She waited for the right time to bring up the topic with Malcolm and Sophie; at the end of a pleasant, quiet Sunday brunch at home, expecting surprise, maybe barely concealed hurt feelings, even gentle debate.
She’d prepared her tactful rebuttals, drawing upon her own flood of gratitude and their desire, of course, to do what was best for her.
Malcolm and Sophie showed not a trace of surprise. Nodding in unison, they assured her they’d pay rent for anything reasonable.
Three and a half years in Boston and they haven’t missed me?
Or, to put a benign slant on it, like so many older couples, perhaps they, too, craved a bit of freedom.
Still — idiotically — Grace felt a bit... empty at the lack of debate. Then she saw that Sophie’s beautiful blue eyes had grown damp and that Malcolm was avoiding looking at her and his jaw was knotted.
Leaning across the kitchen table, she touched both their hands. “I’ll probably be here all the time, anyway. Mooching food, schlepping laundry, not to mention all the contact you and I will have day-to-day, Malcolm.”
“True,” he said, fidgeting.
Sophie said, “Any laundry you schlep will be welcome. Though you should probably look for a building with on-site machines. For your own convenience.”
“Get a place with top-notch facilities,” said Malcolm. “That’s of the utmost.”
Sophie said, “And of course you’ll need a car.” She laughed. “No new clothes, though. Your current wardrobe is far too elegant for your future peers.”
Malcolm said, “Oh, the students aren’t that bad, Soph.”
“Oh, they’re dreary,” said Sophie, laughing again, a smidge too loudly. Using the moment to sneak a swipe at her eyes. “I refer to my department as well as yours, Mal. No matter what their circumstances, our young scholars pride themselves upon coming across as starving martyrs.” She turned to Grace. “So, alas, no cashmere, dear. The Tenth Commandment, and all that.”
Grace said, “You bet.”
No one spoke. Grace found herself fidgeting and now Sophie was engaging her with a solemn stare and Grace realized she’d been talking about more than attire.
Thou Shalt Not Covet. Reminding Grace she’d be entering grad school laden with baggage.
Of all the schools, Professor Bluestone had to bring her here?
Adopted or not, she’s still his family, it’s corrupt.
Her acceptance means someone else fully qualified was rejected. If she’s as smart as they say, she could’ve gotten in at plenty of other places, why hog a space here?
On top of that wouldn’t some distance be healthy for both of them?
On top of that, they say she’ll be working directly with him. Talk about lack of boundaries.
Now Malcolm was also regarding her oh-so-gravely.
The same unspoken warning from both of them: Be smart and keep a low profile.
Sage advice, to be sure. Grace had figured it out a long time ago.
Resentment was understandable. Clinical psych programs at accredited universities were limited to students for whom grant funding was available, leading to tiny classes — USC accepted five first-years out of a hundred as many applications.
The program was rigorous and laid out clearly: three years of coursework in assessment, psychotherapy, research design, statistics, cognitive science, plus a minor concentration in a nonclinical field of psychology.
In addition, students assisted faculty with research and saw patients under supervision in the department’s campus clinic, leading to six twelve-hour days each week, sometimes more. Off-site externships for which SC students competed with applicants from all over the country were mandatory, as well. By the fourth year, a faculty doctoral committee needed to be in place, comprehensive exams passed, research proposals approved.
Then came the crucial final chapter, the step that could end in disaster: conceptualizing and conducting significant, original research and writing it up as a dissertation. Only once that was under way were candidates allowed to apply for a full-time internship at a facility approved by the American Psychological Association.
Grace figured she could do it all quicker, without much sweat.
Her plan of attack was simple, replicating her experiences at Harvard: be polite and pleasant to everyone but avoid emotional entanglements of any kind. Especially now; entering under a cloud, she couldn’t let interpersonal crap get to her.
But her classmates, all women, three with Ivy League B.A.’s, turned out to be a pleasant bunch, exhibiting not a trace of resentment. So either she’d earned their acceptance quickly or everyone had worried for nothing.
Faculty were another matter, a definite chill wafted toward her from some quarters. No problem; compliance and subtle flattery went a long way with academicians.
She didn’t lack for a social life, what with casual lunches with her classmates during which she listened a lot and said little, and the customary Sunday brunches with Sophie and Malcolm, plus dinners out at white-tablecloth eateries twice a month.
Toss in the occasional off-campus lunch with Sophie, sometimes followed by shopping trips for “appropriately casual garments,” and her plate was full.
Her relationship with Malcolm changed, as their contact increasingly centered on research and personal chitchat eroded. That ended up suiting both of them. She’d never seen Malcolm so animated.
Solo jaunts to campus movies and museums — LACMA was walking distance from her apartment — supplied all the extracurricular culture she needed.
Of course, sex played a role during those years, as she stuck with the familiar but lowered the frequency because it took less to satisfy her. Pulling out the cashmere and the silk, heels, and all the other good stuff, she had no problem snagging well-dressed attractive men in upscale cocktail lounges and hotels.
Many of her targets turned out to be traveling from other cities, which was optimal. Others were escaping marriages gone stale or simply tired of domestic obligation.
To Grace they were all temporary playmates, and for the most part, everyone walked away happy.
With drama neatly sidestepped, she was free to ace every course and treat twice as many patients as anyone else at the campus clinic. The same went for research projects, and by the end of her second year, she’d co-published three articles with Malcolm on resilience and three of her own on the aftereffects of trauma, one of which saw light in the Journal of Consulting and Clinical Psychology.
Simultaneously, she was analyzing the best places to extern, with an eye toward making contacts where she might want to intern. The choice quickly became obvious: the Veterans Administration hospital in Westwood, for all the problems with the system, one of the premier training facilities in adult psychology.
More important, a V.A. placement would give her experience in the treatment of terrible things. Because neurotic angst — dilettantes and sluggards trying “to figure it out” or pay for friendship — bored and annoyed her.
She craved the red meat of real psychotherapy.
After a year as a student therapist, she’d gotten to know everyone who mattered at the V.A., was perceived as the best and the brightest, her internship application a formality.
Four years after enrolling in grad school, she had her Ph.D., presented to her personally by Malcolm, Harvard-robed and beaming, at the doctoral ceremony in Town and Gown Hall. She’d also been accepted for a postdoctoral fellowship at the same V.A. If it ain’t broken don’t fix it.