“And I shouldn’t have ever told Marissa that you called me that time in September when … well, you know. It wasn’t any of my business, I know that. I promise I only told a few people: my parents, Marissa, one or two of my other best friends. I want you to know I wasn’t spreading it all over school that you … you know, hurt yourself. I was just so panicked after you called me, and I didn’t know what to do, so I talked it through with a few close friends. I wasn’t trying to spread rumors about you or anything.”
“Amelia,” I said, “it’s fine.”
“I really am sorry about the way Marissa treated you, though,” she said. “I had no idea she was like that.”
Amelia, it occurred to me then, was not very good at reading a crowd.
“I just feel like this whole thing is my fault,” she went on. “Is there anything I can do to make it up to you?”
I thought of all the responses I would have rattled off had she asked me this same question just a couple months ago. Let me sit with you at lunch. Invite me to hang out with you on weekends. Text me sometimes. Listen to this mix I made for you. Have dinner with my family, and when that’s over, pretend to do homework in the living room with me while my sister and brother distract us, and we pretend to care, but we don’t.
But Amelia is nice. That’s all. That doesn’t make her my friend, that doesn’t make her special, and that doesn’t make her anything I want her to be. It has nothing to do with me. She’s just nice.
So I said, “Amelia, don’t worry about it. It isn’t your fault.”
“I just … when I called 911 that time … I was trying to help. And I feel like it totally backfired, you know?”
“You did the right thing, calling an ambulance,” I told her. “You didn’t know how serious it was; you weren’t there with me.” I thought about how I would have responded if someone had called me in the way that I called Amelia. How scared would I have felt? How responsible? “I would have done the same thing if I were in your position.”
“Honestly?” she asked.
“Yes,” I said. “I would have. It’s okay, Amelia. I’m not mad at you.”
After Amelia and I hung up, I sat on my bed for a moment, my phone cupped in my hand. There was still one other person that I needed to talk to. So I lifted the phone again, and I dialed Vicky’s number.
She answered after one ring. “Where the hell have you been?”
“Grounded,” I said.
“Grounded,” Vicky repeated.
“Yeah, I … It’s a long story. I did something mean to my sister, so my mom took away my phone.”
“You could have e-mailed or something,” Vicky pointed out. “You could have found some way to let me know you were all right.”
“I know,” I said. “I’m sorry.”
“The last time I saw you, you basically told me that you’re suicidal because nobody likes you. The next thing I knew, you’d disappeared, Pippa and Char were making out, and you weren’t talking to me for a week. I’ve been freaking out, Elise. Harry has been freaking out. And he never freaks out.”
“I’m not suicidal,” I said. I held my arm out in front of me and twisted it back and forth. Palm up. Palm down. Now you look fractured. Now you look whole.
“That’s not the story your arm told.”
“I did that a long time ago. Before I knew you or Harry or Mel, or Pippa or Char or Pete, or Start. I didn’t know then how good life could be. But now I know. And I would never do it again.”
“I think I can speak with some expertise on the issue of personally inflicted bodily harm,” Vicky said. “May I?”
“Go for it.”
“It’s not worth it. Sure, high school sucks sometimes. Some people will mess with you, whenever they want, and for no reason except that they can. But hurting yourself is giving those people all the power, and they don’t deserve it. Why would they deserve to have control over your life? Because they’re cool? Because they’re pretty? That’s completely illogical.”
“Where did you learn all this?” I asked her.
“Like I said. Lots and lots of therapy.” She paused. “Also, almost dying from malnutrition. It gave me a lot of clarity.”
“Thanks, Vicky.”
“Anyway,” Vicky said, “now that you’re alive, the second most important thing: Is the party still on for tonight? You’re ungrounded?”
“For about the next nine hours,” I replied.
“Okay, then I need to go find something to wear that isn’t a nightgown.” She paused. “One last question on the self-mutilation thing.”
“I don’t really feel like having this conversation, Vicky.”
“We won’t. Just one last question. What did Char have to say about it?”
I frowned, confused. “Nothing. I mean, he doesn’t know. Why would he?”
“Because you were hooking up,” Vicky said softly. “For weeks.”
I thought about that—the number of times he had pulled my shirt off of me, or grabbed my hands in his, kissed my shoulder. “I guess he never noticed?”
“No,” Vicky said. “I guess he wouldn’t.” She didn’t say anything more.
“Speaking of Char,” I said, “I ran into him at a pizza parlor this afternoon.”
“What did he say?” she asked. “Did he apologize?”
“No.”
“Did he beg you to give him another chance?”
“No.”
She sighed noisily. “He’s such a waste of a good haircut.”
“Hey,” I said. “Do you know Char’s real name?”
Vicky didn’t even pause. “Sure. It’s Michael. Michael Kirby. Why?”
“No reason,” I said. “I’ll see you tonight.”
We hung up after that. Then I opened my computer, and I googled “Michael Kirby.”
I wanted to know who Char really was. No more personas, no more images, no more pretending.
It was easy—so easy that I had to wonder why I had never asked Vicky for his real name before. Within ten minutes, I had a whole picture painted of Michael Kirby.
He was nineteen years old, turning twenty next week. He’d grown up in Westerly, about forty miles from here, the middle of three kids. On the high school track team, he would occasionally, but not all that often, finish in the top five in the 400-meter. He was one of eight trombone players in his high school’s marching band. I watched a video of them playing at a county fair, but I had to watch it twice before I could tell which one of the blue-uniformed trombonists was him. Michael’s dad worked in construction and his mom worked part-time as a secretary for Russell Gold, DDS, “Where Your Smile Makes Us Smile.”
In Michael’s freshman year at state college, he’d joined the college radio station and lived in Hutton Dorm. There was a photo of him wearing pajama pants at a study break, with a caption reading, Michael’s special snack: Chex Mix! Now in his second year, he was only a part-time student; he spent the rest of the time as a server at Antonio’s Pizzeria. He maintained Antonio’s Web site, and when I clicked the “contact us” button at the bottom of the page, it opened an e-mail addressed to michael@antoniospizza.com.
That was Char. It was all laid out for me across the Internet. It was a simple portrait of a person, like a million other people, and I felt the magic of Char float off into the air, as if I’d blown on a pile of dust.
But you know better than anyone how the Internet sees everything and nothing, all at the same time.
After I had learned all I cared to learn about Michael Kirby, I looked up my own name.