distress, punishment, and in many cases what they see as crushing and oppressive situations, or even, in their childish
eyes, as possible death. Psychiatrists are quite aware of these scenarios, and explain them well.
Do we, the Zetas, have homosexuals among us? Most certainly, as the dramas that incarnation presents are the same in
all life forms. The sex drive will take a direction, and habits formed young are hard to break. It's as simple as that. Do we approve? Let's put it this way - we do not disapprove. We, in the Service-to-Other, spend our time caring for, not
berating, each other.
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ZetaTalk: Those Who Mourn
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ZetaTalk: Those Who Mourn
Note: written by Jul 15, 1995
One does not let go of a loved one just because they have died. They live still, in the hearts and minds of those who
remember, miss them, or have unfinished business. Grief is most acute where the loved one filled a void not yet filled.
The side of the bed, where once a warm body breathed and snored, now cold and empty. No one to talk to, share with,
fuss over. Shattered plans, with the one, perhaps, that was to make them possible now gone. The grieving one feels
bereft, deserted, unloved and frightened. They must start anew on many fronts, but how? So many comforts, assumed
to be solid, now vaporized. Some ache for a long time, and if the ache cannot be filled, many follow the beloved into
death. A type of suicide, as chronic grief kills.
Is this good? Your therapists tell you it is important to grieve, to get it out and dispel it, and they are, of course,
correct. Repressed emotions poison. It is the next stage that is most often neglected - rebuilding a life. The dutiful wife, placing flowers on a grave year after year, has not filled her life with the care of others. Are there no others about who need her care? She has not looked, or noticed. Refusal to rebuild a life is seldom what it is purported to be - devotion.
This is a cover for what is really going on - reluctance and denial. Rebuilding means stepping into new territory,
testing and proving oneself, taking risks, facing rebuffs, getting burned. So much easier to take flowers to the grave
and get admiring nods and smiles from the community. So devoted.
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ZetaTalk: Repressed Emotions
ZetaTalk: Stress Diseases
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ZetaTalk: Autism Rise
ZetaTalk: Psychosis
ZetaTalk: Anxiety
ZetaTalk: Denial
ZetaTalk: Bad News
ZetaTalk: Certainty
ZetaTalk: Answers
ZetaTalk: The Insecure
ZetaTalk: Disaster Reactions
ZetaTalk: Life: Downside Up
ZetaTalk: When Things Go Wrong
ZetaTalk: Leadership, Earned
ZetaTalk: Pending Partners
ZetaTalk: Soul Personalities
ZetaTalk: Physical Fitness
ZetaTalk: Walking Erect
ZetaTalk: Auras
ZetaTalk: Curing Cancer
ZetaTalk: Alzheimers
ZetaTalk: Anorexia
ZetaTalk: Pain
ZetaTalk: Grieving
ZetaTalk: Addictions
ZetaTalk: Music
ZetaTalk: Getting High
ZetaTalk: Junk Food
ZetaTalk: Pets
ZetaTalk: Chess Matches
ZetaTalk: Self Respect
ZetaTalk: Spanking
ZetaTalk: Missing Children
ZetaTalk: Violent Games
ZetaTalk: Fear
ZetaTalk: Dangers
ZetaTalk: Self Destructive
ZetaTalk: Killer Instinct
ZetaTalk: The Grudge
ZetaTalk: Mother and Child
ZetaTalk: JonBenet Ramsey
ZetaTalk: Humor
ZetaTalk: Conspiracies
ZetaTalk: Ukraine Plague
ZetaTalk: Abortion
ZetaTalk: Suicide
ZetaTalk: Vegetarian
ZetaTalk: Reverence for Life
ZetaTalk: Indestructible Soul
ZetaTalk: Chakras
ZetaTalk: Reincarnation
ZetaTalk: Past Lives
ZetaTalk: Near Death Experience
ZetaTalk: Ghosts
ZetaTalk: Out-Of- Body
ZetaTalk: Walk-in
ZetaTalk: Star Child
ZetaTalk: Aware
ZetaTalk: Star Children Examples
ZetaTalk: Possession
ZetaTalk: Body Senses
ZetaTalk: Star Seeded
ZetaTalk: Meditation
ZetaTalk: Shamanism
ZetaTalk: Carlos Castaneda
ZetaTalk: Premonitions
ZetaTalk: Poltergeist
ZetaTalk: Hauntings
ZetaTalk: Psychics
ZetaTalk: Telepathy
ZetaTalk: Sleep
ZetaTalk: Dreams
ZetaTalk: Faith Healers
ZetaTalk: Yin-Yang
ZetaTalk: Karma
ZetaTalk: Archetypes
ZetaTalk: Werewolves
ZetaTalk: Cultural Influences
ZetaTalk: Heaven's Gate
ZetaTalk: Right Religion
ZetaTalk: Holy Wars
ZetaTalk: Racial Hatred
ZetaTalk: United Nations
ZetaTalk: Capitalism
ZetaTalk: Scientific Theories
ZetaTalk: Human Infallibility
ZetaTalk: Independent Thinking
ZetaTalk: Context
ZetaTalk: Event Timing
ZetaTalk: Categorization
ZetaTalk: Best Intentions
ZetaTalk: Hippocratic Oath
ZetaTalk: Career Choices
ZetaTalk: Status Symbols
ZetaTalk: Get Rich Quick
ZetaTalk: Politics
ZetaTalk: Taking Responsibility
ZetaTalk: Commitments
ZetaTalk: Scapegoats
ZetaTalk: Holocaust Denial
ZetaTalk: Forgiving
ZetaTalk: Multiple Personality
ZetaTalk: Dowsing
ZetaTalk: Gifted Autistics
ZetaTalk: Suicide Cults
ZetaTalk: Coupling
ZetaTalk: Homosexuality
ZetaTalk: Those Who Mourn