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Lisa Miller, «The Retro Wife,» New York, March 17, 2013, nymag.com/news/features/retro-wife-2013-3.
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Aaron Gouveia, «It’s Time to Stop Treating Dads Like Idiots,» Huf ngton Post, May 20, 2013, huf ngtonpost.com/aaron-gouveia/its-time-to-stop-treating-dads-like-idiots_b_3179351.html.
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Claude Steele, Whistling Vivaldi: How Stereotypes Affect Us and What We Can Do (New York: W. W. Norton, 2010), eBook, pp. 131—32.
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імейл до Анни-Марі Слотер, 8 вересня 2012.
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Jack O’Sullivan, «The Masculinity Debate,» Guardian, May 21, 2013, theguardian.com/commentisfree/2013/may/21/masculinity-debate-men-fear-ridicule-matriarchy.
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Navneet Magon and Sanjay Kalra, «The Orgasmic History of Oxytocin: Love, Lust, and Labor,» Indian Journal of Endocrinology and Metabolism, 15, suppl. 13 (September 2011): 5156—61, ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/ PMC3183515.
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T. H. Clutton-Brock, The Evolution of Parental Care (Princeton, NJ: Princeton University Press, 1991), p. 132.
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Craig Howard Kinsley and Kelly G. Lambert, «The Maternal Brain,» Scienti c American, January 2006, www2.sunysuffolk.edu/benharm/Articles/the %20maternal %20brain %20- %20kinsley.pdf.
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Kelly G. Lambert, «The Parental Brain: Transformations and Adaptations,» Physiology & Behavior, 107 (2012), 792—800, ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/22480732.
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Benedetta Leuner, Erica R. Glasper, and Elizabeth Gould, «Parenting and Plasticity,» Trends in Neurosciences, 33, no. 10 (October 2010): 465—73, ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/20832872.
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Pilyoung Kim, Paola Rigo, Linda C. Mayes, et al., «Neural Plasticity in Fathers of Human Infants,» Social Neuroscience 9, no. 5 (2014): 522—35, tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/17470919.2014.933713.
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Christian Jarrett, «How Becoming a Father Changes Your Brain,» Wired, July 17, 2014, wired.com/ 2014/07/how-becoming-a-father-changes-your-brain.
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Brigid Schulte, «With Exposure to Babies, Rodent Dads’ Brains, Like Moms’, Become Wired for Nurture,» Washington Post, June 15, 2013, washingtonpost.com/ local/with-exposure-to-babies-rodent-dads-brains-like-moms-become-wired-for-nurture/2013/06/15/8f0758ea-d3e6-11e2-a73e-826d299ff459_story.html.
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Jennifer Senior, All Joy and No Fun: The Paradox of Modern Parenting (New York: HarperCollins, 2014).
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з T. J. Mathews and Brady E. Hamilton, «Delayed Childbearing: More Women Are Having Their First Child Later in Life,» NCHS Data Brief No. 21, August 2009, cdc.gov/nchs/data/databriefs/db21.pdf.
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Senior, All Joy and No Fun, p. 7.
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Milton Mayeroff, On Caring (New York: Harper & Row, 1971), p. xv, quoting Andras Angyal.
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Katrin Bennhold, «When Dad Becomes the Lead Parent,» New York Times, July 9, 2013, nytimes .com/2013/07/10/world/europe/When-Dad-Becomes-the-Lead-Parent.html.
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у Paul Taylor, ed., «The Decline of Marriage and Rise of New Families,» Pew Research Center Social and Demographic Trends, November 18, 2010, pewsocialtrends.org/ les/2010/11/pewsocial-trends-2010-families.pdf.
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Hanna Rosin, The End of Men (New York: Riverhead Books, 2012), p. 15.
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Guy Raz, «An NPR Host’s Other Job: Stay-At-Home Dad,» Atlantic, March 17, 2011, theatlantic.com/national/archive/2011/03/an-npr-hosts-other-job-stay-at-home-dad/72588.
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Gianna Palmer, «What Impact Has ‘Lean In’ Had on Women?,» BBC News, March 5, 2015, bbc.com/news/business-31727796.
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Mary-Ann Russon, «50 Shades of Grey Joins Top 10 Bestselling Books: How Many Have You Read?,» International Business Times, February 27, 2014, ibtimes.co.uk/50-shades-grey-joins-top-10-bestselling-books-how-many-have-you-read-1438234.
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Marianne Bertrand, Emir Kamenica, and Jessica Pan, «Gender Identity and Relative Income Within Households,» National Bureau of Economic Research Working Paper Series, May 2013, nber.org/papers/w19023.
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Betsy Polk and Maggie Ellis Chotas, Power Through Partnership: How Women Lead Better Together (San Francisco: Berett-Koehler, 2014), p. 14.
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Debora L. Spar, Wonder Women: Sex, Power, and the Quest for Perfection (New York: Farrar, Straus and Giroux, 2013), p. 234.
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Там же.
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Там же, с. 233.
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Betsey Stevenson and Justin Wolfers, «The Paradox of Declining Female Happiness,» American Economic Journaclass="underline" Economic Policy 1, no. 2 (2009): 190—225.
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з Gro Harlem Brundtland, Madam Prime Minister: A Life in Power and Politics (New York: Farrar, Straus and Giroux, 2002), p. 57.
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Nancy Gibbs, «Norway’s Radical Daughter,» Time, June 24, 2001, content.time.com/time/ magazine/article/0,9171,152609,00.html.
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