Later you can tell him what will happen if he ever wishes to backtrack and take back his former rights of veto. One might ask if it is wise or legal to apply such pressures to one’s slave. The answer is quite definitely yes.
1. When the slave gives up his former ‘rights’ in the consensual relationship he freely enters into the non consensual one knowing precisely what would happen.
2. If the Mistress ever had a need to carry out the threat she would only be exposing the truth. The evidence is there for all to see.
3. No male will ever complain about the perceived threat before it was applied as this would expose him and no-one would believe him anyway.
4. If the threat were applied there would be no sympathy for the slave at all. In fact he would become just a figure of ridicule.
What are the advantages of such a relationship?
1. There will be a dramatic improvement in the slave’s servitude concurrent with the realization in his own mind that he now does not have any choices.
2. Any doubts on the part of the Mistress concerning the slave’s reaction to her imposed regime will melt away. The Mistress will be free to pursue the lifestyle she wants and experience the power rush associated with owning and being served by a real slave without the nagging fear that he may dissent and not obey.
I can understand some married women's concerns about this but if you are unable to adopt these tactics then I must say that you will never be served by a true slave in a situation where you are totally in charge. You could perhaps consider withdrawing his permission to do something he really likes doing,
Playing golf say but this does not have the element of compulsion that the other two have because it will not humiliate the slave. He could simply not accept it. You could say you will divorce him if he does not agree to a non consensual relationship and find a slave who will but this rather defeats the object if you love him.
No, the only way to get the slave husband to become a true non consensual slave is to adopt a strategy similar to the one described. From my experience if he is a true submissive he will serve you well and love you even more with the added incentive of apprehension at what you might do if he dissents.
I have laboured this point deliberately because it is upon this premise that this book and my lifestyle are based. I see no point whatsoever in a consensual Mistress/slave relationship. Who is, in reality, in charge? It is, if you think about it, merely playing, a sham. And it is for that reason that I say that if a Mistress does not wish to, or is unable to make the change from consensual to non consensual slavery then she might as well not read the remainder of this book.
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QUESTIONNAIRE
For a married Mistress still unsure as to whether she should make the move suggested I have included a short questionnaire. The marks for each answer are shown below each statement. Just ring the answer with which you best agree and add up the score at the end. You will then be able to come to your own conclusions. In answering the questions you should consider your first reaction and not spend too much time thinking about it. That way you will discover your true desires. The questions are in random order deliberately to assist in this process.
1. When you think of him say first thing in the morning or last thing at night as you go to sleep what thought springs to mind? You regard him as:
Husband (1) slave (2)
2. You agree with and require total 24/7/365 chastity.
No (1) Yes (2)
3. You think the slave should not have the right to set limits on the behaviour of the Mistress
No (1) Yes (2)
4. You love your slave and always will but you want to humiliate him, hurt him and make him suffer in his servitude to you.
No (1) Yes (2)
5. You think a system of penalty or demerit points should operate at all times with the slave entering your award of points in a book on a daily basis.
No (1) Yes (2)
6. Sometimes your slave's reaction to a command is sullen or impertinent and not humble and servile. This rankles with you.
No (1) Yes (2)
7. You like to see your slave’s body striped with the marks from your whips and canes and enjoy inflicting pain which is:
Mild (1) Severe (2)
8. You find pleasure in torturing the slave for pleasure including the use of wax, nettles, electric currents, nipple and penis clamps, enemas, ice etc
No (1) Yes (2)
9. Being orally pleasured by a slave to whom you deny all forms of sexual pleasure is a power rush and an extremely erotic experience.
No (1) Yes (2)
10. You think the slave should have no money of his own and you will control all finances.
No (1) Yes (2)
11 If he cries out when you cane him or whip him you feel sorry for him or you want to give him more.
Feel sorry (1) Give him more (2)
12. You sometimes feel inhibited in what you can do to your slave by concern over an adverse reaction on his part which spoils things for you.
No (1) Yes (2)
13. If your slave has accrued less than the stipulated maximum number of demerit points in a month and (in his eyes) earned an orgasm you might still deny it just for fun or to teach him who is Mistress.
No (1) Yes (2)
14. The slave you want is a human being with feelings to be considered or an item of your property, an object whose opinions you are not really interested in.
Human (1) Object (2)
15. Sexual pleasures provided by the slave are increased if, at the same time, he is suffering discomfort or pain as a result some ongoing applied torture.
No (1) Yes (2)
16. You are fed up with back chat from your slave and wish to stamp it out completely.
No (1) Yes (2)
17. Being pleasured orally by a slave, knowing he is forced to serve you this way even though he may not wish to, makes the experience more erotic and pleasurable.
No (1) Yes (2)
18. You want your slave to be made to beg your permission to do anything which is not obeying one of your commands.
No (1) Yes (2)
19. Owning a slave who has no choice but to serve and obey would be an adrenalin rush for you and would increase your pleasure.
No (1) Yes (2)
20. You would be more sexually excited if you ordered your slave to pleasure you immediately following punishment than at some other time.
No (1) Yes (2)
Total score…………………………………..
Your score will be between 20 and 40. If you have scored 30 or more you should seriously consider telling your slave that you have decided that you want non consensual slavery from him.
If you have scored over 34 then we are kindred spirits and you really should introduce some form of compulsion and turn him into a non consensual slave. The benefits to you will then be manifold and great.
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DECISION TIME
Once she has made the change to a non consensual relationship a Mistress will never look back. She will have total power exchange for real. She will no longer wonder if her slave will obey, accept a beating or argue. She will know that he submits and complies because he has to and he will know that as well. Some married women have expressed fears that ‘inflicting’ these conditions on their husbands will be a step too far. My experience over the years has shown that exactly the opposite is the case. The husband is obviously submissive and desires to be a slave. All that has happened is that he is now even more a slave and a previous, possibly corrosive element in the relationship (his ability to control things) has been removed.