But right now, I’m allowed to swim in the pure pleasure of suckling. And I relish it. Closing my eyes, I do all the magic tricks I know to make her feel the way I feel when she goes down on me. Because, oh, does Ariel know some tricks. Right there in the forefront of my mind is the image of her between my legs, her hungry mouth busy. So busy.
Ariel is a master of blow jobs. She makes it seem as if she actually breathes my skin, no longer needing air. There are no hesitations when she sucks cock. Just long, smooth strokes of her mouth on my rod, her tongue milking me, adding pressure, creating soft, soothing sensations. I mimic each of these motions, trying my best to emulate her power, her posture. Trying my best to become her. As in this little game that we play she has become me.
I give it every thing I’ve got. My tongue flicks along the length, making swirls, drawing lines. Then I just suck on it, feeling my cheeks indent as I work hard to please a plastic cock. And when she says the words I love to hear, I obey them without a thought.
“Don’t stop, Davey. Don’t stop. Don’t stop.”
CHAPTER 7
Giving Head
Fellatio is a composition performed in three easy pieces. You conjure and build arousal with playful and purposeful oral foreplay, then you increase pleasure and establish a rhythm with specific techniques, and in the final crescendo, your rhythm combines with your mouth and hands to bring him to an orgasmic peak. These are the three main components in the art of giving mind-blowing head. Once you learn the steps and techniques, you will develop your own personal style. Pay close attention to the way the action is layered, and you’ll most certainly get explosive results that will have you both grinning from ear to ear.
Your First Tastes
She lay her head on my stomach and licked, nibbled, and sucked me for what seemed hours.
Taking the time to savor his smell and taste and feel everything to the fullest in the initial stages of fellatio is similar to enjoying an appetizer before the main course. Rushing to paradise can be fun sometimes, but going slowly prolongs his pleasure and makes for a much more memorable experience. Wanting to dive right in, or rather, plunge it in, is a delicious urge. When the passion and desire is at the point that you can’t get into each other’s clothes fast enough, then the eye-popping sensation of his cock going straight into your hot little mouth is fitting. Although, when he’s that hot and bothered, why not make him want it even more by slowing down the action?
If you’re putting him in your mouth for the first time, or are nervous about the whole process, then let time be on your side as you get acquainted with the look, aroma, and flavor of his genitals. As you transition from foreplay to fellatio, gradually narrow your attentions to his groin area, and spend extra time touching and kissing the area around the pubic region. If you’ve been giving him an erotic massage, then you’re already familiar with the sensory information that comes with being near him. As you kiss and nibble closer to his cock and balls, take a moment for you both to adjust to the feeling of having your face near his genitals. If he’s wearing underwear, you can kiss or even mouth his cock and balls through the fabric—this feels amazing to the recipient. Should you want to take his underwear off, slowly slide down one side at a time as you kiss and nuzzle his hips and the curve of his lower abdomen and hips.
When you begin to incorporate his penis and testicles into your attentions, start out with light kisses that are all soft lips and no tongue. Combine your kisses with other types of touch elsewhere, such as caresses and light squeezes with your hands; you can also press your face against his genitals to fully incorporate the action. Some men will be delighted if you run their penis over your face and neck, especially if it’s done with a sweetly salacious smile. The extra contact when you’re going down on him makes a big difference between “any old blow job” and getting head from someone who really wants him to feel good. Add long, languorous licks where his inner thighs meet his torso. Light, hot, focused breath on different parts of him provides a nice teasing touch.
If you’re feeling unsure about taking the first taste, run your closed lips over the shaft of his penis and the head. Inhale, moisten your lips, and try giving the skin an open-mouthed kiss, sans tongue. Taste your lips. He might be one of those juicy guys who produces a liquid called pre-come when aroused, and you may want to sample that flavor before you put him in your mouth. This is an activity for “fluid bonded” couples; read more about it in chapter 4, “Know the Hard Facts: Health Considerations.” Pre-come tastes slightly different from ejaculate; the flavor is generally light, but it differs from man to man. With a thoughtfully placed stroke, you can pick up a little pre-come on your fingertips and discreetly sample the way it tastes. If you don’t like it, you can use the opportunity of not yet having started fellatio to transition to another activity you feel more comfortable with.
Now you can invite your tongue to the party, if you haven’t already. While giving his crotch every other type of attention, you can gradually incorporate little licks or tongue flickers to his penis head, shaft, and base, his testicles, and where his scrotum meets his body, and you can lift his balls and lick his perineum. Use your hand to guide his penis into positions that make it easy for you to reach every spot, especially the sweet spots he responds to positively. He might really like being licked along the underside of the shaft, though he may prefer a spot at the base, up the center, at his circumcision scar (if he’s circumcised), or on the underside of the head. He may also like it all around the lower ridge of the head, where it mushrooms off the shaft, or at a particular point along that ridge. Some men really enjoy having their urethral opening (where urine leaves the penis, also called a “piss slit”) tongued and licked, though not all guys like this; you’ll have to pay attention to his reaction.
Stay hydrated! It’s no fun to go down on someone when you have a dry mouth, and giving head can be thirsty work. If you’ve been drinking alcohol, you’re going to get dehydrated faster than nondrinkers, but either way it’s a good idea to keep a glass of water nearby (if you can) to keep your kisser moist.
This is a terrific time to experiment and play with different tongue techniques. Again, it is highly recommended that you use your hands to guide his penis, adding the extra pleasure of fondling or lightly squeezing his balls. With your tongue, you can do the following:
• Flicker sensitive spots, such as those mentioned above. Flicker side to side or up and down, or give light taps.
• Press your tongue flat on the head.
• Point your tongue and give pressing strokes anywhere.
• Soften your tongue and slide sloppy trails everywhere.
• Give long, slow licks, as you would to an ice cream cone.
• Speed up the long licks, then slow them again.
• Hold your tongue stationary and run the head of his cock over it.
• Lightly lick his balls, or slather them with saliva.
• Gently suck one or both of his balls into your mouth. The popular term for this is tea bagging.
• Incorporate your soft lips (no teeth), and run your lips and tongue up and down the shaft, or over the head. Add a little suction if you like.
• If he’s uncircumcised, pull the foreskin back with your fingertips to kiss and lick him. You can also leave the foreskin in place and sweep your tongue around inside—but go easier than you would with a circumcised man, because uncut penises are usually more sensitive to stimulation on the head.