We’d become a bit closer when I’d started cleaning up my act a little and had got into the habit of meeting for a few drinks at a pub at Victoria Station. The staff there were pretty friendly and would let me slip Bob in provided I kept him hidden from the other punters. I’d learned to keep him under a table where he was happy snoozing. It was a cheap and cheerful place and we’d usually have a meal as well. It was always my dad’s treat. Well, I was never going to have the money to treat him, was I?
As usual, he was waiting there for me.
‘So what’s your news?’
‘Not a lot,’ I said. ‘I’m getting cheesed off with selling The Big Issue. It’s too dangerous. And London is full of people who don’t give a sh*t about you.’
I then told him the story about Boris Johnson. He gave me a sympathetic look but his reply was predictable.
‘You need to get yourself cleaned up and you need to get yourself a proper job, Jamie,’ he said. (He was the only person who called me that.)
I resisted the temptation to roll my eyes.
‘That’s easier said than done, Dad,’ I said.
My dad had always been a grafter, a hard worker. He was blue collar to the core. He’d graduated from being an antique dealer to having a washing machine and domestic appliance repair service to a mobility vehicle business. He’d always been his own boss. I don’t think he quite grasped why I hadn’t been able to do the same thing. To his credit, he had never washed his hands of me. He’d tried to help. At one point I had been keen on getting into music production and he’d wanted to give me a helping hand to get on a course but it hadn’t panned out. The thought was there but the motion behind it wasn’t. He had remarried since splitting with my mum and had two children, my half siblings Caroline and Anthony, to look after. It got complicated.
I’d never really considered working for his business and he’d never really offered. Quite rightly, he felt that business and family didn’t mix. Besides, deep down he knew that I wasn’t reliable – or presentable – enough to interact with the public.
‘What about training in computing or something like that. There are loads of courses around,’ he said.
This was true enough but I didn’t have the qualifications to get on most courses. That was partly my own fault.
A few years back I’d had a mentor, a great guy called Nick Ransom who worked for a charity called Family Mosaic. He had been a really good friend. He’d either come to my flat or I’d go into his office in Dalston where he’d help me with everything from paying the bills to applying for jobs. He had tried to get me involved in a variety of courses, from bike building to computing. But the struggle to kick my addiction had been all consuming and I’d never knuckled down to it. Busking had always been an easier option for me and when Nick moved on to pastures new the chance slipped through my fingers. It wasn’t the first opportunity I’d messed up, nor would it be the last.
My dad said he’d ask around to see if there was anything going. ‘But things are pretty rough everywhere at the moment,’ he said, holding up a copy of the evening paper. ‘Every time I look at the paper it’s all doom and gloom. Jobs going everywhere.’
I wasn’t that disconnected from reality. I knew there were millions of people in the same situation as me, every single one of them with better qualifications. I was so far down the pecking order in the jobs market I felt that it wasn’t even worth applying for jobs.
My dad wasn’t a man to bare his emotions with me. I knew he was frustrated by the way I lived my life. Deep down I knew he felt I wasn’t trying. I understood why he felt that way, but the truth was that I was trying. Just in my own way.
To lighten things up a little we talked a little bit about his family. I wasn’t particularly close to Anthony and Caroline; we met very infrequently. He asked me what I was doing for Christmas – I’d spent a couple of Christmases with him but it hadn’t really been a barrel of laughs for either of us.
‘I’m just going to spend it with Bob,’ I said. ‘We enjoy being together.’
My dad didn’t really get my relationship with Bob. Tonight, as usual, he stroked him occasionally and kept an eye on him when I popped to the toilet. He even got the waitress to bring him a saucer of milk and gave him a couple of snacks. But he wasn’t a natural cat lover. And on the one or two occasions when I had talked about how much Bob helped me in sorting myself out he just looked baffled. I suppose I couldn’t blame him for that.
As usual, my Dad asked after ‘my health’ which I always took to be code for ‘are you still off the drugs?’
‘I’m doing all right,’ I said. ‘I saw a guy drop dead from an overdose on the landing of my flats a while back. That freaked me out quite a lot.’
He looked horrified. He had no understanding of drug culture or the way it worked and, like a lot of men of his generation, was a little bit scared of it truth be told. For that reason, I don’t think he’d ever really grasped how bad my situation had been when I’d been at my lowest ebb on heroin.
He’d seen me during that period, but, like all addicts, I had learned to keep that side of my life hidden when necessary. I’d met him a couple of times when I was off my face on gear. I’d just told him I had a bout of the flu and assumed he wouldn’t know any different. He wasn’t stupid though, he probably sensed something was wrong but wouldn’t have been able to put his finger on what it was specifically. He had no concept of what it was like to do drugs. I quite envied him that.
We spent an hour and a half together, but then he had to catch a train back to south London. He gave me a few quid to tide me over and we agreed to see each other again in a few weeks’ time.
‘Look after yourself, Jamie,’ he said.
The station was still busy. It was the back end of the rush hour. I had a few magazines left in my satchel so decided to try and shift them before heading home. I found an empty pitch outside the railway station and was soon doing pretty well.
Bob had a full stomach and was on good form. People were stopping and making a fuss. I was just weighing up whether to spend the money I was making on a takeaway curry when trouble reared its head again.
I knew the pair were trouble the moment I set eyes on them heading across the road towards the main entrance to Victoria Station. I recognised one of them from my days selling The Big Issue in Covent Garden. He was a wiry, grey-haired guy in his mid-forties. He was wearing the distinctive, red tabard but I knew he wasn’t a legitimate seller. He had been ‘de-badged’ a long time ago for various misdemeanours. His mate wasn’t familiar, but I didn’t need to know him to be able to tell he was a rough character. He was a big brute and was built like a sack of potatoes.
I immediately worked out what they were doing. The smaller one was waving a single copy of The Big Issue around, stopping people, collecting money but never handing over the magazine. They were running a scam called One Booking, in which vendors used a single, out-of-date magazine to generate a string of sales. Each time someone handed over some money, the seller would come out with some sob story about it being their last copy and being in particularly dire straits. It was begging, basically. There was no other word for it.
I was always amazed that anyone fell for it. But there were always a few gullible – or maybe generous – souls around.