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Because I am in a family, I go to see my father.
His name is Sam so my name is Sam. People ask me if it’s short for something. I say it’s long for “Sa.” I say, His name is Sam so my name is Sam.
There is a beagle on the front lawn of his complex and it is no coincidence that, upon entering his family room, I find him studying a book on beagles, binoculars by his left hand.
I begin. “Hi.”
My father reacts to my voice not unlike people react to car alarms. “Why are you here?”
“I left my jacket in your car last time,” I say.
“So?”
“So it’s not my jacket. It’s my friend’s jacket.”
He throws me the keys. “One of the losers you hang out with.”
“That’s right.” I try to catch and miss. “Even losers get cold in the winter.”
It is my jacket. For some reason I think I have less chance of getting it back if I am honest.
He positions himself in his easy chair. “How’s staying at Aunt Sonya’s?”
“Good, fine.” I nod.
“She getting on your nerves?”
I shrug, lean against the wall. “It’s temporary.”
“Temporary,” he says.
His apartment has not changed since the last time I visited. Maybe a few more dog portraits on the wall. A new frame for the only picture in the room not of a dog. It is a picture of my birth. Pulled like a skinned cat from my mother’s uterus, I am handed to my father, who before he even hears the whirring of the Polaroid makes this face: I have no idea what to do with this thing.
“You still working in that office?” he says.
“No. It was a temporary position.”
“Temporary again,” he says.
“Temping is an extended interview,” I say. I wonder if it’s true.
He doesn’t look at me. “In the meantime, you’ll have no insurance. You’re a real genius, Sam. The decisions you’ve made this year, hell, I’d hire you.”
We play a game, he and I. He says something like, The next time I see you, I am going to back over you with my car, and I sputter around the living room, knocking over framed pictures of Silky Terriers, American Mastiffs.
“Forget the jacket,” I say.
The game goes on, even after I leave. On the train ride home I lock a little boy in my stare. I say, You’re such a bad driver, you’d probably miss.
At home to the dark wall in Great-Aunt Sonya’s spare bedroom, I practice. You’re such a bad driver, you’d probably miss. Sometimes I laugh and laugh.
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My mother and I spend a day dunking items worth saving into buckets of soapy water. In the end nothing makes it, and we are covered in soot. Soot smells sweet, like syrup. We drive to a diner on the boulevard.
“Smoking or non?” says the hostess.
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When it is not filled with Christmas trees, it is a parking lot for a movie store, a dentist’s office, and a bakery. A man who works there breathes into his hands, says to the woman standing next to him that it is cold as balls and we should all take a train to Mexico.
As she charges through the makeshift aisles, my mother calls to me. “Are you sure they said free ham and not DVD player?”
“She said, Present photo ID to claim your free ham.”
“Damn. We entered you for a DVD in that one I think.” She pulls a tree from a dark mass, making a small sound of effort. “We have you in so many it’s hard to remember.” She lets the tree fall back into its pile.
I say, “Why didn’t you just enter yourself?”
“What would I do with a free ham? Give it to Strudel?” Strudel, our dog, would have no idea what to do with a free ham.
My mother halts at a ten-foot arrow of an evergreen. She calls to the man who thinks we should all take a train to Mexico.
“Do you have any with less of this?” She fluffs the lower boughs of the tree. “Less of this?”
“Less what?” he says. “Branches?” He counts a wad of money that appears to be all one-dollar bills.
“Yes,” she says.
He is still counting as he leads us to another tree about two-thirds as full. He thrusts his forehead at it by way of presentation.
My mother clicks her tongue. “No. Less. I don’t need all of that. Don’t you have any skinny ones?”
He pulls a tree from a dark pile, more skinny than full but still full.
“No,” she says. “Anything else?”
The man stops counting, a look on his face I’ve seen many times on people who try to talk to my mother.
“We have some dead ones in the back.”
“Now we’re talking!” She claps her hands together.
“I’m kidding,” he says. “They’re all dead. The rotten ones we throw in there.”
My mother looks into the extended yawn of the incinerator. Someone has painted a mouth and fangs on it. “Ouch,” she says. “Don’t you have a place where you put all the trees that people don’t want?”
He jerks his thumb back to the incinerator.
It is my turn. “My mom wants one that looks like a Charlie Brown tree. You know, from the Charlie Brown Christmas special.”
The man exhales a foul-smelling cloud.
“What the feck is that?”
This is too much for my mom and me. It is the end of a long day and we have never heard anything as funny. I slump against a wall of cut trees, wincing. She holds on to my arm as her shoulders shake.
He is a big man, embarrassed. “I couldn’t decide whether to say ‘fuck’ or ‘heck.’” He tries to get us back on task, but we are already gone. My mom and I hold each other and shake. I wipe my eyes with the back of my hand.
“Feck,” I say.
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Over the next few days I receive messages from area supermarkets; I have won a five-minute shopping spree, a bag of candy, and a hand massage. Finally, the woman from Holiday Grocers calls when I am home. She wants to know if I intend to claim my ham.
“Is that anything like claiming a child?” I am giving Strudel a bath and cooking spaghetti.
The ham lady is confused. “Sorry?”
“It sounds serious. Has my ham done anything wrong?”
“Ma’am, we’re open every day from 8 A.M. to 9 P.M. You’ll have to present a photo ID when you come.”
“I know,” I say. “Passport okay, or do you need my birth certificate?”
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The first time I understood a wrench I was five, kneeling in the backyard. The lawn gleamed with metal parts that, the box promised, if fit together correctly would yield a bike. My father, holding his ever-present cup of coffee, came to check my progress. I was taking too long or making a racket. He broke the handle off the cup when he threw it. That’s why my right eyebrow takes a break halfway through.
The bike was in the fire. The cup was in the fire.
My father studies different breeds of dogs and watches every dog show on television but has never owned an actual dog. Too messy. Too much to clean up. He and I have had the following conversation more than fifty times.
“You should get a dog.”
“Too messy. Too much to clean up.”
“But a dog might make you happy.”
“A lot of things might make me happy, Sam. That doesn’t mean I want them crapping in my house.”
Sometimes I say, “But a dog would be a good companion.” And he says, “A hooker would be a good companion. That doesn’t mean I want one crapping in my house.” We mix it up, he and I.
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Now the manager of Holiday Grocers is trying to find me. He has left two messages, no longer mentioning the free ham. Instead, he is encouraging me to pick up a “special prize.” As if I have no memory. As if I am that dumb. I, who was too smart for college. I, who own no material good.