Ann’s grief was like what I had known of love: it increased itself; it wound its way to its very source. She wrung her hands and her sobs cracked in her throat with the sound of great falling trees. “I am unequal to this,” she said, more than once, but of course she wasn’t at alclass="underline" she was immense in it. I had, until then, loved and admired her with an incompleteness that bordered on blindness. I had been idolizing her evasiveness, her control, and the soft satin distance she seemed to keep between her feelings and her responses. I was already too old not to know the difference between personality and character, but seeing Ann at the peak of her towering sadness I realized I was seeing her for the first time. The revelations of the night before—the confession of having watched me make love to Jade; the wobbly attempt at seduction in this very room—were immediately reduced to anecdotes. This, now, was Ann as she really was: savage, helpless, eternal.
Ann wept and I wept along—for her, with her, and for and with myself. I was too dominated by my secrets to be set free by grief: I remained always aware of the hierarchy of sorrow and knew that it would be wrong if my tears exceeded Ann’s, or even drew attention to themselves. But Ann spiraled only deeper into her feelings and I knew my own sobs would not intrude on hers. I lowered my face into my hands and cupped my hands to keep the tears from falling on the floor. I don’t know why. The weeping was like ceremonial breaths, such as might be used by a Taoist, and the afterburn of all those tears filled me with a vapor. My sobs grew louder; the tears overflowed my hands and ran down my shirtsleeves. And then I was sitting next to Ann on the sofa, sitting close to her with my arms around her, holding her to me and letting her cry on me, with my cheek against the back of her hair and my tears falling drop by drop onto her shirt. She held my forearm, and as the sobs broke inside her, she dug her fingernails into my arm: it was as if she were in labor. But as tightly as she held me, I don’t think she really knew who I was or if it mattered at all. Her hold on me was contact at its most true and elementaclass="underline" like two lone wolves huddling together in a blizzard, we grabbed each other and held on to life.
“Such a stupid stupid death,” Ann said. “They were standing on the corner of Fifth Avenue waiting for the light to change and then Ingrid said he bolted off—not even across the street. Diagonally. It was like a suicide but I’m sure it wasn’t. He resented waiting with everyone else in the crowd. It was Hugh’s terrible, infantile arrogance. A free spirit. That was his idea of independence—you know, leaping over fences, walking on the grass, picking the flowers in the park and burying his big nose in them, ordering things that weren’t on the menu. That was always Hugh’s special stupidity, this doing things his own way. Remember how he used to say, ‘I’d rather do something my way than the right way’? He hated customs and rules and he hated stop lights. And so that’s what happens. Goddamnit. It’s not a man’s death. A man doesn’t get knocked on his ass crossing the street. And now I have to call his children and tell them that their father didn’t know enough to keep himself out of traffic. And now his mistress is at the hospital trying to talk someone into letting her make a death mask. I’m sure they won’t let her. They’re waiting for someone official to come in and make arrangements. That’ll have to be me, I suppose. The ex-wife. This would be a lot easier if we were still married.
“I didn’t want the divorce in the first place. I told him I’d give him one in a minute if he wanted to get married but there was no reason to do it just to live separately. I would like to go to that hospital as his wife and take care of everything. I don’t know if they’ll even listen to me. I might have to get his brother Robert up here from New Orleans. I can’t ask Keith to do it—he wouldn’t be able to. Maybe Jade. I don’t even know where she is right now. Off camping. Lake Champlain. Oh Christ. What I really want to do is go to bed. Or throw myself out of the window. I don’t want to know what this is going to feel like tomorrow.”
I sat there almost immobile, breathing deeply, with my eyes attentive through a film of tears. I wanted only to be solid, to be a wall between Ann and the chaos. All the guilt was mine to feel, every excess of self-loathing and self-pity was available to me. But guilt would be an indulgence in my case, a way of wriggling partially free of the hook of circumstance, the terrifying logic of my life, and, above all, guilt would be a gesture of obsequence to the future, a way of striking a bargain with the day when Ann and everyone else learned that Hugh was racing after me when his life was taken away.
Guilt would have been a swoon of feeling in my own behalf; I owed it to Ann to put all of that away, for now. My guilt, the eruption of my conscience, my inability to understand how I fitted into the fate of the Butterfields, all of that would have been a second assault on Ann. It was time for me to shut up and just be there with her. Nothing I had to confess was as important as Hugh’s death; the truth of the day was inappropriate for the while. That confession would only interfere with the larger fact of Hugh’s death and the grief of the woman who adored him, who joined her body with his and created new lives, who once saw in his eyes the whole of her life. After all the lunges I’d made at the separate universe of feeling, at the uniqueness of perception that stands at the center of endless love, sitting there with Ann and realizing that for the time I was a witness to Ann’s levitation over the plane of normal feelings, I felt the reality—the shifting, unnameable reality—of love, and so as Ann began to sob again and I took her in my arms and held her, I loved her and all of life with the full raging power of my reconsecrated heart.
Sometime later I got up and poured us both a drink. Ann took it in her hand and smiled at me. “You’re a good friend, David. It’s good that you’re here. I wish I could say it was what Hugh would have wanted, but really I can’t think of anyone else in the world who could be in this room right now. None of my new friends. Only you. The children. Sammy. This is a time for Sammy. Oh God, I have to call them. It has to be me.”
“I would do it for you.”
“I know.” She placed her glass on the table, still full.
“And then what?”
“Then the hospital. I should be there. And find out what I have to do.”
“Everyone will help.”
“I hope so.”
“They will.”
“I’d better call them.”
“Do you want me to leave?”
“I don’t really, but I think it would be right. You shouldn’t be here while I’m telling the kids.”
I nodded.
“You better go home, David. You should be on your way back to Chicago. You’ll get in a lot of trouble. You told me so yourself.”
“It doesn’t matter.”
“I know it feels like that right now, but it matters. We all have to look out for ourselves now. That’s how it’s working out. Hugh said the same thing: No more dreams of paradise; every man for himself.”
“It can’t be done.”
“You should go home.”
“I am home.”