"Excuse me?" Allison looked puzzled, and Katherine grinned.
"I imagine youve heard at least a few people muttering about how proper Grayson women dont work?"
"Well, yes. I have," Allison admitted.
"Well, thats one of the stupider social fables around," Katherine said roundly. "Traditionally, women havent been paid for working, but believe me, running a Grayson home requires more than someone to bear and raise children. Of course, most of us were never allowed the formal training men gotBenjamin was dreadfully unconventional in that regardbut you try tearing down an air filtration plant, or monitoring the metals levels in the vegetables youre planning on cooking for supper, or managing the reclamation plant, or setting the toxicity alarms in the nursery, or any one of a thousand and one other household chores without at least a practical education in biology, chemistry, hydraulics!" She snorted with magnificent panache.
"Elaine and I have the degrees that go with what we know; most Grayson women dont have that certification, but that doesnt mean theyre ignorant. And, of course, Elaine and I are from the very tip-top of the upper class. We really dont have to work if we dont want to, and most women can at least turn to their families or clans for a household niche to fill even if they never manage to catch a husband, but there have always been some women whove had no option but to support themselves in the workplace. Most people try to pretend they dont exist, but they do, and thats one reason all three of us" she waved her hand at her husband and sister wife "were so delighted to see women like Honor and yourself. Anyone with a halfway functioning brain knows women can, and have, and do work just as hard as any man on this planet, but you and Honor rub their noses in it. Youre even more visible than Elaine and I, in some ways, and you and other Manticoran women are one of the big reasons other Grayson women are stepping into the work force at last. In fact, I understand Honor insisted that the Blackbird Yard actively recruit local women, and I hope to goodness other employers have the sense to do the same!"
"I see," Allison said. And, intellectually, she did. Emotionally, the sort of society which could draw such artificial distinctions to start with was too alien for her to truly empathize with. She considered it for several more seconds, then shrugged.
"I see," she repeated, "but I cant really claim any special credit, you know. All Im doing is going right on as I always have."
"I know," Katherine said. "Thats why youre such an effective example. Anyone who sees you knows youre more interested in getting the work done than in making a point... which, of course, only makes the point more emphatically." She smiled gently. "It was exactly the same thing that made Honor so effective, too."
Allison blinked on unexpected tears and felt Alfreds arm slip around her and tighten. Silence lingered for a moment, and then Katherine went on.
"But as Benjamin says, I did read the report. The appendices were a bit too abstruse for me, but you did an excellent job of explaining the major points in the text, I think." She shook her head with a look of ineffable sadness that sprang from a very different source, and Allison reminded herself that between them, Katherine and Elaine Mayhew had already lost five sons to spontaneous early-term abortion.
"To think that we did it to our birthrate ourselves." Katherine sighed, and it was Allisons turn to shake her head.
"Not intentionally or knowingly," she pointed out. "And if whoever it was hadnt done it, there wouldnt be any Graysons today. It was a brilliant approach to a deadly problem, especially given the limitations under which it was implemented."
"Oh, I know that," Katherine said, "and I certainly wasnt complaining."
And that, Allison realized with some surprise, was actually true. She very much doubted that it would have been for her in her guests place.
"Its just that" Katherine shrugged. "It comes as a bit of a surprise after all these centuries, I suppose. I mean, in a way its so... prosaic. Especially for something which has had such a profound effect on our society and family structure."
"Um." Allison cocked her head for a moment, then waved a hand in a tiny throwing away gesture. "From what Ive seen of your world, you seem to have adjusted remarkably sanely on a family level."
"Do you really think so?" Katherine asked, cocking her head to one side. There was a tiny edge to her voice, and Allison raised an eyebrow.
"Yes, I do," she said calmly. "Why?"
"Because not every off-worlder does," Katherine said. She glanced at her husband and her sister wife for a moment, then back at Allison, almost challengingly. "Some seem to find some of our lifestyle adjustments... morally offensive."
"If they do, thats their problem, not yours," Allison replied with a shrug. Inwardly, she wondered which off-worlder had been stupid enough to step on Katherine Mayhews toes... and to hope it hadnt been a Manticoran. She didnt think it would have been. For the most part, the Star Kingdom refused to tolerate intolerance, although it was less self-congratulatory about it than Beowulf, but she could call to mind one or two Sphinxians who might have been prudish enough to offend. Given the enormous disparity between male and female births, Grayson attitudes towards homosexuality and bisexuality were inevitable, and Sphinx was by far the most straitlaced of the Star Kingdoms planets. For a horrible moment, Allison wondered if somehow Honor could have? But no. Her daughter might have been more sexually repressed than Allison would have preferred, but shed never been a prude or a bigot. And even if she had been, Katherine Mayhew certainly wasnt the kind of person to bring it up to hurt Allison now that Honor was gone.
"Of course, Im from Beowulf, and we all know what Beowulfans are like," she went on calmly, and almost despite herself, Katherine chuckled. "On the other hand, genetic surgeons see even more different sorts of familial arrangements in the course of our practices than most family practitioners do; it goes with the sort of diagnostic research we have to do. Ive been doing rounds at Macomb General here in Harrington, too, which gives me a pretty good opportunity to compare Manticoran and Grayson norms, and I stand by what I said. Your children are among the most secure and loved ones Ive ever seen, and thats comparing them to Beowulf and the Star Kingdom both. Thats what matters most, I think, and your traditional family structureespecially in light of your environmentrepresents an incredibly sane response to your skewed birthrates." Katherine gazed at her for a moment, then nodded, and Allison grinned suddenly. "Now, your social responses, as I believe you yourself were just pointing out, might leave just a tad to be desired from the viewpoint of a forward, stubborn, uppity wench like myself!"
"Youre not the only one of those in this room, believe me!" Benjamin laughed. "And Im doing the best I can to change the rules, Allison. I figure that if Cat and Elaine and I can kick the door open and keep it that way, those budding real estate tycoons over there" he twitched his head in the direction of the game board as it became Jeanettes turn to cackle in triumph "are going to make even more changes. For a bunch as conservative as we are, thats blinding speed."
"So Ive seen."
Allison leaned back beside Alfred and looked up at him with a gracefully quirked eyebrow. He looked back down, and then shrugged.
"Youre the one doing all the social engineering tonight, love," he told her. "You decide."
"Decide what?" Katherine asked.
"Whether or not to taint the first hooky-playing Mayhew family outing in two centuries with a little business after all, I suspect," Benjamin said lazily.
"Something like that," Allison admitted. "Id planned on discussing a couple of possible approaches to corrective genetic therapies with you, but that can certainly wait for another time. Besides," she grinned, "now I know which Mayhew I should discuss them with, dont I, Katherine?"