Like most couples, I’m sure, Greg and I used to have conversations about which of our friends were unfaithful. After all, if one in three partners cheats on the other, or something like that, we figured we must be surrounded by people who were betraying each other. Now I remembered a conversation so vividly it was like being there again, and there we were in bed together, warm under the duvet and facing each other in the grainy half-light, his hand on my hip and my foot resting against his calf.
‘My parents?’ he was saying, and I giggled: ‘No way!’
‘Your parents?’
‘Please!’
‘Who, then?’
‘Fergus and Jemma?’ I suggested.
‘Impossible. They’ve only been together for a couple of years and he’s not that kind of guy.’
‘What kind of guy is that? And, anyway, it doesn’t need to be him, it could be her.’
‘She’s too moral. And too pregnant. What about Mary and Eric?’
‘She would have told me,’ I said firmly.
‘Sure? What about if it was him?’
‘She would definitely have told me that too. Even if she didn’t, I’d know.’
‘How?’
‘I just would. She’s a very bad liar. Her neck goes blotchy.’
‘What about me – would you be able to tell with me?’
‘Yes – so watch it.’
‘How would you know?’
‘I just would.’
‘Trusting fool.’
We smiled at each other, sure of our happiness.
I got out of bed, pushed my feet into slippers, went downstairs and into the kitchen, turning on the overhead light and blinking in the sudden dazzle. I saw from the wall clock that it was nearly three o’clock. It was windy outside and when I pressed my face to the window, trying to make out the shape of the roofs and chimneys, I imagined all those people out there, lying safely in bed with each other, warm and submerged in their dreams. I could still hear Greg’s voice and see his smile, and the contrast between the intense comfort of that memory and this cold, empty darkness was like a blow to the stomach, making my eyes water. No one tells you how physical unhappiness can be, how it hurts in your sinuses and throat, glands, muscles and bones.
I made myself a mug of hot chocolate and drank it slowly. Greg’s face faded. I knew he wasn’t here, wasn’t anywhere. His ashes were in a small square box with a rubber band around it. But I heard his teasing voice. Trusting fool, he called me.
‘Fergus.’
‘Ellie?’ His eyes widened with surprise. He was still in his dressing-gown, unshaven and puffy with sleep. ‘Are you OK?’
‘Did I wake you?’
‘What’s happened?’
‘Can I come in?’
He stood back, pulling his dressing-gown more tightly around him, and I walked past him into the kitchen, where the four of us had sat so many times, eating takeaways, playing cards, drinking almost until it got light. The supper things were still on the table: two stacked plates, an empty serving bowl, a half-drunk bottle of red wine. Fergus started to collect them up, dropping the forks on the tiled floor with a clatter.
‘I know it’s a bit early.’
‘It doesn’t matter. Coffee? Tea? Breakfast? Devilled kidneys? That last one was a joke. Jemma will be in bed for ages. She’s on maternity leave now.’ As he said this, I saw anxiety cross his face: Jemma was on maternity leave and I was childless, barren, shamed and alone.
‘Coffee, please. Maybe some toast.’
‘Marmalade, honey, jam?’
‘Whatever. Honey.’
‘If we’ve got any. No. No honey. Or jam, actually.’
‘Marmalade’s fine.’
‘The funeral seemed to go off all right,’ he said cautiously, as he filled the kettle and slid a slice of bread into the toaster.
‘The funeral was crap.’
He smiled ruefully at me.
‘No one knew what to say to me.’
‘It’s over, at least.’
‘Not really.’
He looked at me, eyebrows raised. ‘What d’you mean?’
‘I’ve decided to believe him.’
The kettle started to boil, sending puffs of steam into the air. Very methodically, he measured spoonfuls of coffee into the pot, then poured in the water. Only when he had handed me the hot mug did he look me in the eye. ‘Come again?’ he said.
‘Greg didn’t have an affair.’
‘Oh,’ said Fergus, putting his mug carefully on to the table with a click, then wiping his mouth with the back of his hand. ‘Right.’
‘On the one hand there’s how it appears, him dying with this other woman.’
‘Yes.’
‘And on the other is my trust.’
‘Yes.’
‘I’m keeping faith. I’m not abandoning him.’
I waited for Fergus to say that he was dead, but he didn’t. He said, ‘I see,’ and picked up his mug again, staring at me over the rim. ‘Well, that’s good, I suppose.’
‘Yes, it is.’
‘Good, I mean, if it lets you come to terms with what’s happened.’
‘No.’
‘No?’
‘Because what has happened?’
Fergus frowned and ran his fingers through his hair, so it stood on end, giving him the look of a sad clown. He dipped his finger into his coffee and licked it. ‘Why don’t you tell me what you’re thinking, Ellie?’ he said eventually.
‘When you were doing work for him, in the office, did you see any sign that he was… you know – involved?’
‘No.’
‘Nothing?’
‘Nothing. That doesn’t mean -’
I interrupted what I knew he was going to say. ‘Look, Fergus, Greg died with another woman. But he wasn’t having an affair with her. He wasn’t. OK? So, what were they doing together? That’s the question, isn’t it? For a start there are other possibilities.’ Fergus looked at me and didn’t speak. ‘Just off the top of my head she might have been a hitchhiker.’
Fergus thought for a moment. ‘Not wanting to be a devil’s advocate, but this woman -’
‘Milena Livingstone.’
‘She was some sort of businesswoman, no?’
‘Sort of.’
‘Do they tend to hitchhike? In London?’
‘Or just some business contact.’
‘Absolutely.’
‘That he was giving a lift to.’
‘All right.’
‘So you believe him?’
‘Ellie, he’s not here to believe. Your husband – my best friend, the man we both loved and miss like hell – is dead. That’s what this is really about, isn’t it? It’s as if by somehow persuading yourself that he wasn’t fucking another woman, he won’t be dead after all. You’ll go mad if you keep on like this.’
‘You only think that because you believe I’m wrong, deluding myself, and that Greg was unfaithful to me.’
‘You’re never going to find out what happened,’ he said wearily.
I should have kept a tally of how many times that had been said to me. ‘I trust him,’ I said. ‘That’s enough for me. The toast is burning, by the way.’
At Sunday lunch with Joe, Alison and one of their three children, Becky, who had her father’s blue stare, her mother’s pallor and reticence, I repeated what I’d said to Fergus. It was harder in front of three people. I sounded forced and over-insistent. I saw Joe’s shoulders sag, and I saw him throw a helpless glance at Alison before he turned to me, a lettuce leaf dangling from his fork. ‘Sweetheart,’ he said.
‘I know what that means,’ I said. ‘Sweetheart. It means you’re going to tell me very patiently why you think I’m behaving in a wrong-headed and self-destructive way. You’re going to tell me I’ll never find out the truth and must learn to live with that uncertainty and move on. And probably you’ll tell me this is a form of grieving.’
‘That’s pretty much it, yes. And that we love you and want to help in any way we can.’