“Do you feel respect for her?” asked Sibel.
“No, to be honest, I found the deceased repulsive.”
The party-I forget the occasion-was on the long concrete patio of a house on the Suadiye shore. Sixty or seventy people were standing there with drinks in hand, conversing in near whispers as they looked to see who was there, who was just arriving. Most of the women seemed concerned about the length of their skirts, with the ones in short skirts uneasy in the extreme, imagining their legs were too short or too thick. Perhaps this was why, at first sight, they all looked like awkward, surly bar girls. Right next to the patio, on the jetty, a big sewer was emptying into the sea, producing quite a smell for guests as white-gloved waiters wandered among them.
After wandering around a bit myself, I met a “psychiatrist” who had just returned from America and opened an office; he gave me his new card the moment we met, and at the incitement of a vivacious middle-aged woman, he offered up a definition of love to the cluster of guests who were discovering him: When one forsook all other opportunities, wishing only to make love consistently with the same person, this feeling, which he held to be conducive to happiness, was “love.” After the discourse on love, a mother, having introduced me to her beautiful eighteen-year-old daughter, sought my advice about where to send the girl to university, so as to spare her the Turkish universities’ continual politically motivated boycotts. The conversation began with a discussion of a report in that day’s papers about how, to prevent the theft of the question booklets for the university entrance exams, the printers had been subject to a prolonged sequestration.
Much later, Zaim appeared on the patio. He cut a handsome figure with his long limbs, sculpted chin, and beautiful eyes, and especially with the German model Inge, just as tall and elegant, on his arm. What stung hearts most about Inge, with her blue eyes, long and slender legs, fair skin, and natural blond hair, was the merciless reminder to the women of Istanbul society that even as they bleached their hair, plucked their eyebrows, and scoured boutiques for outfits that might let them feel more European, their darker skin and fuller figures were never entirely redeemed by such efforts. But I was less struck by the woman’s northern looks than by her familiar smile that I enjoyed seeing every day in the newspaper ads and on the side of the apartment building in Harbiye-it was like seeing an old friend. Soon enough the inevitable crowd had gathered around her.
On the drive home Sibel broke the silence. “That You-Deserve-It-All Zaim, yes, I can see he is a good egg. But that fourth-rate German model, who looks like she would sleep with any Arab sheikh who asked… Wasn’t it enough to use her in his ad campaign? Must he parade her around just so everyone knows he’s bedded her?”
“I give Zaim credit for making a go of that new soft drink of his. I remember he once told me that Turks relish the taste of a modern Turkish product much more once they’ve seen Westerners enjoying it, too… You know, it’s highly likely that, in her friendly way, this model sees no difference between us and Arab sheikhs.”
“When I was at the hairdresser I saw a photo of her with Zaim in Hafta Sonu, the centerfold, no less, and there was also an interview plus a very tacky picture of her half-naked.”
The silence returned and remained for some time. At last I smiled and said: “You know that guy who was prattling away in broken German, complimenting her on the ads, and staring at her hair just to avoid looking at her breasts falling out of her dress-that big, bashful guy, Sabih the Bear… Well that was Belkıs’s second lover.”
But as we drove under the Bosphorus Bridge, obscured in the haze, I saw that Sibel had fallen asleep.
19 At the Funeral
THE NEXT day at noon I left Satsat and went home to eat fried red mullet with my mother as promised. As we removed the delicious and brilliant pink membranous skin, and with the care of a surgeon cut away the fine, translucent spine, we discussed the state of arrangements for the engagement party and the latest rumors (my mother’s preferred word for gossip). Including those who had contrived to have themselves invited and a few other eager acquaintances whose hearts she couldn’t bear to break, the list reached 230; so for that day, the maître d’hôtel of the Hilton had been obliged to take steps to ensure there would be enough “foreign liquor”-the term made it sound like a fetish. For this purpose he had begun to contact colleagues in the other big hotels as well as to cajole liquor importers with whom he’d had dealings. As for Silky İsmet, Şaziye, Left-handed Şermın, Madame Mualla, and all the other seamstresses who catered to society ladies and had once been friends and competitors of Füsun’s mother, their order books were full and their apprentices were now working until dawn every night to outfit our guests in the elaborate dresses they had ordered for the engagement party. My mother seemed to have spurred our whole world to action, except for my father, who had been complaining of fatigue and was now dozing in the bedroom. It was not on account of his health, my mother thought, but rather that he was feeling despondent, though she could scarcely imagine what could make him so upset, with his son on the verge of getting engaged, and so she began probing to see whether I might know the reason. When Bekri, as he had done since my childhood, brought in the pilaf that he invariably served after fish to aid digestion-this was an unbendable household rule-it seemed almost as if the fish had been the source of her high spirits, because once it was cleared away my mother took on a mournful tone.
“I feel so bad about that woman,” she said, with genuine sorrow. “She suffered so much, and so many people were jealous of her. In fact she was a very good person. Very.”
Without once referring to Belkıs by name, my mother recounted how years ago, when the Demirbağs’ eldest son, Demir, had been her lover, my parents had spent time with them in Uludağ; and whenever my father and Demir went off to play poker, my mother and Belkıs would stay up long after midnight, drinking tea and knitting and chatting in the hotel’s “rustic bar.”
“She suffered so much, the poor woman, first on account of being so poor and then on account of men. Such suffering,” my mother said, before turning to Fatma Hanım to say, “Bring my coffee out to the balcony. We’re going to watch the funeral.”
Except for my years in America, I had spent my whole life in this big apartment whose sitting room and wide balcony overlooked Teşvikiye Mosque, where one or two funerals took place every day, and when I was a child, these spectacles initiated us into the fearful mystery of death. Not just Istanbul’s rich but also famous politicians, generals, journalists, singers, and artists had their funeral prayers said at the mosque, considered a prestigious point of departure for the “final journey,” whereby the coffin was carried slowly on shoulders to Nişantaşı Square-the procession accompanied, depending on the rank of the deceased, by a military band or the city council ensemble playing Chopin’s Funeral March. When my brother and I were little we would put long, heavy bolsters from the divan on our shoulders and Bekri Efendi, Fatma Hanım, Çetin the chauffeur, and others would follow us as we hummed the funeral dirge, swaying slightly, just as the bearers of the dead did, on our way down the corridor. Just before a funeral of broad public interest-if the deceased was a prime minister, a famous tycoon, or a singer-the doorbell would ring and unexpected guests would appear, saying, “I was just passing by, and I thought I’d drop in,” and though my mother never let her manners lapse, later on she would say, “They didn’t come to see us but to see the funeral.” And so we began to think of the ceremony not as a comfort against the sting of death or a chance to pay one’s last respects to the deceased, but as an amusing diversion.
“Come over to this side, you’ll have a better view,” my mother said as I joined her at the small table on the balcony. But when she saw me suddenly go pale, with no evident enjoyment at watching the crowd of mourners, she drew the wrong conclusion: “You know, it’s not that father of yours napping inside who is keeping me from attending the funeral of this woman I loved dearly. It’s the men down there like Rıfkı, like Samim, who are wearing their dark glasses not to hide their tearful eyes, but to hide that they shed no tears. Well, anyway, you can see it much better from here. What is wrong with you?”