Padar took us shopping for new clothes to get ready for our journey. One night that week, at dinner in a restaurant by our hotel, Laila asked him why we had to go to Islamabad.
“Can’t we just get on an airplane and fly to India, where Mommy is?”
He ate slowly as if considering his words. He had trimmed his beard and purchased some new clothes but still wore the traditional shalwar kameez like so many did in Peshawar. He looked refreshed, with his black hair neatly trimmed, much like his old self.
“We can’t leave Pakistan just yet.”
“Why not?” Zia asked.
“We left Afghanistan without passports or the proper paperwork and identification to get passports. No other country will let us enter without them.”
“Pakistan let us in,” I said, thinking I could clarify the issue of simply walking across the border past a few guards.
“Yes,” Padar said, “they let all of us in with refugee status.” He went on to explain how as refugees, we had no legal status, so we couldn’t work and had none of the rights of citizens. We had no rights to travel to any other country, and the Pakistani government could force us back into Afghanistan anytime it wanted.
“They won’t do that, will they?” Zulaikha said.
“It’s not likely,” he said. “But with so many Afghan refugees flooding the country, anything can happen. We have to get passports to travel to India so we can join your mother.” He explained that he had wanted us to carry our birth certificates with us in our backpacks, but Masood had warned him not to do that. If we’d been searched by soldiers, it could have gotten us in a lot of trouble, even killed. He had wanted to mail the birth certificates to India, but since the Soviets had been watching everything he did, particularly what he mailed, it was too risky. Before he left, the Russians had been accusing him of trying to spy for the Americans. They had been watching him constantly.
“I had to leave with nothing.”
“Do you think we’ll ever go home?” I asked him.
His dark eyes grew sad for a moment. “If the war ends soon, we can return. But who knows how long it will go on. First, we have to travel to New Delhi to join your mother and Shapairi, Ahmad Shah, and Vida. Then we can decide what to do from there.”
“Are we going to live in India if we can’t go home?” Laila asked.
“No,” he said, very emphatically. “We will go to America.”
We were all silently shocked, staring at each other in surprise.
“America!” Laila said, smiling broadly. We’d heard of America from all of Padar’s friends from the American embassy. Many American diplomats and businessmen had visited our home on Shura Street. We thought of America as a paradise, a place with freedom and safety to be yourself. A model of what Afghanistan could have become if the democratic reforms had not been stopped by the Parcham.
“That’s why we’re going to Islamabad,” he said. “My friend there works for the American embassy. I know he’ll be able to help us.”
We ate with renewed excitement, hardly tasting the food because we were chattering so much about leaving Peshawar and getting back on the road. America. The idea kept rolling around in my mind. It didn’t seem real to me; neither did seeing Mommy. Padar spoke of going to New Delhi to see her as a matter of fact—it was not a hope or a dream, but a certainty. That night, I sat on the bed considering what it would be like seeing Mommy after so many years. Padar moved around the room, agile and sober and ever so helpful as we packed our clothes for the trip to see his friend. The room was filled with joy, but I could not see Mommy’s face. I had this creeping fear that as warm and caring as Padar had been toward us the last few days, Mommy would be his exact opposite—cold, uncaring, and not interested in my life.
We rose well before dawn and dressed in our new clothes. Salman stood behind the desk as we checked out. He had been so nice to me, helping me through a dark time of my life. I wanted to go behind the desk like usual, give him a hug, and thank him for looking after me. My real father had shown up and taken the place Salman had filled so wonderfully for months. He had been a surrogate father, helping me to endure my loneliness, encouraging me to believe my future would be brighter than the dreary moments I lived through in his hotel. I felt like I was cheating him out of a daughter’s love by walking out of the hotel with my real padar. I wanted to embrace him one last time and thank him. I was grateful for his kindness but afraid of offending Padar. Just before we left the lobby, holding tightly on to Padar’s hand, I turned and waved at him. He smiled in return. Regretfully, I didn’t leave him with any words of thanks, only my eternal gratitude for his willingness to befriend a hapless and nearly orphaned child.
The train ride to Islamabad was mostly quiet. Padar didn’t ask us too much about our journey. I wanted to tell him about Mina and the scorpions and so much more, but I felt he didn’t want to hear it. None of us talked much about what we’d been through, but we made sure Padar knew Masood had taken very good care of us the entire way.
About halfway there, he relaxed and leaned back. “I had planned on leaving sooner, but they had me under constant surveillance.” He had been followed night and day, after work, and watched at night. They had suspected he wanted to leave, so they had warned him against it. “The war now is everywhere. It’s getting much more difficult to escape.”
In the weeks leading up to his leaving, he had been under constant pressure. The Russians had tried to intimidate him to cooperate with their spying schemes. He had to escape Kabul through a complicated route to finally meet up with Masood. Once outside Kabul, he’d followed the same route we had, but he’d been delayed in one village for quite a long time when the fighting caught up with him. He had many close calls with the army along the way.
As soon as we disembarked in Islamabad with our luggage, his friend Dawar was waiting for us on the station platform. He and Padar hugged, kissing cheeks as close friends did. We all greeted him with a polite salaam, our hands folded prayerfully, heads bowed in respect.
He drove us to his home—a beautiful, white, two-story house on a lovely, tree-lined street. His elegant Pakistani wife made us dinner, and we sat around his large table to eat. It reminded me so much of home in Afghanistan, but I was not comforted. The beautiful table with all the lavish food made me feel odd. Eating such delicious food when there were so many people with so little to eat, people I knew by name, whose faces I could see clearly in my mind, seemed wrong. I set my fork down; my discomfort was so overwhelming. My body was here, sitting at this beautiful dining table, but my soul couldn’t forget the country we had just traversed. I couldn’t get thoughts of Mina out of my mind, and the freedom fighters struggling for their lives in the freezing mountains.
We stayed at Padar’s friend’s home for several months while Padar worked on obtaining our passports. He went to the American embassy nearly every day to meet with different people. Many days he came home quite frustrated that he wasn’t getting the help he needed to obtain identity documents and passports. But he stayed determined to do what he needed to do so we could travel. While he was gone, we kept busy. Since Dawar and his wife had no children, we took over the large living room, playing fis kut and eating lavish meals. The house reminded me of our home in Kabuclass="underline" warm, loving, and plenty of food.
Though we were living in the diplomatic section of the Pakistani capital, Padar did not want us to go outside. Only after Laila and I kept questioning, he told us that he was probably being watched. He feared the Russians knew where he was, and as soon as he went to the Embassy of Afghanistan to apply for a passport, they would know for certain. His friends in the American embassy were trying to assist him, but he had run into bureaucratic roadblocks. One night in the living room of the gracious home, he unburdened himself after a particularly disappointing day. All four of us sat on the sofa while he took a chair across from us.