I said 'But how much does all this tie up with what my father is doing in biology?'
She said 'Good heavens, in no way at all, as far as I know.' She looked disappointed.
I said 'But shouldn't it?'
She said 'Why?'
I said 'Aren't they both to do with the things that go on between parents and children?'
She said 'I hadn't thought of that.'
I thought — But why haven't you thought of that?
— You mean, it might be because of something that happened in your early childhood?
I was quite pleased with this. I thought that I would like to tell it to my father.
Then — But why is it, yes, that I seem to want to score off my mother?
Dr Kammerer's visit to us was in 1923, the summer of my
eleventh birthday. These conversations with my mother, and then with my father, might have taken place a year or two later. But I was quite a clever little boy; I was at a good school to which I went each day; I liked listening to and joining in the conversations of grown-ups. I had few friends of my own age at this time.
I sometimes hung about outside the conservatory when my father was tending to what was left of his collection of sweet peas. His serious work was now done in his laboratory in Cambridge.
He would say 'Come in! Don't moon about!'
(He once said to me 'I used to have a goose like you who mooned about outside windows looking at itself in the glass: it thought its reflection was its lost lady-love, which I had eaten.')
I said 'Can I ask you something?'
'Fire away.'
'How much is the work that you are doing in genetics to do with what Mother is interested in in psychoanalysis?'
'Nothing.'
'Nothing?'
'Absolutely nothing.'
'But why not?'
My father was snipping bits off sweet peas. At some times of the year he would stroke them tenderly with a small artist's brush.
He said 'Scientists are interested only in what you can test and measure and tabulate. Psychoanalysis is a set of ideas and practices wholly outside this discipline. People are foolish only if they claim that it is not.'
I said 'Was that the trouble with Dr Kammerer?'
My father laughed. He seemed to spray bits of moisture from his moustache on to his sweet peas.
He said 'Yes, I think you might say that that is a trouble with Dr Kammerer.'
I said 'But suppose there are things that affect things, you know, but they can't be tested and measured — '
He said 'They wouldn't be science.'
I said 'But they might exist.'
He said 'Such as — '
I said 'I don't know.' I wanted to say — I mean the sort of things that might go away if you look at them; that work through the unconscious.
He said 'Have you been talking to your mother?'
I thought — But you must know there are things going on behind
the arguments you have with my mother; or if you don't, isn't this why you have such stupid arguments with my mother?
So — What was it that could have happened to my father in early childhood?
It was in the summer holidays of 1924 or even 1925 perhaps that my father went away on a long lecture tour of America. While he was away there came to stay with us a young student from Berlin University called Hans. Hans was the son of a professor who was in correspondence with my father.
(You say you did not know Hans in Berlin? And what had been imagined then of coincidences in a universal unconscious!)
I remember a conversation at the breakfast table just before my father left for America. He was reading a letter he had received from Berlin. He said This boy wants to come here and learn English.' My mother said 'How old is he?' My father said 'Eighteen.' My mother said 'He will make an interesting companion for Max.' My father said 'But it will be just at the time when I am away.' My mother said 'Well I suppose Max and I can speak English even when you are away.' My father said 'You know what I mean, you are not stupid.' I thought — Well I haven't any idea what he means: then — You mean, my mother might get up to no good with this boy? Then — But that is stupid!
My mother said 'And he can teach Max German.'
My father said 'That's a point.'
My mother said 'And Max can look after me, can't you, Max.'
So my father went away, and it was arranged that Hans would come to stay with us.
When Hans arrived he was a fair-haired, blue-eyed young man with a soft round face and a large mouth. He might have been my mother's younger brother. From the window of my attic I could watch him and my mother on the lawn. They stood facing one another, laughing and talking. I thought — They are like the Queen and Jack of Hearts in a fairy story: perhaps my father knew what he was talking about after all; he knew what might be going on in my mother's unconscious or, indeed, her conscious?
During the first few days of Hans's stay I kept out of the way of him and my mother; they spent much time together. I both did and did not see why I was doing this. I thought — Of course, it is in my unconscious; but of this fact I am conscious? Then — But participants in a fairy story have to be cunning to survive. I would watch my mother teaching Hans to play croquet on the lawn; she would stand
behind him and hold his hands and show him how to swing the mallet between his legs. My mother never played croquet with my father's friends. I thought — This is ridiculous.
I found myself bored with my chemistry set and my electricity set in my upstairs room. I would go down to my father's study and sit in his chair and put my feet up on his desk. It was unlikely that my mother would catch me, because she would be out playing croquet or picking fruit in the kitchen garden with Hans.
On my father's shelves there were some papers to do with Kammerer. There were cuttings from newspapers in England and America — the headlines were: 'Vienna Biologist Hailed As The Greatest Of The Century'; 'Scientist Claims To Have Found How To Transmit Good Qualities'; 'Transformation Of The Human Race'. There were pencilled exclamation marks by my father at the sides of these cuttings: there was a letter to my father from someone in America expressing disquiet and even disgust at the fame that Kammerer had gained in America, where he had been on a lecture tour just before my father.
I thought — My father has gone to America to fight some sort of duel with Kammerer? They will meet like knights on a hot and dusty Midwestern plain -
Then — But who do I want to win in a battle between my father and Dr Kammerer?
There were other papers on my father's shelves. Most of them I did not understand. There were mathematical symbols like small fishes trying to crawl up out of the sea on to dry land.
I thought — But then what is the battle between me, and my mother, and this young man called Hans?
— It is a help, if you imagine your unconscious as a participant in a fairy story?
— I mean in the end, some of us may be fitted to the environment and some may not?
Then — Who am I talking about? Who am I talking to? Myself? My father? Dr Kammerer?
— Or that person, whoever it is, with whom one day I will have no battle with words.
Once I went up to my mother's bedroom to look through the books that she kept by her bed. It had begun to strike me — Why does she sleep in a room separate from my father? Beside my mother's bed there was a book called The Interpretation of Dreams. She had marked some passages in the margins with a pencil. I sat
down on my mother's bed to read some of these. I could not be caught, because my mother had gone out bicycling with Hans. I read -
It may be that we were all destined to direct our first sexual impulses towards our mothers, and our first impulse of hatred and violence towards our fathers; our dreams convince us that we were. King Oedipus, who slew his father Laius and wedded his mother Jocasta, is nothing more or less than a wish fulfilment — the fulfilment of the wish of our childhood. But we, more fortunate than he, in so far as we have not become psychoneurotics, have since our childhood succeeded in withdrawing our sexual impulses from our mothers and in forgetting our jealousy ofourfathers.