misbehavior that would escape notice in the ordinary household.
Once the cult, as with a family group that has slipped to this level of dependent obedience, has witnessed and
participated in ritual punishment that threatens life, then the line has been crossed. Identifying with each other, they see themselves dying also, so suicide has become mentally acceptable. Death has lost its horror.
What is going on inside the cult leader's mind as this occurs? This is best understood if one contemplates the family
that every neighborhood knows. The husband insists his wife stay home, and becomes furious when she engages in
social activities outside the home. His boys either become little mirrors of their father or leave home in angry
rebellion. His daughters cannot date, and in all likelihood have been sexually abused in some manner. He chums
around with a group of friends who think nothing is amiss in this setting, and give the frightened family members no
hope of rescue. If the authorities are called at any point, the disturbance is called a domestic issue. What happens when http://www.zetatalk2.com/beinghum/b06.htm[2/5/2012 1:28:22 PM]
ZetaTalk: Suicide Cults
this father feels a threat he cannot control? He would rather destroy what he possesses than lose it.
All rights reserved: ZetaTalk@ZetaTalk.com
http://www.zetatalk2.com/beinghum/b06.htm[2/5/2012 1:28:22 PM]
ZetaTalk: Coupling
Mail this Pageto a Friend.
ZetaTalk: Coupling
Note: written by Jul 15, 1995
Entities reincarnate into both sexes in almost all cases. The ability to perform effectively in the male or female role has little to do with any permanent sexual orientation, but rather speaks to the creativity and adaptability of the entity. The most macho male may be in the next life a cloying, clinging female, playing both roles superbly. How is it that some
entities incarnate exclusively into one role or another? If the birthing envoys find a rigidity in the entity and conclude that other lessons should precede addressing the rigidity, this situation may be allowed to continue. A matter of
priorities. Some entities have a greater need for physical control, to be in charge, and when male move forward nicely
with their other lessons. If placed in female form they are distracted endlessly with the control issue. Other entities
have a reluctance to be responsible, the one in charge, and likewise cannot proceed with their lesson if in the male
role. Does homosexuality reflect this reluctance? Without a doubt, but this is not the only cause of homosexuality.
During coupling, a man and a woman bring many elements to the mating. For instance, their physical needs, which
can include not only sexual hungers but shelter and food and comfort. A man weary from work is not inclined to
romance his sweetheart, and a woman worried about being tossed out of the house by the landlord is not going to be
responsive to advances. Taking care of each other's physical needs is the first rule of coupling. In human society men
and women are expected to fulfill different roles, and this goes beyond the inclinations that nature bestows. The male
is stronger, fiercer, more adventurous, and as he is not the one to be pregnant or nursing, not only is best suited to be the hunter or wage earner but in most societies is expected to be thus. Need this be so? Of course not. If the couple
prefers to switch roles, whose business is it but theirs, but these situations, which would be worked out by the couple
in a blink of an eye, become an endless battle when friends, family, church, co-workers, and the rule of law poke their
nose into the marriage. The second rule of coupling is to exclude all but the couple from decisions affecting the couple, excepted only when children join them and are old enough to express concerns. Of course, the council then becomes
larger.
Disappointments often enter into coupling, where she hoped for more companionship, or he more sex, or she more
travel, or he more free time. Successful coupling is not based on the absence of these issues, but on the ability to bring them forward for resolution. Does she sulk, or does he bury himself in the paper? Does she communicate by burning
the toast, and he by failing to take out the garbage? Why not talk about it? The third rule of coupling is to have no
secrets, so that matters can be dealt with frankly. So much better for her to tell him she wishes they could travel
together as she loves sharing discoveries with him, watching his face light up, and for him to tell her he finds a hike
clears his head of troubles so he can really listen to her at supper, as he doesn't want to disappoint her by being
distracted. Or is burnt toast and piles of garbage better?
All rights reserved: ZetaTalk@ZetaTalk.com
http://www.zetatalk2.com/beinghum/b35.htm[2/5/2012 1:28:23 PM]
ZetaTalk: Coupling
http://www.zetatalk2.com/beinghum/b35.htm[2/5/2012 1:28:23 PM]
ZetaTalk: Homosexuality
Mail this Pageto a Friend.
ZetaTalk: Homosexuality
Note: written on Aug 15, 1995
Human parents place a great importance on sexuality, as so much in life keys off one's orientation. Will one have
grandchildren, will the son make the varsity team, will the daughter marry well and be able to provide for her aging
parents - all hinge on the child expressing an interest in the opposite sex, or more correctly, in being comfortable in
one's birth sex. The latter is almost always the cause of homosexuality, but the cause is overlooked as the symptom,
pairing with the same sex, is so distressing to parents. Long before the young child develops the habit of releasing
sexual tension with others of the same sex a struggle has been going on - whether to compete with the parent of the
same sex, whether to assume that role. Where these thoughts go through most young minds, there are other factors at
play. Is the parent of the opposite sex warm and attractive or cold and repellent, is the young child accepted or
rewarded when assuming the role of the birth sex, or punished in some subtle manner.
Classmates also play a role, although a child comfortably grounded within the nuclear family will almost never turn to
homosexuality as a result of bullying by playmates. The opposite is true. Regardless of the school environment, a child
distressed within the nuclear family by the concept of stepping into the shoes that the birth sex requires will almost
never put these concerns aside when away from home.
Are homosexuals born? No, although the preferences of the incarnating spirit play a small role. Physical differences
pointed to as a cause are a reaction, as the degree to which the mind can influence physical development is little
understood. As with any habit that humans develop, change requires that the cause, and not the symptom, be
examined. It does little good to berate homosexuals, who have not so much chosen their lifestyle as been driven to it,
and at a very young age. The toddler, or pre-school child, is scarcely making an intellectual choice. They are avoiding