your men and have a romantic evening where you put the new rings on their fingers while they pledge their eternal devotion and submission to you.
If you meet several other couples, you could always have a wife-led marriage party – where all of your husbands act as servants while you and the other women are princesses for the night, having all of your wants and needs catered to! Working with other submissive husbands will deepen his acceptance of his situation.
Many married women use birth control pills – but it can be a pain to have to remember to take them every day. Put him in charge of the situation and insist that he bring you your pill and a glass of orange juice every morning. This will be particularly submissive for him if you are not allowing him intercourse – since he will wonder why, exactly, you need to take your pill every morning!
Just because you leave the house for work is no reason for him to ignore your needs during the day. Insist that he send you four or five erotic or romantic emails during the course of your day – to prove that your emotions and sexuality are always on the top of his mind!
This is a little bit mean, but sometimes even the best of husbands act like little boys and need to be punished. If he has been particularly bad, you can insist that he put his dinner plate on the floor and eat it on his hands and knees like a dog! This will make him understand that he cannot simply behave like an animal!
Who needs to go to a spa when you have a submissive husband around? Make him go to a beauty supply store and purchase everything you need for a day of pampering. Have him be your personal spa boy! He can put a beauty mask on you, wax your legs and perform any spa service you desire all day – while helping you feel refreshed and beautiful!
While it's never a good idea to let your man orgasm too often, it can be fun to watch him become sexually excited. Why not order him to masturbate just to the point of orgasm, while you watch? Make him stop before he orgasms. When he gets soft again, make him start over. Have him keep it up until he is in a state of pure sexual frustration. Then, have him put his pants back on and do the dishes!
Your husband is your loving servant. The point of his existence is to make you happy so you will give him the privilege or orally satisfying you. Therefore, why not buy him a frilly French maid's outfit to wear while he does his housework? That way he'll really understand who wears the pants in your family!
If you don't want the hassle of having to constantly decide how often you man has an orgasm, why not put the decision in his hands? Decide how many times a month he is entitled to release. Then give him that number of “coupons.” Every time he has an orgasm he has to give you a coupon back. When he uses up his coupons he quite simply has to wait the rest of the month! He'll learn quickly to budget his orgasms!
Most men assume that we will perform oral sex on them, even though they would never, ever put a penis in their own mouths. How fair is that? If you have a strap on dildo, you can turn the tables on him. Make him suck it while he plays with your clitoris. If you get really into it, you can try to find out where his gag reflex is!
A little pain is never a bad thing, as long as you don't do any lasting damage to your man. Do you remember the game of jacks from when you were a kid? Go to a toy store and buy several packages. Cover the floor of your bedroom with them and then lie back in bed naked. Order him to come in and walk barefoot through the jacks in order to get to your feminine treasures! Trust me, he'll think it's worth the pain!
If you haven't put him on an allowance, you can still control his spending. Set up a price list for your favors. A kiss might cost $5. Playing with your breasts might cost $25. Having an orgasm might cost him $100. Tell him he has to pay you in advance and you always reserve the right to say “No” whenever you feel like it!