At a certain point I just ran out of gas, like a plane, I nose dive. Crash land and then … nothing.
The silence terrifies me. “Monica, please, say something? Hit me, anything."
"You know, it's funny.” She is staring at the bookcase, past my head, the richly bound leather volumes that Thomas found so fascinating and was so proud to own though he never felt worthy of the contents. “I knew for a long time he was unhappy. Didn't have it in him to back out, though. Not that kind of man. ‘Sorry, honey, I outgrew you, let's divorce.’ Not in the cards. With Vicky it was different, she forced his hand and he wasn't in a position to defend himself as husband and father. My answer was to let him go where he wanted, set up a business in Florida. We couldn't afford it. Things were barely afloat in Atlanta. But it was his dream, you know, the dirt and all, and the communities he wanted to see built. You know what I think? I think every time he put up a house he hoped a couple inside would be happy, happier than he could be. The more houses, the greater the odds.
"I was scared for him, though, a wife knows things. Oh, god I did it all wrong, I knew how to nag him, I tried to show him how helpless he could be so he'd come running home, and every time he didn't, I would just cry, sorry for him, sorry for me. He sent me those flowers, you know, every month. Was that for me or him … was it for you?"
I look into those pretty eyes, trophy wife eyes. She'll be fine; men will flock to her. She'll always get what she needs; she's made that way. She's like that blood type, what is the one, where you can take from anyone? Thomas, he was the one that could give to anyone.
"For me? Why me?” My own voice sounds like an intrusion in her monologue.
"To reassure you, things were okay in his marriage. You know what Caroline? I am actually relieved to hear all these things. Does that sound crazy?"
"I think I am a real bad person to judge right now."
"Thomas found some peace with you. I didn't meet his needs, you did. You want to play truth time, Caroline? I knew he needed to be dominant. Before he dated me he was with my sister, they played around a little. She talked, like girls do. He tied her up, gave her a spanking. She got off on it but she was intimidated. It was like Chinese food to her, something you order once a month. She was afraid it would turn out to be a staple to Thomas."
I force back a smile.
She should only know about Brian. BDSM is that boy's meat and potatoes, his frigging oxygen.
"I swooped in, he was a catch, and I am not a fool. I knew what his being in my life would mean for my daughters and me. I'm an entrepreneur. He was an opportunity. He signed the deal; it was legal."
"You didn't use him,” I'm quick to say. “He got things from you I couldn't have given. You were this … force in his life, something that made everything come together. He lived for you. And the girls."
"He should have lived for himself. We all should. But we don't, do we?"
I think about Thomas, always telling me to go for what I want. What is the point of holding back?
"Monica, I've resented you."
This wasn't in my plan book.
"It's mutual,” she replies, without animosity. “And inevitable. The question is, which one of us was the other woman?"
I have to laugh. “Thomas and I used to joke about that."
"So did we,” she surprises me. “You know he wanted an open marriage?"
"Yes … although I didn't think he ever talked to you."
"He didn't have to. We were married, you know, even if we didn't live together."
"Thomas was born into the wrong world,” I muse. “Don't you think?"
I get a smile out of her. “If ever a man needed a harem."
"Or deserved it,” I added. “He spent his life trying to clean up men's messes. Every time he talked to a woman, befriended her, he was trying to let her know; all males are not assholes."
"Are there any women that good?"
"Present company excluded?"
"We aren't good,” she smiles. “We used him … mercilessly."
I take issue. “I tried to keep things even with him, though, I thought of him, his needs, constantly. I'm not sure it was all that bad."
"Then why are you here?"
It's my turn to be silent.
"Does it really turn you on,” she asks after a while. “To be dominated?"
"Yes. Sometimes."
"Where do you think that comes from? If I may ask?"
"I have tried to figure that out. Sometimes I think it's my upbringing. The fact that people crossed my signals early on, pain and pleasure and all that boundary stuff. But Thomas … if you don't mind my saying more about this … taught me to just embrace it as me. Why is somebody gay? Why do they like chocolate and not vanilla? It's society that starts with the viewpoint that some of our desires are wrong and need to be ‘explained’ as aberration or disorder."
"How does a submissive person keep from being abused?"
"Another thing I wrestle with … I guess you have to know yourself, be able to draw the limits. It's something someone can help you with but they can't do it for me. If I get a thrill from being hit by a cane and you talk me out of it, aren't you the abuser as opposed to the one who hits me? As long as it's done safely, of course, within reason."
"And you like being hit by canes and all that?"
I laugh at the expression on her face. “I'm not into anything too heavy duty."
"I can't picture Thomas doing things like that."
"Me neither."
"Something I never understood was how Thomas could have normal sex with me-sorry, non-BDSM sex and do all that other stuff with you."
"Some people are bisexual, right? Why can't people like different things with different people?"
She takes a deep breath. “Caroline, I don't think we can keep working together."
"I anticipated that."
Actually, I had expected to be thrown out on my ear or buried under a shelf of books so a simply pink slip isn't bad.
"It's not for the reasons you think. I don't hate you, and I hope you don't hate me. You can see, we can talk and that will always be there between us, but I'm a proud woman, a bitch, frankly. I can't afford to let people close to me; it gives them an awful lot of power. I am going to have to run this business now and when I have my little nervous breakdown, which I am sure is coming, it will have to be in front of strangers. You know too much. The only one who was close enough to see me cry is gone. I don't know if I can ever allow that with another. I have to be hard, I'm sorry. It's a character flaw, I'm sure you know my weaknesses better than me, Thomas probably gave you an earful."
"No, he never talked you down. He didn't see you or anything that way. Everything he saw in you was all about your uniqueness and that made him love you more. And no, I don't hate you. For Thomas’ sake, I wish you happiness."
"For Thomas’ sake I want that for you, too. What will you do with yourself?"
I settle back. “Would you believe I met someone?"
"Brian."
I wince. “He made it a little obvious at the funeral."
"He did me a favor. I couldn't have ridden back with you or anyone-just my daughters."
I nod. “I hope this isn't too weird…"
"Life is weird, Caroline."
"That's an understatement. The thing is … we … we will probably run into each other."
"You are dating my children's half sibling,” she acknowledges. “And I don't want that relationship interfered with. Thomas wanted his children to be close-Brian and Kasey and Erin."
I tear up. “He loved those girls…"
"They will never have another father. If I marry-when I marry-it will be clear to the man, and as you know I am good at setting terms."