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policy to throw them aw ay. What is going to happen to women

when reproduction— the only capacity that women have that men

really need (Portnoy’s piece of liver can substitute for the rest in

hard times)— is no longer the exclusive province of the class

women? W hat is going to happen to women who have only one

argument for the importance of their existence— that their reproductive capacities are worth a little something (shelter, food, solace, minimal respect)— when men can make babies?

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And yet, there is a solitude which each and every

one o f us has always carried with him, more inaccessible than the ice-cold mountains, more profound than the midnight sea; the solitude of self. Our inner

being which we call ourself, no eye nor touch o f man

or angel has ever pierced. It is more hidden than the

caves of the gnome; the sacred adytum o f the oracle;

the hidden chamber o f Eleusinian m ystery, for to it

only omniscience is permitted to enter.

Such is individual life. Who, I ask you, can take,

dare take on himself the rights, the duties, the responsibilities of another human soul?

Elizabeth Cady Stanton, speech,

January 18, 1892

There is no thing named love in the world.

Women are dinks. Women are villains. They are

creatures akin to Communists and yellow-skinned

people and hippies. We march off to learn about

hand-to-hand combat. Blynton grins and teases and

hollers out his nursery rhyme: “If ya wanta live, ya

gotta be ag-ile, mo-bile, and hos-tile. ” We chant the

words: ag-ile, mo-bile, hos-tile. We make it all

rhyme.

Tim O’Brien, I f I Die in a Combat Zone

There are two models that essentially describe how women are

socially controlled and sexually used: the brothel model and the

farming model.

The brothel model relates to prostitution, narrowly defined;

women collected together for the purposes of sex with men;

women whose function is explicitly nonreproductive, almost anti-

reproductive; sex animals in heat or pretending, showing themselves for sex, prancing around or posed for sex.

The farming model relates to motherhood, women as a class

planted with the male seed and harvested; women used for the fruit

they bear, like trees; women who run the gamut from prized cows

to mangy dogs, from highbred horses to sad beasts of burden.

These two poles of the female condition are only superficially

and conceptually distinct and opposite. Men say the two are poles

to begin with, distinct and opposite. That male conceit is registered and repeated until it is easier to repeat the concept by rote than to see the reality. But the concept is only accurate (descriptive) from a male point of view—that is, if one accepts the male definitions of both the acts involved and the women involved. In

the course of women’s lives, and therefore from a woman-based

perspective, the two conditions overlap and intersect, each reinforcing the efficacy of the other. Any woman can be both a prostitute and a mother, a prostitute and a wife (a potential mother), or one then the other in either order; and any woman can be subject

to the imperatives of both the brothel and the farming models of

female usage. On a grand scale, more women become mothers,

fewer prostitutes.

In general, the euphemisms of religion and romantic love keep

women from ever recognizing the farming model as having to do

directly and personally with them. Modern women do not think of

themselves as cows, nor as land that the man seeds; but maleheaded marriage incorporates both these vivid traditions of female definition; and the laws have been built on these same images and

ideas of what women are for; and the real history of women has

had as its center the actual use of women as cows and as land. The

w ay women are treated, valued, and used has remarkably little in

common with how women perceive themselves. The legend says

that vampires cannot see themselves in mirrors, but in this case the

vampires’ victims cannot see themselves: what would stare back—

the cow, the land, the uterus, the crop, the plowing, the planting,

the harvest, being put out to pasture, going d ry — would annihilate

the delusion of individuality that keeps most women going. The

laws that made women chattel derived from an analogy between

women and cows that hundreds of centuries of men found apt, and

the sexual slur was apparently a neutral observation infused with

the spleen of the moment— she’s a cow. The idea that the male

plants and the woman is planted in originates in antiquity, and

Marcuse among others has reiterated the idea that woman is the

land in more modern times. The farming model is not discussed as

such, even among feminists. It too clearly reveals the hopeless impersonality, degradation, and futility implicit in women’s subordinate position.

The brothel model is more familiar, partly because the situation

of prostitutes is held up to all women as warning, threat, inevitable

doom and damnation, the hellish punishment of girls gone wrong:

punishment for being women involved in sex without the protection of marriage and the purpose of reproduction; punishment for being bad or rebellious or sexually precocious; punishment for

being female without the cleansing sacraments.

In the brothel model, the woman is acknowledged to be for sex

without reference to reproduction. She will still have babies perhaps, but no one owes her anything: not the father, not the state, not the pimp, not the john, no one. Some women on the Left

accept the male leftist view that this is a giant step for womankind:

that this separation of sex and reproduction is in fact a form of

freedom—freedom from domestic constraint and domestic submission, freedom from an intrinsically totalitarian association of sex with reproduction. They do not recognize that in the brothel

model sex is dissociated from reproduction so that the sex can be

sold, so that sex (not babies) is what is produced, so that an intrinsically totalitarian association is forged between sex and money expressed lucidly in the selling of the woman as a sexual commodity.

In the brothel model, the woman is considered to be sexually free