20. Hughes, Last Victorian, 186.
21. Mead, My Life in Middlemarch, 266.
22. Virginia Woolf, “George Eliot,” The Times Literary Supplement, November 20, 1919.
23. Barbara Hardy, George Eliot: A Critic’s Biography (Continuum, 2006), 122.
CHAPTER 8: ORDERED LOVE
1. Peter Brown, Augustine of Hippo: A Biography (University of California Press, 2000), 17.
2. Brown, Augustine of Hippo, 18.
3. Matthew Arnold, Culture and Anarchy (Cambridge University Press, 1993), 130.
4. Arnold, Culture and Anarchy, 128.
5. Arnold, Culture and Anarchy, 128.
6. Arnold, Culture and Anarchy, 132.
7. Brown, Augustine of Hippo, 13.
8. Garry Wills, Saint Augustine (Penguin, 1999), 7.
9. Brown, Augustine of Hippo, 36.
10. Wills, Saint Augustine, 26.
11. Brown, Augustine of Hippo, 37.
12. Reinhold Niebuhr, The Nature and Destiny of Man: A Christian Interpretation: Human Nature, vol. I (Scribner’s, 1996), 155.
13. Brown, Augustine of Hippo, 173; Augustine, Confessions, book 10, section 37.
14. Niebuhr, Nature and Destiny of Man, 157.
15. Lewis B. Smedes, Shame and Grace: Healing the Shame We Don’t Deserve (Random House, 1994), 116.
16. Augustine, Psalm 122: God Is True Wealth; Mary Clark, Augustine of Hippo: Selected Writings (Paulist Press, 1984), 250.
17. Timothy Keller, Freedom of Self Forgetfulness (10Publishing, 2013), 40.
18. Jennifer A. Herdt, Putting On Virtue: The Legacy of the Splendid Vices (University of Chicago Press, 2008), 176.
19. Herdt, Putting On Virtue, 57.
20. Augustine, The Works of Saint Augustine: A Translation for the 21st Century (New City Press, 1992), 131.
21. Paul Tillich, The Essential Tillich (Scribner, 1999), 131.
22. Brown, Augustine of Hippo, 157.
23. Brown, Augustine of Hippo, 157.
CHAPTER 9: SELF-EXAMINATION
1. Jeffrey Meyers, Samuel Johnson: The Struggle (Basic Books, 2008), 6.
2. W. Jackson Bate, Samuel Johnson: A Biography (Counterpoint, 2009), 8.
3. Bate, Samuel Johnson, 31.
4. John Wain, Samuel Johnson (Macmillan, 1980), 49.
5. Boswell, Boswell’s Life of Johnson (Harper, 1889), 74.
6. Meyers, Samuel Johnson: The Struggle, 50.
7. Bate, Samuel Johnson, 211.
8. Meyers, Samuel Johnson: The Struggle, 205.
9. Bate, Samuel Johnson, 204.
10. Paul Fussell, Samuel Johnson and the Life of Writing (Norton, 1986), 236.
11. Bate, Samuel Johnson, 218.
12. Meyers, Samuel Johnson: The Struggle, 114.
13. Meyers, Samuel Johnson: The Struggle, 2.
14. Fussell, Johnson and the Life of Writing, 163.
15. Fussell, Johnson and the Life of Writing, 51.
16. Ralph Waldo Emerson, The Spiritual Emerson: Essential Writings (Beacon, 2004), 216.
17. Fussell, Johnson and the Life of Writing, 147.
18. Percy Hazen Houston, Doctor Johnson: A Study in Eighteenth Century Humanism (Cambridge University Press, 1923), 195.
19. Sarah Bakewell, How to Live: Or a Life of Montaigne in One Question and Twenty Attempts at an Answer (Other Press, 2010), 21.
20. Bakewell, How to Live, 14.
21. Fussell, Johnson and the Life of Writing, 185.
22. Bate, Samuel Johnson, 4.
CHAPTER 10: THE BIG ME
1. Tom Callahan, Johnny U: The Life and Times of John Unitas (Random House, 2007), 16.
2. Michael Novak, The Joy of Sports: Endzones, Bases, Baskets, Balls, and the Consecration of the American Spirit (Madison Books, 1976), 241.
3. Callahan, Johnny U, 20.
4. Jimmy Breslin, “The Passer Nobody Wanted,” Saturday Evening Post, November 1, 1958.
5. Callahan, Johnny U, 243.
6. John Skow, “Joe, Joe, You’re the Most Beautiful Thing in the World,” Saturday Evening Post, December 3, 1966.
7. Dan Jenkins, “The Sweet Life of Swinging Joe,” Sports Illustrated, October 17, 1966.
8. George Eliot, Middlemarch (Penguin, 2003), 211.
9. Joshua L. Liebman, Peace of Mind: Insights on Human Nature That Can Change Your Life (Simon and Schuster, 1946), 56.
10. Benjamin Spock, The Pocket Book of Baby and Child Care (Duell, Sloan and Pearce, 1946), 309.
11. Harry A. Overstreet, The Mature Mind (Norton, 1949), 261.
12. Carl Ransom Rogers, On Becoming a Person: A Therapist’s View of Psychotherapy (Harcourt, 1995), 194.
13. Carl Ransom Rogers, The Carl Rogers Reader (Houghton Mifflin, 1989), 185.
14. Katharine Graham, Personal History (Random House, 1997), 51.
15. Graham, Personal History, 231.
16. Eva Illouz, Saving the Modern Souclass="underline" Therapy, Emotions, and the Culture of Self-Help (University of California Press, 2008), 117.
17. Charles Taylor, Multiculturalism: Examining the Politics of Recognition (Princeton University Press, 1994), 30.
18. Ernst & Young Survey, “Sixty-five Per Cent of College Students Think They Will Become Millionaires” (Canada, 2001).
19. Greg Duncan and Richard Murnane, Whither Opportunity? Rising Inequality, Schools, and Children’s Life Chances (Russell Sage Foundation, 2011), 11.
20. “The American Freshman” Thirty Year Trends, 1966–1996. By Alexander W. Astin, Sarah A. Parrott, William S. Korn, Linda J. Sax. Higher Education Research Institute Graduate School of Education & Information Studies. University of California, Los Angeles. February, 1997.
21. Gretchen Anderson, “Loneliness Among Older Adults: A National Survey of Adults 45+” (AARP Research and Strategic Analysis, 2010).
22. Francis Fukuyama, The Great Disruption: Human Nature and the Reconstitution of Social Order (Profile, 1999), 50.
23. Sara Konrath, “Changes in Dispositional Empathy in American College Students Over Time: A Meta-Analysis” (University of Michigan, 2011).
24. Jean M. Twenge, W. Keith Campbell, and Brittany Gentile, “Increases in Individualistic Words and Phrases in American Books, 1960–2008” (2012), PLoS ONE 7(7): e40181, doi:10.1371/journal.pone.0040181.
25. David Brooks, “What Our Words Tell Us,” New York Times, May 20, 2013.
26. Pelin Kesebir and Selin Kesebir, “The Cultural Salience of Moral Character and Virtue Declined in Twentieth Century America,” Journal of Positive Psychology, 2012.
27. Christian Smith, Kari Christoffersen, Hilary Davidson, Lost in Transition: The Dark Side of Emerging Adulthood (Oxford University Press, 2011), 22.
28. Leo Tolstoy, The Death of Ivan Ilyich (White Crow Books, 2010), 20.
29. Tolstoy, The Death of Ivan Ilyich, 66.