So, why am I hesitating to go inside?
My mom left a note for me on the counter by the toaster this morning. It said, “I cannot express how proud I am of you, Adrienne. Have a wonderful first day! I love you, Mom.”
I close my eyes and sigh. I want to believe what Chevy said last night, about me not being able to disappoint my mom. Considering her dramatic reaction to my choice to not do this the first time, I can’t help but doubt it. I get out of my car and walk in through the double doors.
The receptionist, who is all smiles, sees me. “You must be Adrienne.” I nod. “I’m Denise. Just keep walking down this hall, and take a left. There’s a sign in front of the room you need to go in.”
I nod again and say, “Thank you,” as I head down the hall. This isn’t the first time I’ve been here. There were a couple family members who lived here years ago. The appearance on the inside hasn’t changed—the pale orange walls and wooden-framed artwork remains as I remember it.
So, could somebody please tell me why my stomach is starting to do flip-flops?
I pass an older woman in a wheelchair. She is sitting in front of her room staring into space. A nurse comes out of the room and pushes her back in. I keep walking. The sterile smell hits me suddenly, despite being inside for at least a minute. It starts to consume every breath I take in. I hear the sound of monitors and machines beep and pulse, drifting in and out of some rooms. With every step I take, my stomach continues to flip.
By the time I reach the end of the hall, I begin to feel dizzy. I stop and put a clammy hand on the wall to steady myself. A wave of nausea comes over me. I've been here before—it's unmistakable.
I'm going to faint.
My heart is racing. I need to calm down but I don’t know how.
I hear footsteps come closer, followed by a concerned voice. “Adrienne? Are you okay?” I glance up and see Aunt Faith. She has her brown hair pulled back in a high ponytail. Her brows furrow as she comes closer. “Oh sweetie,” she says, touching my forehead. “You look like you’re about to pass out.” I open my mouth to speak but nothing comes out. “Here,” she says, taking my arm and slinging it over her shoulder. “Let’s get you somewhere you can sit down.”
“Okay,” I squeak out.
She leads me off to what appears to be a break room. She sits me down at the table, pours a glass of water, and sits down next to me. “Drink some. It will make you feel better.”
I reluctantly drink a little. “Thank you.”
“You’re welcome.” She pauses, pressing her lips together. “What happened? Did you skip breakfast?” I shake my head. “Are you nervous?”
“I don’t know. I was fine until I got here. Then I started to feel dizzy and my heart was racing as I came down the hall.”
“I see.” She leans back in her chair. “Adrienne, can I ask you something?”
“Of course.”
“Do you really want to be a nurse?”
I stiffen. “Why do you ask?”
“I’m asking because I believe you just had a panic attack.”
My eyes widen. I've been panicking off and on since I started to relive the summer. I chalked it up to just that. What if it’s not? “But I have to be a nurse.”
She shakes her head. “No, you don’t. Not if you don’t want to be.”
“You of all people should understand why I have to be a nurse.”
She sighs and leans back in her chair. “You’re right. I do understand. But I didn’t ask your mom if you should be a nurse. I asked you. Do you want to be a nurse?”
I think about it for a moment. Do I want to be a nurse? I envision myself as a nurse, like the one I saw pushing the woman in the wheelchair. Try as I might, I can’t see it. How is this possible? “I don’t know if I do anymore, and if I don’t know it probably means deep down that I don’t.” I groan. “Why is this happening now? After all these years of working toward this goal, how could I not want it anymore?” I put my head in my hands. “This is just awful. Especially after all the strings you pulled for me to be able to do this.”
I feel her hand on my shoulder. “Look. Don’t worry about that. Everyone goes through this. I didn’t become a nurse’s aide until I wanted to be one. Maybe it will be the same for you. Maybe two years from now you'll want it. Or maybe you'll never want it. This job isn’t for just anyone, you know. It’s the kind of dirty, hands-on job a lot of people shy away from.”
I think about the smells encasing me only a moment ago. I consider the things I would have to clean up. It causes me to shudder and the nausea flickers again. “What should I do? My mom is expecting me to do this. I told her I wanted this. I’m supposed to be going to college in the fall.” What will happen when she finds out?
She tilts my chin up, looking me in the eye. “The way I see it, you have two choices: stay or go. Either stay and carry on like this never happened, or you go and figure out a new plan.”
That simple, huh? Stay or go. I would hate to give it up after all this time. As much as I want to make my mom happy, I don’t want this. The thought of leaving it all behind both thrills and frightens me. The possibilities are endless, but what will I tell my mom? I already know how she will react. Unless…
Unless restarting had nothing to do with pleasing my mom—maybe it wasn’t my destiny to do this. And if it wasn’t my destiny, then there's something else out there. Something else that I need to search out. I can’t search it out if I stay here.
“What are you going to do?” Faith asks me.
There is only one answer. “Go.”
I drive to Lyndsay’s house. I figure it will be the safest place to hide out until I need to tell my mom. If I go home now, what if Maurice comes home early? The chance of this is slim, but still. He would tell my mom and she'll know something is up. That wouldn't be a good start to the conversation I need to have. As far as that conversation goes, what do I say? I can’t be straightforward and say straight out of the gate that I'm not going to be a nurse. Perhaps if I start with the panic attack, she'll go easy on me.
I spend the rest of the day browsing through Lyndsay’s college catalogs, something I have never done before. Although I’ve heard of most of these careers, it feels different looking at them now. I could do one of them, any of them. The possibilities are endlesstoo endless. Paralegal. Medical transcription. Social work. Teacher. Journalism. My head starts to spin. Can I see myself doing any of these?
When Lyndsay walks in, she finds me facedown on her bed. She throws her purse on my legs and I jump. I throw her a scowl and shove my face back down. She says, “You do realize how bizarre this is, don’t you?”
Bizarre? You have no idea, Lyndsay. No idea. I am eighteen years old and not only career-less but also struggling to pick out an alternative. I ask, “What is bizarre?” only it sounds like, “Wuhf ith bishare?” through the covers.
Her bed squeaks as she sits at the end by my feet. “Between the two of us, I never imagined that I'd be the one who went into nursing while you didn’t.”
I turn my face to the side and smile. “Life is funny that way.”
“How are you going to tell your mom?”
“I’m going to play the sympathy card and mention almost fainting.”
“That may work.”
“It probably won’t but I need to stay positive.”
She scoffs. “You’re doing a great job there.” I smack her thigh with my hand. “Ow! I was only teasing.” She rubs the spot where I hit her. “You didn’t miss much though. It was mostly a bunch of formalities, a tour of the place and where everything is... There isn’t too much I can do until I take the nurse’s aide course.”