I knew this would merely add to her frustration, but I was grateful that the New Zealand police was not sharing information with amateurs.
I did not exist on the internet, except as an employee of the bank. There were no photographs or entries except for the ones from the Rotorua Daily Post in 1985, detailing my survival of the horror crash that killed my father and the subsequent fundraising on my behalf. Hoani Mata Productions must have sent the same email to every Steve Armstrong in the country.
I sent a note to the COO of the bank, saying that I had to take leave as a matter of urgency on a private medical matter. It would require three months, I said, but I would be contactable by email. I briefed my second-in-command on issues relating to the bank’s relationship to bitcoin and cryptocurrency, which was becoming a problem for us. I then left.
I went home and used my laptop to book flights to Ireland. I needed to go back. I needed to find my sister. She was the key to the connection I needed.
50
Sally
The results, when they came within twelve days, were unequivocal. Peter/Steve was my brother. Mark was our uncle, but there was something else that showed up in the results on the ancestry website. I had a niece called Amanda Heron and she was Peter’s daughter. He hadn’t mentioned a daughter or a wife or girlfriend. His letter had led me to believe that he was a loner, possibly like me. But he wasn’t asexual like me.
It was time to call him. I wanted to have this conversation on my own. The ancestry results had come to my home and Mark didn’t yet know.
Peter’s phone rang once before he picked up.
‘Mary?’ he said.
‘It’s Sally, it’s been Sally since I was adopted so I’d prefer if you called me Sally.’
‘Okay.’ There was a tremor in his voice.
‘Are you still in Dublin?’
‘Yeah, I’m in a park now beside a church in the city centre.’
‘Right. So, I got the DNA results.’
‘Yeah?’
‘You are my brother.’
‘I knew that. I’ve known about you all my life.’
‘So why did you never get in touch before?’
‘I explained it in the letter. I didn’t know where you were. You didn’t show up on any internet searches until Thomas Diamond’s death.’
‘Sorry, yes, you did explain. But if you knew about me and my mother and you knew what our birth father had done, why didn’t you ever go to the police?’
‘It’s hard to explain. He had me brainwashed for a long time. He told me I had an illness. I hardly knew right from wrong – I can’t say it all over the phone. Will you come and meet me?’
I had discussed what would happen with Mark if the results proved that we were siblings.
‘Peter, we have an uncle, Denise’s brother.’
‘Really?’
‘Yes, he’d like to meet you too. He will collect you in Dublin and bring you to my home.’
‘When?’
‘Tomorrow?’ The next day was Saturday. I would cancel my weekend piano playing. Lucas would have to find a replacement.
‘That would be good. Thank you. Mary – I mean, Sally, do you remember me?’
‘I’m afraid not.’
‘Did my mother, Denise, did she talk about me?’
‘We have so much to talk about, Peter, let’s wait until we’re face to face.’
There was a pause. ‘I’m not very good at talking.’
‘Oh well, we’re definitely siblings. It’s taken me nearly two years of therapy to get over that.’
‘Yeah?’
‘Yes. Do you have friends? A wife? Girlfriend?’
His voice trembled. ‘No.’
It wasn’t time to ask him about his daughter. ‘I can’t believe I’m talking to my own brother.’
‘You haven’t told the media, or the police?’
‘Absolutely not.’
He gave me the address of the hotel and we ended the call. Mark wanted to vet him, to make sure he wasn’t violent or threatening in any way, and he arranged to collect Peter early the next morning. Peter wanted to know how he would get back to Dublin afterwards. Mark told him not to worry. We could put him up in the Abbey Hotel in Roscommon for a few nights. We had no real plan for what would happen.
I was on tenterhooks the next morning, constantly going to the window at every noise to see if Mark’s car was parking. I received one text from Mark.
Stopped at a service station. He seems normal but extremely quiet.
Sue and Martha called to the door to see if I was okay. I’d missed my yoga class that morning. I didn’t invite them in for coffee the way one is supposed to do with friends, but I didn’t tell them a lie either. ‘Sorry, I should have told you I wasn’t coming. I have some family business to attend to.’
‘Are you okay?’ said Sue. ‘You seem a little agitated?’ and indeed I was looking behind her down the lane, hopping from foot to foot.
‘Yes, yes, I’m fine, thank you. I’ll see you during the week, okay?’ I closed the door and went back to the kitchen. I had prepared sandwiches way too early. They had dried out. I set about making fresh ones, chicken, ham, tomato and coleslaw. Peter could be a vegetarian. I knew nothing about my brother.
51
Peter, 2019
It took me twenty-eight hours to get to Ireland, compared to the three-month ordeal it had taken to get to New Zealand almost forty years earlier. I ordered DNA test kits to be sent to the hotel in Dublin I had booked. I wrote my letter to Mary. Then I wandered around the city on foot. I bought some winter clothes. I’d travelled light. I’d never been in the city centre before, even as a child. Dublin was modern and multicultural and unfamiliar in every way.
The pay-as-you-go mobile phone rang over two weeks after I sent the letter. Mary had not alerted the police. There was an uncle, Denise’s brother, Mark. He collected me in Dublin on 14th December and drove the two hours to Mary’s cottage. He grilled me in the car about his sister. What did I remember? Had she ever mentioned him? What was she like? The questions were like an assault, and I avoided answering as much as I could.
We drove across the country mostly on a motorway. The day was dark and grey and wet. The sun did not appear. The land was flat. We stopped at a service station for fuel and we had bad coffee. I didn’t know what to think of Mark. He seemed way too young to be my uncle, but we discovered he was only five years older than me. He said grimly that Denise was twelve when she gave birth to me. Neither of us said much for the rest of the journey.
52
Sally
Peter said he was seven years older than me but he looked much older. His wrinkles were deep and his face was weathered. His hair was short and grey, receding. He was clean-shaven. There was a faint white line across his forehead. An old scar? Inflicted by Conor Geary? But his eyes – the shape, the hazel colour – and his nose were identical to mine. My brother.
We didn’t have an immediate connection. It was more gradual than that. Mark and I knew it would be awkward. It was hard to know what to call him to start with. I was adamant that I was Sally Diamond. He had been Steven Armstrong for most of his life, but now, he asked us to call him Peter. He was not forthcoming in conversation, and I was nervous at first. It was the Christmas season, so I was called on to play at the hotel a lot. I paid for Peter to stay in the Abbey Hotel in Roscommon and we would meet in my house whenever I was free. Mark always tried to be there too.
On the first day, there were long silences and occasional small talk. But Peter’s small talk was even smaller than mine. It was only on the second day that we broached the subject of our father and who he was. Peter insisted that he wasn’t physically harmed by Conor Geary in the same way my mother was. Peter lived most of his early life in solitary confinement, fearing that a made-up disease was going to kill him. A disease designed to keep him away from everyone and to make him entirely dependent on Conor Geary. Our birth father was cruel and manipulative. My brother was as isolated as I had been, but not through choice. He had desperately wanted to go to school and make friends but, by the time his father died, it was too late and he didn’t know how to be social. It was hard to get this information from him, but Mark was good at coaxing him, and later, after Peter had gone back to the hotel, Mark would come back to the house and parse what Peter had said and what he didn’t say. Mark was good at reading between the lines.