There are a number of techniques which the Mistress can apply for her slave to provide these pleasures:
• Mistress lying on the bed, slave between her thighs
• Slave lying on his back with the Mistress straddling slave's head
• Chair with hole or slot cut for kneeling slave to pleasure his seated Mistress
• Mistress seated with slave kneeling in front of the chair.
Which are used is a matter of choice though I do not personally have a specially prepared chair. But for the Mistress who likes to use her slave frequently in this way, other than at bed time I suggest ringing the changes for a bit of variety. It is important that the slave learns that he may be used at any time, day or night and with any frequency rather than think that there might be a regular routine. Thus I will often summon my slave in the middle of the night if I wake and cannot get back to sleep and order him to assume the position even though he may have pleasured me a few hours before when I went to bed.
Another technique which I do like is to fit the slave with a double ended penis gag. One end goes in his mouth; the other is for my pleasure. It is particularly humiliating for slaves to be used in this way with a symbolic male phallus in his mouth, knowing his own organ will never be used thus.
Once again commands can be given to the slave such as 'longer', 'shorter', 'faster', and ‘slower’. I use the remote control device now so it is merely a matter of pressing the button.
With all sexual servitude the slave should be trained to keep his tongue or the phallus in position if he is ordered to stop and not to withdraw. The Mistress may wish him to resume his efforts after an interlude.
A well trained slave will be aware that it is his duty to apply his tongue in the worship of all parts of his Mistress' body. The one exception which I feel should be taboo is The Mistress' anus. I know of several of my friends who make their slaves do this but one should be aware that unless the Mistress has recently washed there is a considerable health hazard in this practice and personally I would get no pleasure from it at all. However I am very happy for all other parts of my body to receive the attention of my slave's tongue.
If the Mistress wishes to have her anus licked by a slave placed on his back he should be trained to lick as soon as the Mistress straddles his head and to continue until she raises herself or orders him to stop.
Many Mistresses seek to train their slaves to be anally receptive and it is particularly humiliating for a male slave to be used in this way. It can be unwise and possibly dangerous to force a large object into a slave's anus which is not properly conditioned so regular and extended training with a butt plug is essential to 'open the slave up' thus allowing him to accommodate larger and larger plugs.
Devices which can be used are:
• Strap on dildo resembling male phallus
• Butt plugs of various sizes
• Inflatable plug
• Electric butt plugs connected to TENS unit
• Electric prostate massager
Any object inserted into the slave's anus must be totally smooth and rounded and must be well lubricated. If the object is to be repeatedly inserted and withdrawn as when 'ass fucking ' the slave then a petroleum based lubricant should be used.
The slave should be trained to assume a position for anal use on command.
A suitable position is with the slave kneeling, buttocks in the air, knees wide, nose to the floor. His hands can be folded tightly in the small of his back, placed palms down beside his head or used to spread his buttock cheeks presenting the anus to the Mistress. It is good training to make the slave push backwards when he feels pressure on the sphincter thus impaling himself rather than have the Mistress push the object into him. This is a highly submissive act demonstrating the slave's acknowledgement of the Mistress' right to use him in this way.
Use of the strap on dildo by a Mistress on her slave has done more to liberate women than a whip or paddle ever did. The woman is wielding the former symbol of male superiority. This is sex of the psyches. A rubber strap on phallus gives little or no pleasure to the Mistress unless it is the type of harness that can stimulate her at the same time but the mental pleasure and the mental stimulation, coupled with the power exchange, can provide pleasure almost as great as the physical pleasure. Using a strap on with a male slave is pure mental domination. The former symbol of masculinity is being used against the slave who feels nothing but discomfort and humiliation.
It is entirely appropriate for the slave to be ordered to take the rubber phallus in his mouth and lubricate it prior to assuming the position for anal use. In this case it is essential that the slave applies the petroleum jelly to his anus with his fingers. He can be ordered to prepare his anus for use before presenting himself.
The use of an electric plug can be very satisfying for the Mistress as, once switched on, the plug will move in and out in time with the signal being applied and the Mistress can sit back and watch her slave 'ass fucked' by the plug.
My slave
It is a very unusual day if I do not require sex from my slave at least once.
Invariably he pleases me when I go to bed and often more than once. Often if I have trouble sleeping I summon him and he pleases me again. I find it extremely soporific therapy to feel the slave tongue active between my legs.
Sometimes my sadistic side gets the better of me and I get even more pleasure knowing the slave is in pain. It seems his desire to please me is that much more fervent if the TENS unit is connected to his cock. Now I wonder why that is. It is amazing how his tongue springs to life when I turn up the power.
20
BONDAGE
To keep a slave in bondage is as important as keeping him in chastity so that he is constantly reminded of what he is. There are two kinds of bondage we should consider. Firstly the irons, chains and shackles a slave should wear all the time and secondly the times when he is tied or chained by the Mistress for a specific purpose, for torture say or for punishment.
The slave should always wear some kind of 'collar' even in public.
Additionally, in private, it is desirable that he should wear wrist and ankle cuffs and chains to limit his freedom of movement. My personal preference is for steel manacles but these need to be made to measure so that they are neither too tight nor too loose. For practical purposes steel manacles should be light if the slave is wearing them for extended periods. The idea of a slave in heavy irons and chains might seem attractive but is not practical and will lead to skin abrasions in a short time. When the slave serves in the home he can be fitted with an ankle chain which should be as short as possible whilst allowing him the necessary movement to carry out his duties.
My slave:
In the home wears a 4 cuff and collar set of stainless irons with a 50cm chain linking his ankles. There is another chain around his waist to which his wrists are linked by two further chains, each one just long enough to allow complete movement of the arms. I would always prefer shorter chains which restrict movement but it will not work if the slave is to be able to carry out all the domestic tasks assigned. When the slave is permitted clothes these wrist chains remain and hang inside his trousers; another constant reminder of what he is. In public the collar is replaced with a neck chain and the cuffs and ankle chain removed.
Bondage as punishment