And recalled the word for what Shay had made her into when he respectfully moved with a Sunday museum-goer’s slowness, from her higher to her lower, from her eyes and dry mouth that he’d kissed and that hadn’t changed, to the action down there — she thought of him as Shay during the labor — and he mustn’t look back at her, this was what she felt, or felt he felt, as if he could share her labor only by not looking back at her. Well, it wasn’t as if she couldn’t have had a mirror to follow the action. But he, who had been impatient for the baby to come and who had said the time had never gone faster, had looked along her length so that by his slowness she had become a model.
Of what? A model of a woman on a scale not to be sniffed at.
Still, a model. A model woman? In the mouths of others. Scientist, lover, mother of a fetus nearing term, nutritionist at the bar of the breakfast nook, creator soft and trim who’d give you a hand and a thigh, demonstrate relative acceleration, share a birth with you, be tracked by your pocket clock through space to the next contraction (breathing quick and regular, hhh — hhh — hhh — hhh, as she and Shay had been shown at the natural childbirth sessions), while she’d often said (knowing she will often later say) that she must have (later had had to have) you there, it must follow as the timer her and she the timer that she must have you there in that time between the looking forward full of love, hope, content (and looking forward itself), and the looking backward full of love, content, tiredness, blab, work, and looking forward. Well obviously he went down there to that end of her to see what was happening; the baby was more slowly downward bound than he; and her pain was bound to her until it dropped downward with no speed at all or she dropped through it — its bind — into a void like the death which, she always thought, wasn’t like relief for the doer of the dying, because the doer unlike the really relieved was unfeelingly dead. It wasn’t a child she had in her hands, for if she had had one, the grip would have crunched the little beautiful child who was inside her still while her hands gripped whatever they gripped, gripped the bright hospital room she was in, all by herself, except for Shay, the nurse (but there were two nurses then), the doctor, and the baby who was getting the fuck out since there was no room in.
Her husband would describe her pain, she was sure. He had heard enough about it even though she didn’t so much recall it as hold on to its weight. He could look back better than she and see the glazed, willful eyes of their three-minute-old child, a tube (he said, but she didn’t remember) in a nostril, the fluid draining out, the amniotic fluid (he said), which doesn’t touch her because saying "amniotic fluid" was not recalling anything, not looking back (at her or whatever he looked back at); but what, then, did he lose in that looking back?
He had his hands clasped behind his back at some point she was sure as he moved to the foot of the delivery table. Museum, or lab, one like hers, and a model was on view, and you walked along it and around it, looked through its windows and its valves and if there was an equals sign looked through the equals sign to what it led to, but to this model there was more than met the eye, and it was a gap between last night’s lipstick and this morning’s extra-careful shave — at least she did not sport a five-o’clock shadow! — or you had balls with rods sticking out of them from ball to ball, and then another cluster of balls with rods, but between the clusters nothing, and you put the two parts of the one model together but without doing anything to them, for you put them together in mind.
And she was in that gap there in the middle which was still an empty gap no matter how much of her was in it, she was what was in that gap in the middle, but she was there just for a moment, and it was the thought looking either way that she and no one else caused him to get that hard-on, she was what had done it, but then also that, well, he got it, a hard-on, he got his hard-on regardless, and having gotten it he would get it into an available cunt. So long as he did not look at the ceiling. She had looked at the ceiling and didn’t know herself any more, knew only her baby inside her and God like a blank perfectly painted.
Push. She had no choice but to.
He came back to her, held her hand in his, he knew when to grip harder when she pushed. She had worked hard enough but her work went on. She couldn’t have done it without him there. She actually believed that. So push. She had no choice but to.
The hand went away and she had hold of something else but it was the ceiling he’d never looked at that she wanted to grip though it was beyond the birth of her baby which was happening and happening.
Her husband would thoughtfully ask all she’d felt. Did he want to know?
Between us, it was what marriage was all about. We suffer alone. We are not alone. There’s life elsewhere. We have each other. Till death do us part.
The baby inside her, had it been speaking all the time? But speaking to her? Why her? Why not anyone? Why not him? But more her than him. For she and the baby had both been inside her and might have come to an old understanding. Yet this felt like how he would think.
She stood, as she’d known she would, in a gown you could see through and held the stem of her glass while a man poured a daiquiri into it and the lime smelled the roots of her mouth which watered. The talk went on, women and men comparing experiences of birth, some in this room probably in the process of losing one another, maybe a woman and a man looking right at each other to see each other. Where? There was a moment of no talk and a woman said, "Sue," and everyone laughed. The pouring ended neatly and the daiquiri at the brim was almost like the first and as she smiled at the man named Marvin or Martin who had filled her glass and who she’d heard from her husband was a free-lance diver who had worked for the police and in oceanography, she heard in the empty moment of silence behind her her husband laugh and say to someone, "Division of labor," and a man laughed.
But at the end when the elbows and hands and bottom and knees came free, slip, blip, grind no bump — and she only much later thought of the gunk draining out then, and nothing seemed to matter except the glistening baby that was younger than last month and was a baby beyond boy or girl, beyond not before, and then without strangeness nothing at all for quite a long moment seemed to matter — or be between them — not even the baby that was O.K., she’d looked at her husband behind the young doctor’s hands and she found tears on her husband’s seedy unshaven cheeks, tears from the wonderful vagueness in his eyes and on his forehead too, as if he had wept upward into his thick, bristly hair. But later she remembered what she could remember, as if she might have receded into her own breathing and part of her was never to be seen again, and knew he told the truth when he said it hurt him to see her in pain, and then she recalled those tears upon his forehead and saw that of course they were sweat. And she knew that while he did not look at her while he waited down there between her legs with the doctor, the tears that he could not keep from running out onto his face were not only for his daughter, because they did not — she was sure, she was sure — fill up his eyes and drop onto his skin until suddenly he had looked up past the appearing baby to look her in the eye — us, us — as he had not been able to down there at that end of the delivery table before now.
And so, weeks later, balancing her fresh-brimmed daiquiri against the poor flippancy she’d heard her husband speak behind her, she did not turn to look him angrily in the eye.