I nod. “I am. And I’m not going anywhere. I want to help you get through this.”
She closes her eyes again. “I have no idea how to do that. I feel like I’ve lost a part of me . . . it’s like every dream I had for my baby and our future together will haunt me the rest of my life.”
I think about the dreams I had, too . . . maybe they were fantasies, but they felt real to me. My favorite was imagining the three of us at the beach, Elle holding the kid’s right hand, and me the left, while we swing the little one over the ocean swirling around our feet.
Without letting go of her hand, I reach behind me and drag the chair as close to her bed as possible. We let the silence and pain wrap tightly around us. All I can do is hold onto her hand while she cries, knowing these tears are the beginning of a river we will wade through. There’s no other way.
After a few intense minutes the tears slow down and she closes her eyes. I rest my head on the mattress next to her thigh. The weight of defeat is swallowing me and I frantically blink back my own tears. I need to be tough for her, but it’s hard, damn it, when I feel broken too. Elle seems to sense my spirit falling and without opening her eyes, she gently places her open hand on my head.
It’s in this intimate moment that the door opens and Trisha sticks her head inside.
“Sorry. Elle? They’re ready. Do you still—”
Elle doesn’t wait for the rest of the question. “Yes,” she says.
Trisha gestures for me to join her. “Come on Paul, we’ll wait down the hall.”
I try to hide my confusion and concern from Elle, figuring whatever she’s made her mind up about I need to trust.
I lean into her. “I’ll be out there. Tell them to let me know when I can come back to you.”
She nods. “I will.”
I slide down into the waiting room couch and press my hand over my eyes. These fucking florescent lights are making me edgy. The last thing I need right now is everything in this bleak place brightly lit and defined when my mind is so dark.
Trisha lets out a long sigh as she sits down next to me.
“So what’s happening in there?” I ask.
“It’s called a D and C. It’s finishing what nature started. At least she won’t have to deal with possibly a few weeks of bleeding after this.”
I press my lips together. The mystery of women and what they have to deal with has never felt more overwhelming to me. I know Elle is resilient, but everyone has their breaking point. I need to be ready in case this is hers.
Chapter Sixteen
TABLE FOR TWO
Grief is a shadow that clings to you especially in the quiet darkness. You can run but that fucker is attached to your heels looming behind you, ready to swallow you up.
Grief is also the language Elle and I speak now, it’s the language of no words just the hollow echo of her empty belly as we sit side-by-side on her couch, watching mindless comedies to fill the evening hours.
Once she’s back at work, I check on her every afternoon as she moves from one meeting to another. She seems busier than ever and she finally shares with me that she’s been pushing hard to pick up more clients so her schedule is always packed.
I get it, but it doesn’t keep me from worrying about her. The night I took her home from the clinic is now just a fuzzy collection of the fragmented actions—Elle leaning against me as she signed off on paperwork, carefully loading her in my car like she was a porcelain doll, and tucking her into her bed at home while making sure she took her pain meds. My care was all I had to offer so I did the best I could, even sleeping on her couch so I could check on her throughout the night.
She was asleep, when in a wave of rage and despair, I pulled a number of items out of her purse. With my phone I took a picture of the hospital paperwork with the miscarriage diagnosis, procedures and charges. Then I opened up her phone to recent calls, scrolling down until I found that motherfucking Viking’s name. I copied his phone number onto the text I’d written, attached the photo, and hit send.
Maybe it wasn’t the smartest thing to send a text threatening him if he ever contacts Elle again, but at least he has hard proof that the baby he was suddenly trying to claim, lost its chance at life that night. As much as I wanted to track him down and beat the shit out of him, far more than that was the determination to make sure Elle didn’t have to deal with him again in her sorrow.
That text and other emotional parts of that night I’ve filed away in my brain but they sneak up on me at unexpected times, temporarily stopping me in my tracks. I’m sure it happens with Elle, but she does her best to hide it from me. Knowing her, she thinks I’ve put up with too much already. Maybe she hasn’t realized yet that when it comes to her there’s no too much for me.
I know we need to push ourselves if we’re going to get past this. After a few weeks I start testing her.
Hey, you want to go to that new restaurant on LaBrea?
Did you hear about the latest DeNiro film? It’s playing at the ArcLight and it’s supposed to be great.
Did you know they’re doing tours of Frank Lloyd Wright’s Hollyhock House again? Wouldn’t that be cool?
All of my suggestions are met with an unenthusiastic shrug. “Maybe later,” she says.
I decide to give it more time, but one evening she points out a picture in a magazine spread. “What do you think of this?”
I look over her shoulder. “The Getty Center garden? It blew my mind first time I went. I love the bold choices. It’s amazing that they allowed Robert Irwin to realize his vision.”
She smiles. Damn I’ve missed that smile. “Will you take me to see it?” she asks.
I push back a grin. I don’t want to risk her changing her mind by thinking I’m expecting too much. “Sure. How about Saturday morning?”
“I’d like that.”
She’s wearing a sundress and sandals when I pick her up at ten thirty. It feels like her mood is the lightest it’s been since before losing the baby. Perhaps she’s pushing herself to try to find her new normal. Her hair is pulled back in a ponytail and she has sunglasses pushed on top of her head.
“Hey, pretty girl,” I say when she steps up to me for a hug.
“Hey, handsome.”
She plays with the radio as I drive, and I let her. She finally settles on an Ed Sheeran song and leans back in her seat with a smile. “It feels good to get out.”
“Well, wait until you see the garden.”
After we get off the tram from the parking lot, I take her hand and pull her along, heading directly to the Central Garden, pointing out the ravine and stone waterfalls along the way. I have trouble containing my excitement. For some reason it never occurred to me to bring Elle here, and the fact that it was her idea makes it that much sweeter.
“Wow,” she exclaims when we finally reach the focal point of the gardens.
I start pointing to various plants and design elements and explain that everything was designed to reflect color and light.
“Those are interesting,” she says, pointing to the teepee structures that have fuchsia petals feathering out of their tops.
“I know. That design fascinates me. They’re custom designed bougainvillea arbors.”
“They look like abstract art.”
After circling the garden twice, I take her where they’ve carved a quote of Irwin’s in the plaza floor. “Always changing, never twice the same.”
She studies the words for a minute before looking up at me. “Boy that could be my motto this year, too. My life was one thing, then it changed direction completely, and then it flipped me over again.”
I squeeze her hand. “It’s been a lot.”
“Too much,” she says quietly. “What’s the saying? The Lord giveth and the Lord taketh away. I don’t think God or the universe thought I deserved a baby.”
I look over at her, alarmed. The entire time I walked through this journey with her, I never thought she’d take the miscarriage as punishment.