Rewards are as important as punishment in a wife-led marriage. Do you have a piece of lingerie that you know is his favorite? If so, assuming he's been a good boy, wrap it around your hand and use it to give him manual release. He'll love the feel of the feminine fabric moving up and down his shaft! He may spontaneously proclaim his devotion to you!
Give your sub hubby a little surprise the next time you go on vacation together. Insist on doing all of the packing yourself and simply “forget” to bring any of his masculine clothes. Instead, pack only women's clothes and underwear. Then, when you get to the hotel and open the suitcases, give him the choice of staying in the hotel while you go sightseeing, or going out dressed en femme!
Your man should always be at your beck and call even when he's out with the boys. Give him a cell phone and insist that it is always turned on. Make it clear that whenever you text him he is expected to immediately stop what he's doing, say goodbye to his friends and come home to you.
The last thing any man wants is for other men to think he's not the king of his castle. But, do you really care what he wants? Go to a Tshirt store and have them make up a shirt that says “Whipped” on the front. Insist he wear it whenever he goes and plays basketball with the guys. They'll know exactly what it means, even if they don't confront him about it. And, what can he say - it is true, after all.
Have you ever noticed that most men don't take their personal hygiene as seriously as they should? That's because a lot of them simply jump in the shower and lather up their armpits and genitals. That's no way to get really clean. Insist that he stop showering and takes a bath every day. You can even get pink bubble bath gels to put in it. He'll be cleaner, but also feel less like “a man.” What could be better than that?
Put the ball in his court. Men can be very creative when they are desperate. Make it a rule that once a week he has to come up with one new idea to please you. It has to be something he's never done before and that you've never asked of him. Point out that unless the idea meets your approval, he will not be allowed to orgasm that week. Just think of the possibilities.