Why do you do this? Why do you want to see what other people say you are?
I suppose it’s because old habits die hard.
The first two search results were the same as always. Elise Dembowski, MD. Elise Dembowski Tampa Florida school superintendent.
But the third result was different. Elise Dembowski suicide had fallen down on the list. The third thing that came up when I typed in my own name was Elise Dembowski DJ.
I stared at my computer screen for a long moment, and I smiled. Then I closed my laptop and got ready for Start.
20
“So you decided to show up after all, hmm?” Mel said when I arrived at Start later that night. “Just couldn’t stay away?”
“What can I say? The scene needs me,” I told him.
Mel laughed. “Atta girl.” Then he noticed who was behind me. “Hello,” he said, sticking out his hand for a shake. “I’m Mel.”
“I’m Joe Dembowski. Elise’s dad,” said my dad.
I closed my eyes briefly. Please don’t do anything to embarrass me, Dad. Actually, my dearest hope had been that he wouldn’t identify himself as related to me, period. Let everyone think he was just some lecherous old guy who enjoyed hanging out at warehouse parties on his own.
“You’ve come to see your daughter’s big premiere?” Mel nodded his approval. “You’ve got a good dad,” he said to me. “And don’t worry about it, Joe; I don’t need to see your ID.”
“You’ve been taking care of Elise?” Dad asked, looking Mel up and down.
Mel shrugged modestly. “When she lets me.”
Dad laughed and clapped him on the shoulder. “I know what you mean,” he said. Then we entered Start.
“So this is where you’ve been spending all your time?” Dad asked, looking around the room. The party hadn’t started yet, so it was almost entirely empty. The bartender’s iPod was playing faintly on the speakers.
“Some of my time,” I said cautiously.
Dad shrugged, like he wasn’t impressed. Then he laughed. “You know what? You’ve come to enough of my gigs over the years. I’m glad to finally have the chance to return the favor.”
“I’m glad, too,” I said, and I was. Glad that we were back on speaking terms, glad that my dad understood what it meant to fall in love with music, glad that I had my own father and not Sally’s. I hugged him suddenly.
“I’m proud of you, baby,” Dad murmured. “Go out there and knock ’em dead.”
“Thanks, Dad,” I said. “Now would you please sit over by the bar and act like you don’t know me all night?”
He nodded. “You got it.”
I headed over to the DJ booth and started setting up. Char had always taken care of this part before, so I went slowly, checking and double-checking to make sure that everything was plugged in correctly.
Just as I was plugging in my last cords, the Dirty Curtains arrived.
“Helloooo, Glendale!” Harry shouted, raising his drumsticks in the air. “How y’all doing tonight? Glendale in the hoooouse!”
“Harry,” Vicky said, a step behind him. “We’ve been over this. The drummer doesn’t get to banter with the audience.”
“What about the guitarist?” Dave asked, setting his guitar on the stage. “Does the guitarist get to banter?”
“No,” Vicky said.
Dave shrugged. “That’s cool. I didn’t want to banter anyway.”
“I did,” Harry said. He raised his voice again. “Glendale, get your hands in the air if you’re sexy! All sexy hands, in the air! Unsexy hands, you can just hang out.”
“I swear to God,” Vicky said, “I have the bantering under control. I will handle the banter. Just play your goddamn instruments.”
I stepped down from the booth and gave Vicky a hug.
“Okay, I am freaking out.” Vicky let go of me and took a step back. “Now tell me the truth: do these false eyelashes make me look like a My Little Pony?”
“Vicky!” I laughed. “Since when do you get stage fright?”
“Uh, since my whole life?”
“But you’ve performed in a zillion things. You were a cheerleader,” I reminded her.
“Yeah, and shouting, ‘Roosevelt Roosters, go go go!’ in a yellow-and-green unitard really prepared me for singing in front of Start. Anyway, this is the first time I’ve performed my songs. Songs that I wrote. Not to mention the first time the Dirty Curtains have performed anywhere, ever. Like, all of a sudden the Dirty Curtains are a real band, instead of a few dudes who play video games on my TV and shed beard hair all over my rug while I try to make them rehearse.”
I glanced over at the other two Dirty Curtains, who were plugging their instruments into amps and saying, “Testing, one two three,” and, “Is this thing on?” and, “Cocksucker cocksucker cocksucker” into their mics.
“They seem like a real band to me,” I said.
“I just don’t want you to regret asking us to play on your big night,” Vicky said. “We might suck. Are you prepared for people hearing us and, like, vomiting all over your dance floor?”
“Vicky,” I said, resting my hands on her shoulders. “Repeat after me. I deserve to be here.”
“I deserve to be here,” Vicky said, looking into my eyes.
“I don’t care if anyone thinks I look stupid.”
“I don’t care if anyone thinks I look stupid,” Vicky echoed quietly.
“Okay.” I took my hands off her shoulders. “Do your stuff out there. Show no mercy.”
Then Vicky went to help set up, while I went to the booth and put on my headphones. I cued up the Undertones’ “Teenage Kicks.” Then the clock hit ten, Mel opened the door, and the crowd came pouring in. The night had begun.
It felt different, DJing a party that was all my own. The whole success of the night rested on me. If I messed up, I didn’t have Char there to save me. But there was something about it that I liked, too. Because if the night was a success, I didn’t have Char there to take the credit. That was all mine.
And by midnight, I was ready to say it: the night was a success. The dance floor was full, a pulsating mass of bodies moving to every track I played. Char had talked about reading the crowd like you’d read a book, but tonight I had moved beyond even that. It felt like invisible veins and arteries ran between me and every person in that room, communicating information between us instantly and noiselessly. It wasn’t like reading a story. It was like I was writing a story.
And everyone was there. I saw the Dirty Curtains, of course, flitting through the crowd, and Pippa, Pete, Flash Tommy, Emily Wallace and her friends, my dad.
Everyone was there, except for Char. His absence still hurt me. But it hurt less now than I had thought it would.
Shortly after midnight, Vicky showed up next to the DJ booth. “Ready?” she asked me. The Dirty Curtains were up on stage, Dave strapping his guitar over his shoulder and Harry adjusting his mic stand.
“So ready.”
She flashed me a grin, then hopped up on the stage. I faded out the music, and Vicky shouted into the mic, “Ladies and gentlemen of Start, I have one question for you: Are you ready to party?”
“Woo!” a few people shouted, moving closer to the stage.
“Hit it!” Vicky said, and the Dirty Curtains began to play.
They were extraordinary.
I say this not as Vicky’s friend, and not as the girl who booked the band to play, but as a DJ who has listened to thousands upon thousands of bands, who lives with earphones on, who attended her first live concert at the age of eight months because, as my father said, “Even infants like James Brown, right?” I’ve heard it all and I’m hard to impress.