You’re hired as a receptionist, and you’re good at it. (A marginally bright twelve-year-old could also be good at it, you’re sure, but whatever.) You’re friendly, efficient, and well-liked. It’s not a challenging job, but right now that’s a plus. You have plenty of challenges outside work. You have nothing but challenges outside work, no additional challenges are needed, thanks. The receptionist on the seventeenth floor has been there for years and seems perfectly content, clocks in at eight, out at four, goes home to her fourteen-year-old Yorkshire terrier, has a sizeable pension at this point, and for the next few months as you settle in, this isn’t unappealing. You’re sitting down. You like sitting down. You like not being accused of serving regular instead of decaf, you like not being given a twenty-five-cent tip and spending the entire rest of the shift wishing you’d given the twenty-five-cent tipper back his quarter along with a Norma Rae—style speech about how hard you work and why doesn’t he just put his quarter in his own piggy bank. You like not sleeping through the entire day and going to work at night and missing all the fun your friends are having going out to dinner and parties without you. You like meeting movie stars. Your movie star dating pool has expanded, and it’s just fun telling people that you met Susan Dey, and that Captain Kangaroo (two of very few celebrities with the power to render you giddy) has an office down the hall. You like getting free passes to screenings and theater openings, and sometimes there’s even a little time to write. All you need is a dog of your own.
You sleep with more actors. Look, you just do. I don’t have to go into the details, but let’s call it like it is. You work at a talent agency and you’re young and you’re a knockout — and you’re not an actress, which is a plus for quite a few of these guys — and they’re handsome and plentiful and this is a perk to take advantage of. Additionally, because you are so well-liked, every department in the place clamors to pull you off the reception desk and have you come work for them. Bored beyond belief after nine months on reception, you agree to take a “permanent” position as an agent’s assistant. You are warned that it will be a boatload of work, that there will be overtime, that you will be expected to go to even more screenings and theater openings and parties, to take the calls of fragile actors and convince them that their agent is not dodging their calls even though that’s exactly what she’s doing. You are also told that if you do this well, you can move up the ladder in no time. This is not a draw. You see it as a drawback. You have a well-developed lack of interest in ladders. You are perilously close to needing that suit after all. You have no interest in representing people, some interest in being represented. You have some vague interest in the idea of security, though this is nebulous for you as a concept, something you’re not sure can exist for you anyway, certainly not via any job you’d be interested in. If they could write “emotional security” into your benefits package, that might sweeten the offer. Why couldn’t you become someone who desires only to do a job well and keep that job until retirement when they give you a Tiffany watch and wish you well? Isn’t that still an honorable thing? Couldn’t that be a satisfying thing? Does everyone have to want the same thing? Does everyone have to know exactly what they want? Is there a cutoff date for knowing what you want? And if you go beyond it, what then?
Unfortunately, once you accept one of these offers, these questions are moot at this particular desk. You become exhausted to the point of nervous breakdown, exhausted to the point of calling me crying about it, and I know by now that if you call me crying, it has to be bad, because this has happened maybe two times in the past, and the last one wasn’t that long ago, when you were in LA. You say you don’t think you can do it, this isn’t what you want, though the question What do you want? is apparently not the right one, because you hesitate before you answer. I want things to be easy, you say. Well, things aren’t, I say.
Still, you have just enough hope — just one small ember of hope in you that hasn’t gone out yet — that somehow all of this, waiting tables, answering phones, dating actors, will add up to something meaningful someday.
You try this a few more times with a few more agents in different departments, and always end up back in reception, and this plays on repeat for four pretty miserable years.
Perks
Near the end of your time at the talent agency, you start to think about some type of teaching as a leading candidate for your next line of work. You don’t know why this didn’t occur to you sooner. You love kids. Your therapist encourages you to take the necessary steps: applications for grad school, GREs, things like this. This seems overly time-consuming; is this really what you want, enough to spend a few more years in school? You’re supposed to study for the GREs, which in and of themselves seem irrelevant to the work you’re looking to pursue. You think: You should study so you can study? Is that a commitment you can make for a lifetime, being a schoolteacher? Not likely. You were never a rest-of-your-life kind of person. You’re a person whose longest commitment is to not owning a suit.
As good fortune has it, it comes to your attention at exactly the right time that child stars need education too, and you have a few contacts in this area who help you get a job as a location tutor, and in a matter of about a week after first realizing this (speed has always been your preferred method for making work choices), you get on a plane to Canada — and this time the job seems to be a good fit. The money is good, you’re good at it (it helps that your student is in third grade, at which level you can still check the math and come up with correct answers), and the perks include nice hotels and meals, all expenses paid, a schoolroom trailer with a TV, a stocked fridge, and a sofa for naps, and still more movie stars to possibly date. Sometimes there’s even a little downtime when you can write in your trailer.