Grendell, James H., 38n
group sex, 15
gynecological self-examination, 75
gynecologists, 7, 122-124
H
hair, 22, 73
handballing, see fisting
Hartley, Nina, 39, 42, 48n, 83, 84n, 101n
health care professionals, 131
hemorrhoids, 41, 122
hepatitis A, 33, 82, 84, 125-126
hepatitis B, 125-126
herpes virus, 126-127
Herotica: A Collection of Women’s Erotic Fiction, 101n
Herrman, Bert, 28, 38n, 74n, 101n, 102-103, 105-108, 111n
Heterosexuality, 20n, 138n
high-risk, 3, 84
HIV, 3-4, 11, 18-19, 34-36, 51-52, 82, 84, 105-106, 125, 128-129
homophobia, 14
human papillomavirus (HPV), 124
hydrogen peroxide, 31, 64
hygiene, 10, 16, 22, 31-32, 82, 121
I
I-D, 57
Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality, 37, 38n
intercourse, see penetration
intestinal disorders, 33, 122
intestinal virus, 32, 82, 84
IV-drug use, 128-129
J
Jaivin, Linda, 83, 84n, 113, 119n
Janus, Cynthia L., 20n
Janus, Samuel S., 20n
Janus Report on Sexual Behavior, The, 20n
Johnson, Virginia E., 20n, 38n
Joy of Sex, The, 3, 6, 12n
K
Kegel exercises, 25-26, 63, 78, 107
Key, Dorian, 58, 66n
Kink: The Hidden Sex Lives of Americans,
20n, 48n
Kinsey Institute New Report on Sex, The, 20n, 36, 38n
kissing, 33
Kloser, Patricia, 38n
Kolodny, Robert E., 20n
KY Jelly, 57
KY Liquid, 56-57
L
labia, 22
latex, 10, 31-32, 34-37, 49-55, 84-85; allergy, 106-107; and lubricants, 56-57
laxatives, 72
Leather Daddy and the Femme, 119n
leather sex, 5, 7, 112-115
Leatherfolk, 119n
Leland, Elliot, 20n
Lesbian SIM Safety Manual, The, 6
lesbians, 6, 103-104
Little Birds, 101n
lubricants, 10, 35, 49, 55-59, 69, 76, 79-80, 92, 104-105, 109, 121; and condoms, 53; and dental dams, 51, 84; “liquidy,” 56-57; oil-based, 57-59, 104-106, 108; thick, 57; water-based, 56-57, 104, 125
M
Macho Sluts, 111n
mail-order catalogs, 48n, 56, 65, 71
Mainard, Chester, 7
“Mandra,” 101n
massage, anal, 86; erotic, 5
Masters and Johnson, 32
Masters, William H., 20n, 38n
masturbation, 5, 10, 13, 30, 75-80
McClosky, Dr. Jenny, 129n
McIlvenna, Ted, 38n, 66n
McQuaid, Kenneth R., 38n
Michael, Robert T., 20n
Michaels, Magenta, 87, 101n
Miller, Sarah, 20n, 26, 38n
misinformation, 3-4
monogamy, 5, 34-35, 105
Morgan, Robert, 38n, 73, 101n, 103, 111n
Morin, Jack, 5-6, 14, 20n, 38n, 129n
mouthwash, 84
mucosa, 73
N
naughtiness, 2, 19, 26, 113
negotiation, 115
nervous system, 23
Nestle, Joan, 24, 38n
New Good Vibrations Guide to Sex, The, 16, 20n, 36, 38n, 66n
New Joy of Sex: A Gourmet Guide to Lovemaking for the Nineties, The, 3, 12n
Nin, Anes, 94, 101n
Nina Hartley’s Guide to Anal Sex, 48n, 84n, 101n
nonmonogamy, 5, 34-37, 105
nonoxynol-9, 35-37, 106-107; and irritation of tissue, 35-36
Northwest AIDS Foundation, 66n
O
Old Testament, 14
oral sex, 5, 13; see also analingus,
cunnilingus, fellatio
orgasm, 2, 16, 25, 63, 76
P
pain, 17-18; fear, 41; and pleasure, 5, 115
pap smear, 122-123
parasites, 33, 82, 84
patience, 10, 45, 93
PC muscles, 21-30; exercising, 23-26, 60, 121
pelvic exam, 122-123
penetration, anal, 10, 24-25, 29, 59-64, 79, 82, 86-111, 121; finger, 1, 18, 51, 88, 121; and G-spot, 29; hand, see fisting; insertive, 41-42, 61-62, 77, 86-90, 97; penis, 36-37, 51, 53-54, 59, 121, 125; and prostate, 29; receptive, 23, 28, 40-41, 46-47, 60, 77, 90-93; vaginal, 25, 29, 49, 51-52, 56, 101, 105, 128 penicillin, 127-128
penis, 1, 16, 29, 51, 53, 84, 87, 93, 97-98, 100; bulb, 20; base, 29 perineal muscles, 22-23, 29
perineum, 16
phone sex, 5
Pinsky, Laura, 38n
poppers, 46
porn magazines, 98, 104
porn videos, 43, 45, 78, 98, 104
positions, 92, 109; doggie-style, 83, 92, 98-99, 109; missionary 95, 109;
receptive partner on top, 92, 96-97;
reverse spooning, 99-101;
sixty-nine, 83; spooning, 99-101
povidone iodine, 31 power dynamics, 10, 47-48
pregnancy 37, 52
presence, 45-47
Probe, 57
Probe Silky Light, 57
proctitis, 73
prostate gland, 16, 29-30, 61
pubic bone, 22, 29
pubococcygeus muscles see PC muscles
Q
Queen, Carol, 117, 119n
R
Reage, Pauline, 6, 114, 119n
Reality™ Female Condom, 52-53, 66n
rectal exam, 123-124
rectal tissue, 81, 51-52, 121, 125
rectosigmoidal junction, 27
rectum, 16, 21-30, 32-36, 55, 57, 67-68, 72-73, 78, 80, 98, 105-106, 110, 121-124; curves, 28, 61, 93, 99
Reinisch, June M., 20n, 38n
relationships, 34-35, 43
relaxation, 10, 33-34, 88, 90-91, 107, 109, 110; exercises, 76, 78
Religious Right, 17
Restricted Country, A, 38n
Rice, Anne, 70, 74n
rimming, see analingus,
role-playing, 5, 113, 115-118
romance, 5
Roquelaure, A.N., 74n
S
sacrum, 22, 29
sadomasochism (S/M), 5, 11, 15, 67, 103, 112-115
safer sex, 3-4, 7, 10-11, 19, 31-32, 34-37, 52-53, 84-85, 104-107, 122-129 saliva, 126
SAMOIS, 119n
San Francisco Sex Information, 36, 38n, 131
Sapphistry: The Book of Lesbian Sexuality, 6
Saran Wrap, 84
Second Coming, The, 119n
Semans, Anne, 20n, 38n, 66n
semen, 36, 52, 55, 125-126, 129
seminal vesicle, 29
sensory deprivation, 113
Sensuous Magic, 119n
sex, education, 2, 4, 6-7, 14, 21; kinky, 2, 15; manuals, 5-6, 21; research, 2, 5, 11, 15, 130-131
Sex for Dummies™, 6, 38n
Sex for One, 80n
Sex in America: A Definitive Survey, 6, 20n
Sex on Campus: The Naked Truth About the Real Sex Lives of College Students, 20n
sex toy cleaner, 31, 64
sex toy stores, 17, 48n, 56, 71, 109
sex toys, 10, 36, 49-66, 76; disinfecting, 31-32, 64, 129; flared base, 50, 61, 64, 76-77; safer sex, 36, 57, 59, 129;
smooth, 63-64; see also anal beads, butt plugs, dildos, vibrators
sexologists, 5-6, 131
sexual health, 7
sexual history, 34
sexual identity, 116, 118
sexual revolution, 102
sexually-transmitted disease (STD), 7, 11, 18, 34-37, 41, 51, 82, 84, 122-129
shaving, 10, 73
“She Gets Her Ass Fucked Good,” 101 n
Shopping Guide, 65 shower bidet, 71
sigmoid colon, 22, 27, 29
silicone, 107
silver bullet, 71
sling, 109
Slippery Stuff, 57