Dr. Monroe reached out and offered his hand. Finn took it and they shook hands.
“Nice to meet you Finley. I’m glad Emilyn has another friend to come with her.”
Finn visibly bristled at the word ‘friend’, but that one didn’t need to be explained. In fact I wasn’t sure I could explain it even if I wanted to. I had no idea what Finn and I were right now. I don’t think we could exactly be called boyfriend and girlfriend. We seemed a bit more than such a cliché classification. Except, were we really? That was something I’d have to think about another time because I was about to see my baby on the ultrasound screen.
“Alright, let’s get started. I need you to lie back and lift your shirt. I’m going to put some of this jelly on your stomach again. It’s going to feel a bit cold again, I apologize for that.”
Finn stood up by my head while I did what Dr. Monroe asked.
Dr. Monroe squirted some blue gel on me and then ran the wand over my rounded stomach. He began moving it around in slow motion and an image appeared on the screen. I immediately recognized the fluttering as my baby’s heart.
“So here is the baby’s spine right here,” he pointed at a long boney looking image. He tapped the keyboard a couple of times, taking some measurements. “Here’s a little foot kicking around, which I’m sure you can feel fairly well by now.”
I smiled bigger than I already was and nodded my head.
“Right here is where the placenta is, and the cord coming out of it to your baby. It looks like everything is flowing properly.” More tapping on the keyboard. “Do you see the profile? What a perfect little face,” he practically cooed at the screen.
The baby really was perfect. I watched in awe as the image of my child moved around the screen. I’d never seen something more perfect. It was then that I remembered that Finn was standing by me. I was so consumed that I’d forgotten he was in the room too. Looking up at him he was watching the monitor and his eyes looked a bit glassy. Was he tearing up?
Not sure if I was making the right move, I reached up and laced my fingers through his hand that was resting by my head. He looked down at me then. He gave me one of the most loving and glorious smiles I’d ever seen. And if I wasn’t mistaken, I thought I’d seen love in them. Whether it was love for me, or for my child, I didn’t know. But at that very moment, Finn and I connected in a deeper way than we ever had before. He was here for me and my child. The look on his face was a look I’d expect to see on a father seeing his baby for the first time. This obviously wasn’t Finn’s child but looking at him now, you would never know the difference.
After some more tapping on the keyboard, Dr Monroe asked, “Would you like to know the sex of the baby?”
Looking away from Finn, I turned back to the doctor. I had thought about this for the past few months. Just as I opened my mouth to respond, Finn piped up.
“Yes. We definitely want to know!” He wasn’t even looking at me.
Dr. Monroe looked down at me and waited for confirmation.
“No, actually I don’t want to know.”
“What? Em…” Finn stopped talking when I turned my head back in his direction.
“I don’t want to know Finn. Not knowing what you’re having can be one of the great mysteries in life, and it’s just something that I’d rather be surprised about.”
He searched my face, trying to understand. “But what about planning and decorating the baby’s room? If we know, we can add pink or blue to go with the new yellow walls.”
I shrugged my shoulder, the paper beneath me creasing. “I’m fine with neutral colors.”
His brow furrowed, eventually looking away from me to the doctor. “I guess we don’t want to know.”
Dr Monroe gave me a kind smile. When he was done wiping the gel off my stomach, he went over to turn the lights on. I pulled my shirt back over my rounded tummy and Finn put a hand behind me to help me sit up. Dr. Monroe came over to the opposite side of the bed from Finn. Placing a handing on my shoulder he leaned in slightly.
“I love a good surprise! Here,” and he handed me a photo he had taken of the baby’s profile. “Just stop on the way out at the desk to schedule your next appointment and I’ll see you in another four weeks.” And with that he walked out of the door.
Left in the room with just Finn, it was silent. For some reason I couldn’t look at him. I expected him to be angry with me for not wanting to know the sex of the baby, but I also wanted to stand my ground. This was my child, and I hated to make it sound like I was being territorial but Finn wasn’t the father. If he wanted to be in our lives, I was more than okay with that, but as far as I was concerned I was the parent and I made the decisions, and this was something I didn’t want to know.
“Hey.” He was trying to get my attention. “Are you upset?”
I finally met his eye. “No, I’m fine. Are… are you upset with me?”
He was confused. “Why would I be upset?”
“Because, you wanted to find out and I didn’t.”
He shook his head, “Tiny Girl, if you didn’t want to know, then that was your choice. It would have been fun going out and buying pink or blue things, but I’ll just take this as a challenge. Bring on the neutral!” He smiled a sweet smile at me. I gave him a grin in return.
“Thanks… you know… for being here with me for this.”
He leaned in and touched his forehead to mine. “Always Em, always!”
I’d never been a big baby person, but holy shit that was one of the coolest things I’d ever seen. There was an actual human being growing inside Emilyn. Standing there looking at that screen, it was hard to wrap my mind around the whole thing. I’d be forever grateful that she let me be in there with her. What’s more, Em had always been one of the most beautiful girls I’d ever laid eyes on, but after that experience I didn’t think I’d ever find anyone more beautiful than her. She was an incredible woman.
The rest of the day passed quickly and before long we were back in the car on our way to her parent’s house. She was quietly humming to herself from the passenger seat. I felt myself growing anxious about seeing her parents again after so long. Especially knowing that they’d witnessed first-hand what I’d put her through. I didn’t know if they would be angry with me? Had they held a grudge? We were around the corner when Em looked at me and gave me a dazzling smile that lit up her whole face.
“My Mom is making ribs and potato salad, I hope that’s okay.”
“Of course.”
She looked at me as if she expected more of an answer.
“Oh my gosh!” She was smiling now. I glanced at her out of the corner of my eye. She was staring at me. I was white knuckling the steering wheel.
“What?”
“Holy shit!” Okay, now she was flat out laughing.
“Really Emilyn, you shouldn’t curse. It’s bad for the baby.” I said, keeping my eyes on the road.
That made her laugh even more. She was doubled over holding on to her stomach and wiping tears from her eyes.
“You’re scared to see my parents again, aren’t you?”
I didn’t find this very amusing. “No, why would I be?”
“How about you tell me!” I watched her take deep breaths, and it looked like she was trying to make an honest attempt to stop laughing.
“I really don’t know why you’re laughing, but if you keep it up you’ll be paying for it later.”
That shut her up really quick. Now I was the one chuckling.
“So in all seriousness, are you worried about seeing them again? You look like you’re about to take a chunk out of the steering wheel Finn.”
She was right. I loosened my grip and decided to out my pansy ass.
“Yes, okay? I’m nervous to see them again. I loved your parents, but they were the ones that were here with you after… well you know. I’d understand if they didn’t ever want to see me again. Hell, I wouldn’t want to see me again either. If I could, I’d kick my own ass for what I did to you!”