Allah: «Even if my servants ask you (Muhammad a.s.) about Me, I am close to them.» said, and God knows better than we do. So I think you know exactly who to ask for help in letting go of the past.
Make it a rule for yourself not to return to bad memories of what happened up to this minute, and stick to that rule. Don’t forget that stealing in the graveyard will cost you too much life. The past is gone, it’s gone, it’s gone: let it go. Here is the great secret to all our sorrows, disappointments, and failures: get rid of them (the past). Remove them from your mind, clear the debris of the past, leaving an empty space for a happy life, and let go of the idea that they are with you in the present. You see, the only place they can live is in your mind.
The present time, the present moment is full of interesting and amazing things, it is a great opportunity for everyone to use their time properly. Man, it is foolishness to spend all of your spiritual energy and all of your life on something dead right now, in this moment. Leave the past behind. Release it. Set yourself free. Don’t go robbing graves, reliving old mistakes, failures, and the like. There is a new day, which means there is a future. Learn to be happy and be happy that it will be okay. Leave the past in the past.
You were created for today and now, you have no other time, you live in the chain of «today» and «now», the past is late, the future is closed.
Today is the happiest day, the most successful day, the most successful day of your life. If you are freed from the past, know that you are one step closer to the truth!
Are you trying to mow your lawn with a pair of clippers or open cans with a pry bar? Of course not. You can only do housework effectively with the most effective tools you can find or buy.
But how is all this implemented in life? What tools do you use in your life? Have you noticed that our every thought, every word and every action affects our physical condition (our health), affects the environment and people we choose, affects who we talk to and with whom we build relationships. If as a result of this we bring ourselves to things called unhappiness, failure, disease, poverty (etc.), then it is because we have not made the right choice and decision. Inevitably, this is a testament to how you use your mind.
Each of us has a huge mechanism of creativity. You can call it the palace of thought and imagination. It contains the materials we use to create what we want. One of the most effective weapons we use to shape our thoughts in the right way is the power of imagination, or as we commonly call it, just imagination. It is the power of imagination, the sum total of all God-given abilities, most importantly under our control and control. Sometimes it seems that our imagination, the creator of our images, is playing cruel tricks on us because it cannot observe our words and actions and relate them to our desires, so we abandon our dreams and goals, because most of us do not match our words or our words outstrip our actions.
But the rule is that personal improvement and success in business are always related to the picture of our imaginary image. Stress, illness and poverty (etc.) are symptoms of something broken in our mind mechanism. We form images of poverty or disease under the influence of external factors, these thoughts of poverty and disease become the power of imagination and hold them in our minds until the unconscious brings them into real life, and we are unable to get rid of those thoughts and images. In short, psychological proof of how a person makes himself poor or sick.
The best time to deal with any negative thought is when it first appears in your mind. This is the time when the enemy (evil thought, image) is at its weakest. But rather than fighting it after it appears, it is better to prevent it from entering the unconscious. (You can read more about how to do this in books one and two). Be a watchful guard of thoughts, let only thoughts of a creative and useful nature into the palace of imagination.
It is very important to «exercise control» by writing down your thoughts, you will learn to protect and control your mind. every thought is related to our character and actions, so by writing each of them, you will begin to know yourself, remember: every thought is an inner word, so it is not difficult to write a thought into a word, and most importantly, do not be afraid of yourself, no matter how bad the thought or word is, because you have to rise above it.
The only way to change your destiny is to change your habitual way of thinking. What do you often think about? At the right time, we take on great responsibility. We must always remember that our thoughts and words can affect the world we live in, either creatively or destructively. Do you constantly say, «I can’t take it anymore, I’m sick, I don’t have enough money, I’m so tired»? So, you are giving up your strength, health and prosperity in this way.
Don’t give up the happiness that belongs to you because of laziness.
Jealousy, anger, narrow-mindedness, hypocrisy, pride (etc.) and thoughts and emotions filled with sadness and grief and fear will cause your body to respond with disorder and disease.
Use the tools of imagination wisely and say to yourself: «I can endure every hardship of life, I fear no disease, I always have enough money, I do not tire and I have unlimited energy, I am in good and right relations with all people and myself.» You pave the way for health, happiness and prosperity. If you are an open and kind person, if you are loyal and caring towards your loved ones, then you will soon know that you are in the «Kingdom of Goodness». Every good thing you do to yourself, to others, life will return to you a hundredfold.
Have you ever wondered about the weight of the letters of the alphabet? Did you know that letters have weight? For example, what is the weight of the uppercase letter «I» compared to the lowercase letter «I»? In the first case, a person is speaking without confidence, in the second case, a person is speaking too confidently. Sometimes the difference in weight is like the difference between earth and sky. Examples for you: the «I» of a famous star is not the same as the «I» of a person who no one knows, who picks up garbage. Similarly, rich and poor, healthy and sick, etc.
I don’t know if you’ve noticed, but English is the only one of all European languages that capitalizes «I» in the middle of a sentence. they put a lot of emphasis on the word «I» when they speak. sometimes we give too much weight to this word in our life, but it prevents us from living properly. the weight of our self often limits our horizons instead of expanding our minds. I think you know what I mean. Someone sits in a restaurant and first complains, then angrily warns and scolds: «I’m so tired. I shopped for two hours. Where did this waiter disappear to? Otherwise, I will go and eat elsewhere.» My point is: the waiter has been working on his feet for more than two hours, maybe he should be a little more understanding and wait without getting angry or fighting. If visitors ask the waiter: «How do you handle so many tables at the same time and even in such bad weather?»
Have you ever noticed how we start to resist when someone’s «I» weight is bigger than ours?
A woman was angry with her husband because of her weight: «My shoulder hurt this morning.» Her husband told her, «My hand hurts worse than yours.» No one likes when someone else is in pain, because our «I» is very painful. If you expect someone to pity me, he will expect it from you.